Topic: Does true love and financial support combine or foolishness
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Sat 02/17/18 04:53 AM
Anything is possible! Maybe not online.

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Sat 02/17/18 05:55 AM

Can a girl expect to fall in love with a man (ps: not below 36) who will support her emotionally as well as financially and let her pursue her dreams.... or is it pure foolishness to expect something like this ?


Hummm expect it hell no..... but it could happen...

What is foolishness is to expect that someone else will support you financially while you go after your dreams~~~

As far as emotionally anyone your with if they love you and you love them emotional support should be part of that love...

But one that follows their dreams on their own and make their own way will attack more of those that are following their dreams as well and would be more supportive within their dreams..


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Sat 02/17/18 07:16 AM
Edited by Toodygirl5 on Sat 02/17/18 07:17 AM
I usually seek out men who support themselves. I support myself and deserve an equal partner. Love gives many things: help, money, food, shelter, advice, comfort, understanding, and more. Love is an Action word. When we give love it is manifested as a selfless, sacrificial gift intended to bless and make better the experience of the one you love. :heart:

I never want a stingy , cheap or lazy man, that wants a woman to support him.
Never had one and don't want to start now.

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Sat 02/17/18 07:16 AM
Edited by Toodygirl5 on Sat 02/17/18 07:20 AM
Many people don't know what love is or what commitment is.

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Sat 02/17/18 10:47 AM

Many people don't know what love is or what commitment is.


Totally agree to it

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Sat 02/17/18 11:12 AM
I will support myself and make my own dreams come true. Someone that cheers me on is a bonus

Frhe's photo
Sat 02/17/18 12:19 PM
What about equal rights
Women and Men
If a man can support a woman, and the women claims equal rights on everything then nothing wrong with that
I’m able to be sugar man if some woman could support me, and fulfill all of my desires!!

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Sat 02/17/18 12:34 PM

Can a girl expect to fall in love with a man (ps: not below 36) who will support her emotionally as well as financially and let her pursue her dreams.... or is it pure foolishness to expect something like this ?


I like to think any loving couple will support each other emotionally.

I think everyone hopes that a loving partner would be eager to help them make their dreams come true, especially if they are financially able.

Just be mindful that the other partner would be hoping for the same level of devotion too.

If you meet this paragon of a man, I hope you take the time to consider his emotional support and what financial sacrifices you would be willing to make to see his dreams come true as well.

If you are as willing as he is, then you may really have something. flowerforyou


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Sat 02/17/18 01:11 PM
only if you find yourself a sugar daddy!

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Sat 02/17/18 02:02 PM
Edited by Narlycarnk on Sat 02/17/18 02:04 PM
For survey purposes, I will say that I would want to be a source of financial security and support for them. I only have one life that I can do things like that in and I do not want to waste my life. I would want her to be loving though. Personally, loyalty is not that important to me. It is integrity that matters and doing un to others as they would have you do un to them. Anything that starts has to end sometime, whether it be two weeks after getting to know each other or on the deathbed. In fact I really could care less about loyalty to me as long as she was respectful to me; it would be nice if she said something like “you can’t help me anymore, so goodbye.”

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Sat 02/17/18 02:06 PM


Can a girl expect to fall in love with a man (ps: not below 36) who will support her emotionally as well as financially and let her pursue her dreams.... or is it pure foolishness to expect something like this ?


I like to think any loving couple will support each other emotionally.

I think everyone hopes that a loving partner would be eager to help them make their dreams come true, especially if they are financially able.

Just be mindful that the other partner would be hoping for the same level of devotion too.

If you meet this paragon of a man, I hope you take the time to consider his emotional support and what financial sacrifices you would be willing to make to see his dreams come true as well.

If you are as willing as he is, then you may really have something. flowerforyou




Beautiful!

I think it would matter to most anyone for whom money is not abundant. I dont know why it would matter much to those for which money is 'no object'.

I would think it would be more an issue of whether the partner is putting effort into SOMETHING, whether it brings a financial return or not.

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Sat 02/17/18 03:49 PM
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Sat 02/17/18 05:08 PM

For survey purposes, I will say that I would want to be a source of financial security and support for them. I only have one life that I can do things like that in and I do not want to waste my life. I would want her to be loving though. Personally, loyalty is not that important to me. It is integrity that matters and doing un to others as they would have you do un to them. Anything that starts has to end sometime, whether it be two weeks after getting to know each other or on the deathbed. In fact I really could care less about loyalty to me as long as she was respectful to me; it would be nice if she said something like “you can’t help me anymore, so goodbye.”


WOW! You sound like you do not have very much if any at all, respect for yourself. If you don't have a person's loyalty, you have nothing. You will be used, abused and thrown away like yesterdays trash. You can't have a woman's love if you don't have her respect. You can't have a woman's respect if you don't have her loyalty.And, integrity, If a person can't be loyal to you, they have no integrity.

I don't mean to be disrespectful to you. But, if you really believe what you posted, you're a doormat. With that way of thinking, many women will treat you that way. And many of the ones who won't treat you that way, will walk away from you and leave you for someone else. Because they don't respect you. Again, not trying to be an azzhole to you. Just being honest.

