Topic: is this cheating?
kirota's photo
Mon 01/07/08 02:27 PM
I thought men and women are hot all the time when I was married, but never did I get on the computer and virtually screw them on web cam.

AaronZ's photo
Mon 01/07/08 02:28 PM

You don't have to actual have sex to be cheating... If you're thinking about it and talking to someone else about it other than your partner, you're cheating.... Plain and simple!! You're obviously not talking about your partner or picturing your partner with the other person so it's cheating!!!


yeah and let me ask you somthin'

do you rub your little friend?...ever do the bathtub wall climb?...how about that for cheating...I wonder what goes on in your mind during those times....


Ohhh I know you will say somthing to defend your point of view... and we will never get any ware...well thats because you lie to yourself... and no words will change this.

* Act- Pounds ground with a stick.

Ising's photo
Mon 01/07/08 02:29 PM

I thought men and women are hot all the time when I was married, but never did I get on the computer and virtually screw them on web cam.


Exactly!! There's a big diff between thinking guys are cute and hot and actually having cyber sex with one!!!!

AaronZ's photo
Mon 01/07/08 02:30 PM

I thought men and women are hot all the time when I was married, but never did I get on the computer and virtually screw them on web cam.


this topic is not about virually screwing...

its about a girl that has no time for her boy, and is pissed because he is looking elseware...

no photo
Mon 01/07/08 02:31 PM



Okay, here's the scenario- this guy has a gf, who never has time for him, so he met this girl online and they spend hours and hours together, talking about nothing. Every so often they engage in cam 2 cam "activity". Some would say this is emotional cheating and therefore wrong, however, they have never met and more than likely never will. Also, allegedly, emotional cheating is worse than the physical act, because of the feelings involved. My questions are these: do you think what these two do is wrong, and is emotional cheating worse than physical cheating?


Wow!! Is this REALLy a "valid" question???

Has things gone this far in our society that people put up "paper walls" to try to fool themselves?

It's like a woman had been having oral sex with tons of men, but could "technically" proclaim she was a virgin.

Sorry folks..but in my opinion...that's just STUPID! noway


Oral sex is still sex. :P And if you define virginity as no genital to genital contact, then yes, she is a virgin. And there's no need to be rude, a simple yes or no would suffice.


Sorry, I was not trying to be "rude". Was not my intension at all. flowerforyou

But I call a "horse" a "horse" and couldn't care less to be "politically correct". There's an old saying.. "sometimes the truth hurts". And not trying to be rude at all here. But when a person has to ask such question as this, it tells me they have no real "common sense" (meaning you will automatically know without having to ask...just like looking at flame and knowing it will burn you if you grab it... but then asking the question, is fire hot?) So when I used the word "stupid" it was meant in its literal form..not being thrown as being "rude" or "mean".

Sorry if you took it that way. flowerforyou

AaronZ's photo
Mon 01/07/08 02:36 PM

Okay, here's the scenario- this guy has a gf, who never has time for him, so he met this girl online and they spend hours and hours together, talking about nothing. Every so often they engage in cam 2 cam.....

"activity".


Some would say this is emotional cheating and therefore wrong, however, they have never met and more than likely never will. Also, allegedly, emotional cheating is worse than the physical act, because of the feelings involved. My questions are these: do you think what these two do is wrong, and is emotional cheating worse than physical cheating?


the key word here is activity... when someone wants to prove there point they use Non committal Vague references to sway the masses… did she say screwing???

No…was she being "nice" of our feelings by not offending our Christian values by saying jerkin to the web eye!!!

No…

Again…

Read what was said..

She has no time for the boy.

She is not looking for a boyfriend she wants a possession.

Nuff said..

*act Flips 2 birds o!o o!o

stevex86's photo
Mon 01/07/08 02:40 PM

camming can lead to cheating i know


Wanna cam?

jtip1977's photo
Mon 01/07/08 02:41 PM
I say if you keep it from your partner......then it has to be cheating. If you don't want them to know about it, then you must think you're doing something wrong. Therefore you are cheating.


stevex86's photo
Mon 01/07/08 02:44 PM
Edited by stevex86 on Mon 01/07/08 02:44 PM
If you feel guilty, dont do it.

well, unless its eating that one last oatmeal raisen cookie, then I say go for it.

kirota's photo
Mon 01/07/08 02:44 PM


I thought men and women are hot all the time when I was married, but never did I get on the computer and virtually screw them on web cam.


this topic is not about virually screwing...

its about a girl that has no time for her boy, and is pissed because he is looking elseware...



Can't win a pissing contest with a p***k so I will leave you to your manly chest beating.yawn

stevex86's photo
Mon 01/07/08 02:46 PM



I thought men and women are hot all the time when I was married, but never did I get on the computer and virtually screw them on web cam.


this topic is not about virually screwing...

its about a girl that has no time for her boy, and is pissed because he is looking elseware...



