ahh! thank you for the spell check!!

I have No problem with a spirited woman, hell was married to 3 of them, but the difference was that THEY would communicate AFTER hearing what I would say AFTER I would respond to there inquiry.

I know silly …this whole talking in order to make things clear thing… god what a waste of time…it is always better to just ignore what was said by the second party and countinue with the older argument, as written in stone.

Don’t you agree?

Now I already said I would not repeat my self, and I wont, but if you read the whole thread you will see what I was trying to point out, that’s all..

I am done.

Huh? Grammer check is a good thing too.

Three times married and only 40! Go figure. I know people who have made it to 6 weddings by the time they were 70... then they oft times were locked away in an institution somewhere. You are well on your way!

May your tortured soul and the women you lure in find peace eventually.

mmmmmmmmmm, ooooooooooo, ewwwwwwwwwyesss, yessssssssssss, yyyyyyyyyyyyyeeesssssssss, OMG yesssssssss. There, now any woman that has a man, has just cheated if they respond to this reply. This is one way to weed out the girls that are taken...

mmmmmmmmmm, ooooooooooo, ewwwwwwwwwyesss, yessssssssssss, yyyyyyyyyyyyyeeesssssssss, OMG yesssssssss. There, now any woman that has a man, has just cheated if they respond to this reply. This is one way to weed out the girls that are taken...

mmmmmmmmmm, ooooooooooo, ewwwwwwwwwyesss, yessssssssssss, yyyyyyyyyyyyyeeesssssssss, OMG yesssssssss. There, now any woman that has a man, has just cheated if they respond to this reply. This is one way to weed out the girls that are taken...

mmmmmmmmmm, ooooooooooo, ewwwwwwwwwyesss, yessssssssssss, yyyyyyyyyyyyyeeesssssssss, OMG yesssssssss. There, now any woman that has a man, has just cheated if they respond to this reply. This is one way to weed out the girls that are taken... Or possibly kill this post....

Several people mentioned that talking isn't cheating. Not by itself. But this isn't just about talking, it has been taken to a different level. Cybersex with another person when in a relationship is cheating. Camming takes it even a step further, making it more intimate since you can see each other, even if there are computers and distance in between. So it is totally cheating. I've known more than a few marriages break up because of a husband who got addicted to the whole cybering relatioships. Cheating is cheating. If he feels his girlfriend hasn't enough time for him, then he needs to move on.

Amen

I think it's cheating too. If she's just a g/f and never has time for him I'm sure she's got someone she IS making time for. Kick her to the curb and move on.

Cheating is cheating there are no emotional friends allowed

Change his name to Chester....
Because He's a CHEETAH!!! :)

It is wrong unless all partners are aware of the others and the activities being engaged in and have no prior agreement not to be informed. It is wrong if consent is not given by all. Not disclosing is as bad as lying about something. What is worse, emotional or physical affairs? I believe it will depend on who you ask, as well as their gender. I believe each is just as bad.

This was posted by the original poster of this thread. on page 3

now what is funny here, is that all of you have made the assumption.

that there is cyber sex being committed here

and are jumping up and down more then a... …well a monkey would.

Some people have assumed cyber sex....but the real issue most women have here is.... Where are you placing your 'attention'....

If I'm in a relationship with a woman...my attention is solely on her....so much so, that often I will lose track of others around me...regardless of her actions, you have misplaced your attention, therefore contributing to the damage of your relationship with your significant other....it is your job to build your partner up First, cause that is what lovers do for each other....

If You can't do that, then get out of the relationship & talk to all the women that you will....

Um well yea. How did you interpret 'so he met this girl online and they spend hours and hours together, talking about nothing. Every so often they engage in cam 2 cam "activity".'?


Ummm.. if touching were possible.. why would there be two cameras involved?

Which part of this is confusing to you, Aaron?

More importantly... Do you actually read what you write before hitting the 'post topic' button?

My 2 cents worth is you can look at the menu as long as you don't order. And that's all I got to say about that.

I agree. And like I said, they will never, ever meet in real life.

Who goes to a restaurant, looks at the menu, and doesn't order?....Why go to the restaurant?....really, that logic makes no sense to me....

Never meeting in real life is a rationalization....the person is cheating the relationship....If you're in a relationship with me, you better not be online talking & camming with someone of the opposite sex....If that happened, I'd escort you to the Exit...

Sure, at a restaurant I'll definately order cause I have to eat to survive.
On a web cam with someone is different. It can be fun but you don't have to go any farther. And as long as you don't cross that line, your not actually ordering from the menu.

I appreciate that you are trying to support your position without name calling etc...however, the OP stated the guy has a gf and yet he is spending hours & hours online talking with this other girl....

Now what that tells me is...he is not getting what he wants out of his current gf and is looking other places to find fullfillment...

If that is the case then he needs to communicate his needs to his gf and either fix it(the relationship) or end it....otherwise what he is doing is 'Relationship Cheating'....And to me that is just WRONG....

that is one of the reasons women say, Be A Man....I say, Show your Integrity...things like Loyalty, Trust, & Love are being comprimised here...