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Topic: Marriage or Cohabitation?
Dramatic Muffin's photo
Fri 10/01/21 07:52 PM

female robots will be 100% fully 24/7 available now and more sooner
Females will no longer be needed
Men can incubate babies as we have the full DNA
women do not have


Don't we need women to supply the human egg? Or have you found a replacement for that as well?

no photo
Fri 10/01/21 07:53 PM
They will not get married as they collect money from the ex and rent from the new guy
they are with collect double income especially if children its a scam

Dramatic Muffin's photo
Fri 10/01/21 08:01 PM


What I'm seeing from my own three daughters (in their 20s) is that they have no desire to get married, possibly ever. They don't want children, either. Things have changed a lot since we were younger.

I think the trend you mentioned in your OP is becoming more common with people of all ages. Two of my sisters (one is 47, one is 50) are divorced and have been with new partners for many years (one 7 years, one 17 years). Neither of them have any plans to ever get married to their current partners. The don't see a need to.

Some of us do still believe in marriage though. It's definitely not a goal for me, but with the right person I totally would.


My son, also in his 20’s, feels the same as your daughters. He and my daughter-in-love, have lived together for years and now have a child together, my little ray of sunshine. He makes me beam!!

Dont we, at the time, marry the right person? It’s more β€œthe right now right person”.


Couldn't the same be said about any decision we make? We make choices based on the information available to us at the time.

Mark's photo
Fri 10/01/21 09:21 PM
Topic reminds me of "Logan's Run"

For many of us it's just the human condition to need companionship, intimacy, marriage is the ultimate step to that, a symbol of conviction, dedication.

Others might not need it formally symbolized.

Duttoneer's photo
Sat 10/02/21 02:10 AM
Edited by Duttoneer on Sat 10/02/21 02:13 AM

Marriage shows your commitment to each other to the world symbolically, but It does a lot more in my opinion, it's the glue that binds you together. Two people making wedding vows, promises to each other, taking on the responsibility for each other, either in a civil ceremony or inline with their religious beliefs. It is a very big step in life, deeply significant, life changing, something you want to last a lifetime.

no photo
Sat 10/02/21 03:42 AM
Having been married twice, I believe it begins with good intentions. The thing is time, and a lot of time IMO is best. I do believe marriage is sacred, but you absolutly need to KNOW the person. I have been overwhelmed with all those silly love chemicals and leaped too fast, too soon, as I am sure many have.
For me, neither is attractive anymore. I think finding a very sexy best friend and hanging out for years is my perfect mix. That way lust does not control you, but logic, desire and compatability passes the test of time. Building a foundation is imperative.

no photo
Sat 10/02/21 04:29 AM
After being married twice, I would rather co-habitat and leave legalities out of the picture.

Duttoneer's photo
Sat 10/02/21 06:06 AM

I have been married, now divorced, but I still believe in marriage. I agree you need to know each other for some time to build that foundation, and to learn a lot about each other before you make the decision to marry.

Whether it's marriage or cohabitation, nothing wrong in protecting your assets by obtaining a prenup or cohabitation agreement, the law applies in some ways whichever way you choose to live together, I would not assume it doesn't.

Rock's photo
Sat 10/02/21 07:11 AM
I'll wait until after an in-depth conversation
with my other half, before I blurt out an opinion.

Kas's photo
Sat 10/02/21 07:54 AM
What I'm seeing from my own three daughters (in their 20s) is that they have no desire to get married, possibly ever. They don't want children, either. Things have changed a lot since we were younger.

I think the trend you mentioned in your OP is becoming more common with people of all ages. Two of my sisters (one is 47, one is 50) are divorced and have been with new partners for many years (one 7 years, one 17 years). Neither of them have any plans to ever get married to their current partners. The don't see a need to.

Some of us do still believe in marriage though. It's definitely not a goal for me, but with the right person I totally would.

its easiest way to spend happy life

Kevin's photo
Sat 10/02/21 09:15 AM
Honestly, I never ever believed in the institution of marriage! Though I did get into one!
As of today's kids, wot I notice around me, in this part of the world is, they lack the seriousness that is required to get into commitment! I am also not sure, if they understand their own feelings convincingly! Though they are more intelligent than us and are doing well in their careers. I don't find them convinced about living together either!