Hi Kirota, Im not a pri*k, wanna have a pissing contest with me. laugh

Can't win a pissing contest with a p***k so I will leave you to your manly chest beating.yawn

kirota's photo
Mon 01/07/08 02:47 PM
One more thing......my ex was gone 5-6 days a wk so I guess according to your logic.....he was gone and didn't spend time with me so I should have the right to do "activities" on web cam. If you need to seek stimulation from someone other than the person you are with get out of the relationship and then you can do as many "activities" as you want with no question on whether you are cheating or not.

no photo
Mon 01/07/08 02:48 PM


I thought men and women are hot all the time when I was married, but never did I get on the computer and virtually screw them on web cam.


this topic is not about virually screwing...

its about a girl that has no time for her boy, and is pissed because he is looking elseware...

Or it is about a boy fooling around and using his girls actions to justify it! There is only one person responsible for your actions and that is you!

kirota's photo
Mon 01/07/08 02:48 PM




I thought men and women are hot all the time when I was married, but never did I get on the computer and virtually screw them on web cam.


this topic is not about virually screwing...

its about a girl that has no time for her boy, and is pissed because he is looking elseware...



Hi Kirota, Im not a pri*k, wanna have a pissing contest with me. laugh

Can't win a pissing contest with a p***k so I will leave you to your manly chest beating.yawn



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Jess642's photo
Mon 01/07/08 02:53 PM
Edited by Jess642 on Mon 01/07/08 02:54 PM



I thought men and women are hot all the time when I was married, but never did I get on the computer and virtually screw them on web cam.


this topic is not about virtual screwing...

its about a girl that has no time for her boy, and is pissed because he is looking elsewhere...

Or it is about a boy fooling around and using his girls actions to justify it! There is only one person responsible for your actions and that is you!


Thanks Fresh....some sense, finally.

Interesting scenario...

Guy feels rejected by woman in relationship...goes trawling online to find some sort of 'quick fix' ego stroke...rather than deal with the real time issues...


Sort of like dialling for pizza, when the cupboards are bare, and you are about to be evicted, isn't it?

AaronZ's photo
Mon 01/07/08 02:58 PM

One more thing......my ex was gone 5-6 days a wk so I guess according to your logic.....he was gone and didn't spend time with me so I should have the right to do "activities" on web cam. If you need to seek stimulation from someone other than the person you are with get out of the relationship and then you can do as many "activities" as you want with no question on whether you are cheating or not.


Woman I don’t know if you are thinking that you are talking to some boy?

Because I am A M. A. N!!!! Man

And I wont put up with talk like that from some little woman, now after you read this I want you to get in to that there kitchen and make me some pie!!!

Activity is the question,

are they talking??? as in what humans do?

or are the showing off there privates and making the great squashy race.

And are you cheating now by talking to me, because I know I turn you on…
I know what your thinking right now… oh maybe not right this second, but later you will see woman don’t want some gentile boy they want a man, and a man tells a woman when to shut up, shes wrong… this is also love… its called tough love.


no photo
Mon 01/07/08 03:00 PM
huh Hard to believe you are single Aaron...laugh

BlueskyJ's photo
Mon 01/07/08 03:04 PM
Unless the content is sexual or flirtatious, i don't see this as cheating....guys have girl friends and vice versa....what's wrong with that?


Okay, here's the scenario- this guy has a gf, who never has time for him, so he met this girl online and they spend hours and hours together, talking about nothing. Every so often they engage in cam 2 cam "activity". Some would say this is emotional cheating and therefore wrong, however, they have never met and more than likely never will. Also, allegedly, emotional cheating is worse than the physical act, because of the feelings involved. My questions are these: do you think what these two do is wrong, and is emotional cheating worse than physical cheating?

AaronZ's photo
Mon 01/07/08 03:08 PM

huh Hard to believe you are single Aaron...laugh


Yeah ?!?!?!

maybe that just tells you Something about what happened after woman burned there bras.

Men became pu**ies, woman grew c*cks

I am right, and if you don’t like it tough, but…


And this is the last time I will say this


READ the damn question, never does it say that there was on line cyber sex.

There is not enough clarification in the question to base an opinion.

And what I said, that because you are in a relatshonship does not meen you cant talk to the opposite sex.

And what about the fact she says…

She does not have time for him.

Argue that point, ohhh that’s right you would rather not.

Lastly I am single because there are no REAL woman out there

o!o

Jess642's photo
Mon 01/07/08 03:09 PM


huh Hard to believe you are single Aaron...laugh


Yeah ?!?!?!

maybe that just tells you Something about what happened after woman burned there bras.

Men became pu**ies, woman grew c*cks

I am right, and if you don’t like it tough, but…


And this is the last time I will say this


READ the damn question, never does it say that there was on line cyber sex.

There is not enough clarification in the question to base an opinion.

And what I said, that because you are in a relatshonship does not meen you cant talk to the opposite sex.

And what about the fact she says…

She does not have time for him.

Argue that point, ohhh that’s right you would rather not.

Lastly I am single because there are no REAL woman out there

o!o



Feel better now?

Did you burp and scratch an itch after you wrote that???

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