Yeah, in English it's tricky as I don't think there's 2 proper words for the 'bad' judgement and the normal, healthy judging?

Adding another one:

A man who's a die-hard fisher.

A woman better make a good judgement if she wants a good partner.

IMO

I was thinking of personality and what you can't deal with in a partner. One of the first things I thought of was, not someone who has a bad temper. I'm kind of a calm, quiet person. I grew up in good house, that could get busy, but no yelling going on. I'm used to that and I like it. That's not judging.

We live in a world Where everyone hurts everyone and if you have the courage to express your opinion someone will be right behind you to judge you without Even knowing you. Women rule. Cool. Thumbs up for that.

A woman can survive without a man.
And a man can survive without a woman.

I didn't say they couldn't!

But many choose to have a partner!

I f you don't that's your choice. It's all about choice !

It's not about surviving... I didn't come here this life to survive, I came here to have abundance, achieve and do great things, to be happy and fulfilled.
Now you first have to get to the stage of feeling that way on your own -which is miles away from 'surviving mode', and then you don't need a partner, but you want a partner as it simply feels so good to share all these wonderful things in life with a mate. You then add to each other's lives, make it even more wonderful.
Life is about love and people aren't hermits, people have a natural instinct to want to be with someone else and other people.
We all feel happier when we can share the wonderful things in our life with someone else. It's the icing on the cake.
People who don't feel that way have gotten 'damaged' by something in the past and haven't dealt with that and then choose to not go there anymore based on that old pain.

I must disagree. Having a mate at times can be very enjoyable and fulfilling. Having that partner all the time can become overbearing and adversely affect the life choices you would otherwise make. Finding someone with an acceptable balance of together time with private time and space is the challenge! While most all want other people in our lives, not everyone wants a mate as you describe.

You have got to be kidding!!! What a pile of drivel.




OOwwww... Motown... now you're in my bad books, and I really liked you


And I drive a Corvette.

Phew, saved by the bell! You're in the good book again :)

Please don't let her develop a facial twitch

Life is existing plain and simple.
Everything.., everything else is how we go about it.

When ya find yerself stripped of everything laying there fighting for the next heartbeat ya get a true reality of what life is. If you find yerself doing that alone it sets the reality of life deeper in you.

What you have, what you do, who you love, who loves you and all the gloss that we heap on top has value but it isn't life. Its what you do during life.

Absolutely this

You have got to be kidding!!! What a pile of drivel.




OOwwww... Motown... now you're in my bad books, and I really liked you


And I drive a Corvette.

Phew, saved by the bell! You're in the good book again :)

I don't see how that is different from what I'm saying.

What you describe when you're close to death is being in survival mode, praying to the god & goddess you won't die because you want the juicy part of life still, the joy, the pleasure, the happiness, the sharing, the love.
Exactly all the things I was talking about.
Maybe some ppl need a NDE to realize that, I don't.

We came here into this life on this planet to experience joy and love, not to suffer. Christianity may make you believe so, doesn't mean they're right.
The old matrix / grid wants you to believe so, they're not right.
All they're after is power.

We came here to live, love, create, not to suffer.
I think even the bible will say that, if you got a good version of it, hihi.

double. Dunno how I did that, hihi

I actually think most everyone does want a partner the way I describe it.
Fact you disagree is fair enough, no skin of my nose. But I think you don't get what I'm describing at all, look at it through your own filters, which clearly are very different from mine.
Seems you think I'm talking about being Siamese twins or something, that's not what I said, not what I want, not what is healthy.
In a healthy, interdependent relationship -which is what I was talking about- both parties have personal freedom in the amount and way that suits the couple.
The way I see a healthy relationship is that you both have your own things in life that you do still, not everything with a partner. Maybe even a short holiday or weekend without your partner if you like or if it is about an interest the other doesn't share.
Knowing & realizing you don't own your partner, being happy and grateful they're in your life, and each day choose to stay in your life, and you in theirs.
That's the way relationships will be like more and more, this is what people are looking for, not the 'married and glued to the hip and not having any freedom' model. That's obsolete.

Me? Wot twitch?

Not you but you should really get that eye twitch looked at