It is an amazing feeling when a man and woman will find a common language at various levels of life

for intelligent people... a good intelligent, interesting and witty conversation is fulfilling. add a touch of enlightenment and you have a wonderful mix.
some people have the conversation skills of a tree stump. there's not much enjoyment when you have to keep repeating yourself or explain every single rudimentary subject.

when searching for a relationship match its important not to ignore this.
physical attraction/compatibility is okay for short term but if you want the relationship to last there must be intelligence attraction.

it doesn't mean you both must be smart but you should both be near the same level of intelligence. its called 'harmony'.
Choose Wisely

It is a beautiful and impressive point of view. What is so important that if both, woman and man searching the same in their level of intelligence attraction this relationship can exist maybe for a long time, I think.

Thank you so much for your very interesting point of view

Yeah that's on my wish list also a sense of humor, looks meh......cause I dated a man who was very good looking
(lots of co-workers commented on how good looking he was ) buff body but as far as having a conversation it was like talking to a brick wall.

We see so many beautiful women in the company of a man in whom you may not fall in love with at first sight, but these women fell in love with their sense of humor and intelligent outlook on the world.

Thank you so much for your answer. What you wrote allowed me to see that we often don't notice what is really very important

<------Living proof that even a "relatively" intelligent man can still suffer from rectal-cranial inversion.

Please, can you explain what do you mean?

lol

Wha?

I believe that I speak for all of us extraterrestrials when I say . . .



(If you are not a native of the USA, then you might not understand the joke.)

This joke I understand, because I was watching Alf a years ago

My hero LOL

To all native Americans: We do get series and movies that happen to be made in the US too you know!
Even the crappy ones

A good conversation with a man with a brain is definitely a must!
But I also want to be able to laugh with him. Some people are serious only. So he should be a well-rounded man, just not literally :D

True

A smart man is not necessarily an intelligent man .. are you referring to academic intelligence ??? How do you define “smart” ???

The spoken word, while vastly overrated,
accounts for only a mere 11% of all communication.

You are right " a smart man is not necessarily an intelligent man".

For me, it is not about academic intelligence and well-educated people with a high IQ.
A smart man what is meant for me. If my hobbies are physics and astronomy it isn't mean that man has to know all objects in the sky.
It means that he can hold a conversation in such a way that it intrigues a woman, these are words, gestures, a smile in the eyes that make us feel good and at ease in the company of this person. (I do not mean flirting, but conversation). A smart man is interested in the world, technological progress, life, perception of the world by a woman and a man, and the differences related to it, he is a man on a cultural level, with his interests.
I don't mean pretend eloquence, but being yourself as he is every day.

It is true

I see this Professor Teressa Bullard on the web. When she starts talking quantum theory, I fall in lub. LOL