Mr Good Guy's photo
Sat 10/02/21 09:32 AM

Honestly, I never ever believed in the institution of marriage! Though I did get into one!
As of today's kids, wot I notice around me, in this part of the world is, they lack the seriousness that is required to get into commitment! I am also not sure, if they understand their own feelings convincingly! Though they are more intelligent than us and are doing well in their careers. I don't find them convinced about living together either!
If they are doing so well, why do 52% of today's young adults still live at home? In my day, once you hit 18, you were gone which many of us did with zero regrets.

Kevin's photo
Sat 10/02/21 09:37 AM


Honestly, I never ever believed in the institution of marriage! Though I did get into one!
As of today's kids, wot I notice around me, in this part of the world is, they lack the seriousness that is required to get into commitment! I am also not sure, if they understand their own feelings convincingly! Though they are more intelligent than us and are doing well in their careers. I don't find them convinced about living together either!
If they are doing so well, why do 52% of today's young adults still live at home? In my day, once you hit 18, you were gone which many of us did with zero regrets.

This is a very interesting observation. I think the reason behind this is, they want to be emotionally dependent, they are scared of domestic responsibilities! You will also notice this trait playing a part in the dating scene - they are attracted to someone of their parents' age!

SparklingCrystal πŸ’–πŸ’Ž's photo
Sat 10/02/21 11:13 AM

female robots will be 100% fully 24/7 available now and more sooner
Females will no longer be needed
Men can incubate babies as we have the full DNA
women do not have

Sounds like you need serious therapy.
I hope you have never hurt any woman. You sound like the type...


SparklingCrystal πŸ’–πŸ’Ž's photo
Sat 10/02/21 11:16 AM

They will not get married as they collect money from the ex and rent from the new guy
they are with collect double income especially if children its a scam

Collect money from the new guy??? And where does this fantasy take place?
And yeah, quite the scam! Woman is stuck with the kids which will have a major impact on her life, finding new love, and finding a job, while the ex is off boozing and having fun with one night stands.




SparklingCrystal πŸ’–πŸ’Ž's photo
Sat 10/02/21 11:18 AM
Edited by SparklingCrystal πŸ’–πŸ’Ž on Sat 10/02/21 11:18 AM

I'll wait until after an in-depth conversation
with my other half, before I blurt out an opinion.

As we say in Dutch... a man, a man, a word, a word. In your case that'd be: better dead than wed.
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bobtail76's photo
Sat 10/02/21 06:15 PM


They will not get married as they collect money from the ex and rent from the new guy
they are with collect double income especially if children its a scam

Collect money from the new guy??? And where does this fantasy take place?
And yeah, quite the scam! Woman is stuck with the kids which will have a major impact on her life, finding new love, and finding a job, while the ex is off boozing and having fun with one night stands.






He didn't start it....at least not 70% of them
...just sayin

flowerforyou

Coldersky's photo
Sat 10/02/21 08:52 PM
female robots will be 100% fully 24/7 available now and more sooner
Females will no longer be needed
Men can incubate babies as we have the full DNA
women do not have

Ive never been married but you wont get the cow here I choose MARRIAGE He will as well, HONEY yes man has also created you a blow up doll πŸ•΄, and toys for some of us women that run into thinkers like you, touche'

Pris's photo
Mon 01/10/22 07:33 AM
It seems many of the younger generation 18 to 30 are choosing living together over marriage, maybe some of these couples have set a date and will marry later on, some will not have, and they may never marry each other.

Do you think the 21st century way relationships will go for the majority is cohabitation without a marriage commitment? Is cohabitation commitment enough in a relationship?

would you buy a house without walking through it first ?? would you buy a car without driving it first ?? it's the same with marriage , by by living together for at least a year you really truly get to know a person and after all if you can't even make it a year living with a person dealing with their personality or with their odd ways they tend to do things then marriage won't work .. u really have to know a person before you commit to a life with them and only true way you didn't know that person is to really live with them and be around them 24/7 , 2c their moods their behavior the way they live their life the way they save or spend money ECT ...my parents always told us to live with someone for at least 2 years before we marry them and they were right . my living with someone before marriage you at least know exactly what to expect there aren't any real surprises after all if someone is sloppy and you're a neat freak or if they're violent then that is good information to have before you are legally bound to them

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