It's seem a 30 year old man will be all over a woman that a 50 year old man thinks isn't attractive enough.

If it's just one woman younger than he it isn't a problem. If he isn't attracted to any women in their 40's, he will remain alone. At his age, his sex drive is getting lower and less a woman can do for him.

No, you got that wrong: Less HE can do for a woman when his erm... thang goes down... Which starts to happen with most men over 40. Still comes up, but the umph goes out of it.
Men call that "I finally have control!"
I guess that makes them feel better about it.

unless you have slept with most men crystal .. you are making assumptions

are you trying to tell me that you are the winner .. that you already have scepticsls heart

sure beach ...he is allowed to be picky but as his sister .. I am a little disappointed in his comment .

I have a single brother who is 51... quite handsome and athletic . However I worry he will remain single again forever .., he told me he met a woman last week who had a body to die for but her face looked old .. she was 40... He said the date went well and they seemed to get along .. but he was just not attracted enough .. , I gave him a sisterly slap and told him to get real !!!!

Is it unrealistic to want the total package .,,

i understand preferences and not wanting to settle ., but being realistic also has its benefits .

sorry goof but blondey works the night shift so you need to eat earlier or much later

Oh the innuendo fun to be had with this comment.

You beat me to it Beach.

I guess either the woman just wasn't it for him or he simply isn't ready for real love.
I know a woman who looks worse than the Grand Canyon, and in this case it is not a joke, she really truly looks 20 yrs older than she is and I don't think I've ever seen a woman with so many (deep) wrinkles and ridges in her face.
Yet, she found great love some 3 years ago, and a good-looking man at that, and he proposed within a year. As far as I know they're still happily married.
Meaning... if a woman really makes a man feel 'it', her face looking old doesn't matter one bit. The same goes for a body by the way. Most women don't have a super-model body, nor do men. Yet they do find love.

So either she didn't make him feel that way or -and I think it is this- he is too picky meaning he isn't ready for true love, too superficial, still controlled by ego stuff etc.

What you can do? Send him to a personal development course, hihi. Or, if he himself is bothered by his single-status, sign him up for one of David Wygant's workshops for men on finding love.

You don't need to sleep with most men, you just gotta talk to a lot of women And read a lot. Like for instance on anatomy or Kegels.
I think it's to do with people sitting on their rear end too much these days for work. That doesn't do the PC muscle any good and that will have an effect on a man's performance ability. Quite logical this gets worse when a man gets older as everything will loose it's umph when you get older.
Not unlike men saying women's boobs begin to sag, and conveniently forgetting that a man's boobs do the exact same thing -even when they don't have moobs.

Yes, it's perhaps a shallow thing to say "outloud" but to be brutally honest (and maybe equally as shallow) I see "people" 10 or more years my Sr. who have consistently taken care of themselves who are incredibly attractive. I have also seen people 10 or more my Jr. who may have recently gotten into shape but are haggered by hard living in their early years. At my age personality and je nais se quoi goes a long way, but attraction is attraction and hard to quantify.