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Topic: Cheating men
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Tue 06/12/18 05:13 AM
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Easttowest72's photo
Tue 06/12/18 05:50 AM

I know a gal, professional, educated and single who not only goes out with married men.. but seeks them.

I asked her once.. why?.. her reply.. because they are safe

Don't really know what that means, but that was her response.


Some women enjoy being a home wrecker. It's like a sport to them. I've heard men say they didn't have women after them till they got married. Some men will take a woman to the bar with them because it will get them more attention.
Think about it. If women did the right thing, men couldn't cheat.

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Tue 06/12/18 06:22 AM

I know a gal, professional, educated and single who not only goes out with married men.. but seeks them.

I asked her once.. why?.. her reply.. because they are safe

Don't really know what that means, but that was her response.


That kinda makes sense if you think about it. She's likely not to catch anything undesirable in her pants if the guy is married as oppose to a serial dater.

Cleverchatter's photo
Wed 09/12/18 08:59 AM
I was a serial cheater for years. My gf is emotionally abusive (has been verified by counselor) and to cope I manifested a sexual addiction. Now that doesnt make it right and I have reformed while still stuck with her. I found that cheating not only hurt her but was very unhealthy for me as well. Taking out the chance of contracting one of the many STIs it is hard to keep stories straight, the stress of being found out etc.. wears you down. Plus I found there really wasnt the connection there with random partners to fully enjoy the experience.
Have I tried to leave her? Yes. Does she know I'm no longer interested and want to leave? Yes. Does she accept this and want to separate civilly? No. She threatens, cries, begs, promises to change and uses sex. Now does that justify cheating? No. However it does make a poor decision seem easier to follow thru with.

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Wed 09/12/18 09:29 AM

I was a serial cheater for years. My gf is emotionally abusive (has been verified by counselor) and to cope I manifested a sexual addiction. Now that doesnt make it right and I have reformed while still stuck with her. I found that cheating not only hurt her but was very unhealthy for me as well. Taking out the chance of contracting one of the many STIs it is hard to keep stories straight, the stress of being found out etc.. wears you down. Plus I found there really wasnt the connection there with random partners to fully enjoy the experience.
Have I tried to leave her? Yes. Does she know I'm no longer interested and want to leave? Yes. Does she accept this and want to separate civilly? No. She threatens, cries, begs, promises to change and uses sex. Now does that justify cheating? No. However it does make a poor decision seem easier to follow thru with.





For your well-being, you need to break the relationship and all future contact with her. You are enabling her sickness.

You are worth more, and don't need to be treated badly. Your worry should be the damage it is doing to YOU. You are not responsible for her behavior, no matter how sorry you feel for her. Every minute you're with her is robbing you of real joy in your life.

Depending on the home ownership/apartment lease, one of you needs to leave. If she is not on your mortgage or leasing contract, you can make her leave with a restraining order. If both names are on the housing arrangement, then you should just leave. FOR YOURSELF. You are not obligated to give her notice.

YooHann's photo
Sun 09/16/18 04:42 AM
i think he just looking for something, and when he done, he will start yo cheating..

DaveakaDavid's photo
Thu 09/20/18 03:18 AM
Some people have no conscience it’s not just men, my exwife was like that. There are people , like me who just couldn’t do it & those that do will do it again, they’re actually not bothered by it!

luxa's photo
Thu 09/20/18 03:33 AM
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Thu 09/20/18 04:10 AM
You "chose" - to get involved with a cheater, yet you're trying to blame the cheater for cheating?

This would not have had to happened, if you did not hastily get involved so quickly but then you also should be held accountable for your own actions - we'ren't you behaving like a mature responsible adult when you "hooked up" with your chosen stud?

Sighs

Alex's photo
Fri 04/16/21 04:51 PM
You should take a picture of any government ID of any man you are dating on the first date and hire a private detective to check his marital status.

This is done very quick and very cheap.

If he is married, you don't need to waste your time on a second date.

Use modern technology and you will be fine.


Jerimiah's photo
Tue 05/11/21 03:48 AM
you know I'm actually a father of four and I've been husband and I was afraid that the very young very young age so when I can say this that those men are not born as lovers they want to love they try to love they do it all the wrong ways before they actually learn how to do it right and usually take me by then living either lost the loves that they should have had her it's roughly too late so in case scenario is you find that good companion for an older couple but if men could just accept the fact that it's okay to be a bit more sensitive unless macho and learn your emotions tournament that way you don't yell and cuss at somebody whenever you get upset don't call her a ***** or anything like that the day that you can Master the art of talking calmly and speaking call me in a low room voice while being seriously pissed off that's the day you can take on the world

Jerimiah's photo
Tue 05/11/21 03:51 AM
but don't try to take on The world though it's dead learn your basics hone your skills and learn to love yourself first so you can truly love that one later and if you just keep your I see yourself in your mind you know from wandering you won't cheat like as much I just have a little bit of noble true honor silver reason gone if we can just all go back to the what it was like in the old days or people gave us in relationships it's the romance is gone that's why men cheat because they have no connection with what if I could have sensuality everybody want to be a ****ing gangster sad but I never cheated is a statement that very few people can make

enigma's photo
Sun 05/23/21 09:56 AM
cheating is seeking validation for playing out side the box. it takes 2 to cheat, and three to make it interesting. there are book after book on the subject. bottom line, it happens, split up and move on. if you spend your time moping, being miserable or vindictive, you are wasting your time. there is no valid reason for or against. the cheater has already proved they have accepted the forbidden fruit. I have cheated in my past, more often than not. i don't need to dwell on my past. selfish you say? I feel I did them a favor, admitting my faults and moving on. a loveless relationship is toxic enough. sorry that I want every one to be happy, and finally be with the right person.

Sheen's photo
Sun 05/30/21 02:36 AM
Cheating hurts when you really love hard it causes emotional trauma to any gender. So to anyone in relationship w/ bf/gf if you don't love the person anymore just say the truth and be honest.

Michael's photo
Sun 06/20/21 06:55 AM
Men who cheat are the enemy of men like me because they are stealing from the the dating pool. they are selfish and no better than a common thief. that is why adultery is a crime

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Sat 07/03/21 01:14 AM
If a married man cheats on a woman then that’s no good because why get married in the first place when you’re happily married you’re supposed to stay loyal to that person you took all the files at church when you first get married but then a man cheats anyone that is bad but then a woman cheats on a man that is bad boy get married it’s a waste of money and it doesn’t make much sense

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Sat 07/17/21 03:55 AM
cheating is a disease not curable.it will rest sometime and comes back again

Brad's photo
Tue 07/20/21 03:15 AM
I’ve had my share of that offline too, Tanika. It does suck!

It’s also sad that faithful men have to suffer our suspicion because of it.

I'm just glad a few in people jumped on and pointed out that its not all men that cheet and are pigs. I was starting
to get a bit wound up.. women are
I'll say equally as bad for the sake of keeping the peace. the bottom line is that every one is their own free person. . it's not realistic to expect someone else to walk the same Line as you you want them to. . . highly unllikely for any couple to go the full distance . learn to be more free with each other guys. . enjoy while it's fun and let it go when it's time. simple as FK.

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