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Sat 02/17/18 06:01 PM
True love for what/which - another human, or an easy life ?

The only value / currency in love is the want to be together, regardless.

If my budget only allows water to drink, and 2 minute noodles and baked beans to eat, with no travel, or eating out, or entertainment money available, then I would expect someone who truly loved me to make the best of that situation, and not expect to send me broke or homeless to keep them happy.

A lot of love can be shared at little or no expense, if that love is genuine.

The problem is very few people are genuine; society brings us up to crave consumerism and keeping up with 'the Jones's'.

I did once give in and support a girl'friend', but as soon as I was sent broke by her, she brought home a new boyfriend and threw me out of the bedroom.

Love for what ?

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Sun 02/18/18 11:16 AM


For survey purposes, I will say that I would want to be a source of financial security and support for them. I only have one life that I can do things like that in and I do not want to waste my life. I would want her to be loving though. Personally, loyalty is not that important to me. It is integrity that matters and doing un to others as they would have you do un to them. Anything that starts has to end sometime, whether it be two weeks after getting to know each other or on the deathbed. In fact I really could care less about loyalty to me as long as she was respectful to me; it would be nice if she said something like “you can’t help me anymore, so goodbye.”


WOW! You sound like you do not have very much if any at all, respect for yourself. If you don't have a person's loyalty, you have nothing. You will be used, abused and thrown away like yesterdays trash. You can't have a woman's love if you don't have her respect. You can't have a woman's respect if you don't have her loyalty.And, integrity, If a person can't be loyal to you, they have no integrity.

I don't mean to be disrespectful to you. But, if you really believe what you posted, you're a doormat. With that way of thinking, many women will treat you that way. And many of the ones who won't treat you that way, will walk away from you and leave you for someone else. Because they don't respect you. Again, not trying to be an azzhole to you. Just being honest.


What is the mind other than an abstract pattern created by neurons. What is the body other than other than an action executed by the DNA of the human race? Yes that is exactly how I feel. Maybe I am a doormat, but I have purpose. I don’t get to decide what purpose is because otherwise it would not be purpose. I was made to be loved though, everyone needs love even the crust of the dust.

Thanks for the thoughts Charles.

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Sun 02/18/18 04:29 PM



For survey purposes, I will say that I would want to be a source of financial security and support for them. I only have one life that I can do things like that in and I do not want to waste my life. I would want her to be loving though. Personally, loyalty is not that important to me. It is integrity that matters and doing un to others as they would have you do un to them. Anything that starts has to end sometime, whether it be two weeks after getting to know each other or on the deathbed. In fact I really could care less about loyalty to me as long as she was respectful to me; it would be nice if she said something like “you can’t help me anymore, so goodbye.”


WOW! You sound like you do not have very much if any at all, respect for yourself. If you don't have a person's loyalty, you have nothing. You will be used, abused and thrown away like yesterdays trash. You can't have a woman's love if you don't have her respect. You can't have a woman's respect if you don't have her loyalty.And, integrity, If a person can't be loyal to you, they have no integrity.

I don't mean to be disrespectful to you. But, if you really believe what you posted, you're a doormat. With that way of thinking, many women will treat you that way. And many of the ones who won't treat you that way, will walk away from you and leave you for someone else. Because they don't respect you. Again, not trying to be an azzhole to you. Just being honest.


What is the mind other than an abstract pattern created by neurons. What is the body other than other than an action executed by the DNA of the human race? Yes that is exactly how I feel. Maybe I am a doormat, but I have purpose. I don’t get to decide what purpose is because otherwise it would not be purpose. I was made to be loved though, everyone needs love even the crust of the dust.

Thanks for the thoughts Charles.

A kind and good doormat is hard to come by these days. I hope you find someone who doesn’t want to step on you and you realise that she is what you deserve. Good luck :thumbsup:

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Sun 02/18/18 05:40 PM
I will support myself and make my own dreams come true. Someone that cheers me on is a bonus



i agree☺

Narlycarnk's photo
Sun 02/18/18 05:58 PM
Thanks SSoul
You are always kind and so thoughtful. You surely are well loved by anyone you talk to.
:heart:

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Sun 02/18/18 05:59 PM

Thanks SSoul
You are always kind and so thoughtful. You surely are well loved by anyone you talk to.
:heart:

That was a kind thing to say. Thank you :angel:

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Sun 02/18/18 06:39 PM

Can a girl expect to fall in love with a man (ps: not below 36) who will support her emotionally as well as financially and let her pursue her dreams.... or is it pure foolishness to expect something like this ?


interesting...up to now, my experience has been that love has nothing at all to do with my expectations...it happened regardless of whether i wanted it or did not want it or blessed it or cursed it or swore it would never happen again ...and it happened with someone penniless and with someone wealthy and someone who matched a made up list and with someone who satisfied very little of my list...hahaha...the cheeky thing...love seemed to care not one bit about my expectations...

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