ToodyGirl5,

Welcome back again , yeah I'm like you if the feelings there than take the feeling and voice it......love & infatuation or a crush should be separated and defined.

Blondey111,

Hello , welcome to my cyber mansion. You brought up a valid point. So I take it though if a man told you he loved you first, and he meant it.....and showing you love, would you feel the same way even if you didn't say it first?

Cranky_Geezer,

Good evening, welcome to my cyber mansion. I believe in saying it when you feel it too. I'm old school, I am very vocal and I like to express how I feel. I know we live in a era now where everybody using social media to express how they feel about a person but I'm one on one kind of guy. Even when I'm on my date night with my girlfriend I show her a lot of affection, I tell her how I much it means to me when we can spend quality time together and I then give her a kiss and a nice hug, take her jacket and escort her to the dinner table. Now my girlfriend is very playful and a bit of a flirt when it comes to me. Like I can bring up current events or something I read in the paper and we can be out in a nice restaurant setting like Olive Garden, Chili's Or even a steakhouse, and she play footsies under the table just to get a reaction from me and usually it works. Then after dinner we may go to Broadway play or a comedy club for laughs. She's get chilly so I wrap my arms around her and offer her my jacket to keep her warm. After that we go to my place or hers or sometimes I do the gentlemen thing and drop her off give her a kiss a hug and a good night....see these are the things that one day may lead to love. Because we are getting to know each other and nobody's rushing anything.

EyeAmYourHost39,

My take is this, I believe when you can separate infatuation from real love and its real then I think you should express it then show it. But the feeling has to be mutual or you be setting yourself up for a very awkward embarrassing situation for yourself. I think it should be a time factor to use the L-word. Too Early your mate may not feel the same . Too Late and you may have a serious argument on your hands. It has to really be timed right. I In my past been on both end of the candle. I say it early and it was awkward. Then there were times the woman told me too early and I as gentlemen turn the situation down. But I never been in a situation where I said it too late and lost the woman. Love does operate on a timing factor.

Good Evening my lovely family of M2, its your boy again spilling the Hennessey with another topic. My last topic was a smash hit I really appreciated all the positive feedback and advice you've giving me we decided to continue dating and we both want to naturally grow to a new relationship and when we cross that bridge meeting her parents we cross it then. Okay, lets get right into it, America now I been knowing my new girlfriend now for about 3 years. Like I mentioned last topic we have really good chemistry and when we not dating we talk for hours and give each other numerous text talking about how we miss each other cant wait to hook up again, & so on. We both are in a good place in life and with each other. I met her for lunch today and me being EyeAm, the jokester that I am, my comedy keep her laughing. So out of nowhere, she decides to tell me how she love my personality but it was how she told me and that had me to think " What do you mean might I ask?" She tells me she love who I am. Now I know its early in our relationship to mention key words like love. My question to America, when is it the right time to tell your mate he or she you love them? Is it appropriate to say it when you really feel that way or not? I like who she is and what all the accomplishments she conquered, she defiantly my type and she's really a good woman but I'm not in love with her at least not yet. When I feel King Kong dancing in my gut and its love I have no problem expressing love. So when is it right to mention the L-word? Do you believe in love at first sight or that concept is Passé or a relic of our past? So I'm interested to hear America right now . Lets talk about it and spill Hennessey together!

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RustyKitty,

Welcome to my cyber mansion well I don't know if you read any of my responses to others about this I decided to let leave that up to her and continue the bliss of dating my interest. Today is Friday and I will take her to a movie and dinner follows and a night cap with pie and coffee and exchange conversation.

EyeAmYourHost39

One of things i like about her is she said i was special. I make her laugh and i give her wisdom and encouragement. She does the same with me. We talk about anything and everything together even sex. I dont feel like i have to go outside myself to impress her. Prior to us dating we was plutonic friends for 3 years. My point is this is whats it all about. Taking things naturally. Learning each other. We making sure that we have no misunderstanding between us. She mentioned she loves all kinds of music especially Rock N Roll. It blew her mind when i told her i have a eclectic music catalog i listen to. I even told her l listen to Rock music too. I named some groups and she was wowed! Compatibility. I dont want to sound nieve but i believe in true romance on first sight.

TOTAGE

Welcome again well im certainly not going to end it....I decided to let her make that call if i evet meet them or not. Shes a wonderful girl with so much common interest. Im a good place with her right now. I took all feedback in consideration and o love u guys for the support they showed me. Like i mentioned im a smart man and if i smell a rat i usually confront that rat but honestly we happy. The moral of rhis topic is if you like somebody enough and theyre from another race color shouldnt keep you for persuing happiness. Yes when it rears its ugly head racism you have to stand your ground. Somebody in another post said im dating her not the parents. Thats the best advice i ever gotten on Mingle2.

IgorFrankensteen

I read your comment and just like i responded to TOTAGE i think terraforming lets say Mars or the Moon is not a good ideal. Wr have cataclymic weather patterns, unknown bases and radiation to consider. Now if they want to terraform a planet scientist suggest.Nebula, Series B , & Alpha Century are the best canidates for life because those moons has oceans, vegetation, and a atmosphere. The problem is sending our shuttles to these vast planets is too far out in the galaxy to explore. I dont know if you ever read " The Secret Exchange Program " book? If you haven't it all started with the crash at Roswell when the MJ 12 retreive alien technology and alien bodies some where dead and 2 remain alive. The 2 that was alive we called them " EBE 1 " & " EBE 2" Long story short MJ12 suggested a exchane 12 of our top scientist and hand choosen Crononauts to live on the planet Serpo for exchange for the 2 aliens wr held captive at Dugway AFB. These scientist and the human settlers live 10 years on Serpo. After the 10 years they wad able to return 2 died on Serpo 3 others decided to stay on Serpo and the rest returned a died later herw on Earth.

IgorFrankensteen

I read your comment and just like i responded to TOTAGE i think terraforming lets say Mars or the Moon is not a good ideal. Wr have cataclymic weather patterns, unknown bases and radiation to consider. Now if they want to terraform a planet scientist suggest.Nebula, Series B , & Alpha Century are the best canidates for life because those moons has oceans, vegetation, and a atmosphere. The problem is sending our shuttles to these vast planets is too far out in the galaxy to explore. I dont know if you ever read " The Secret Exchange Program " book? If you haven't it all started with the crash at Roswell when the MJ 12 retreive alien technology and alien bodies some where dead and 2 remain alive. The 2 that was alive we called them " EBE 1 " & " EBE 2" Long story short MJ12 suggested a exchane 12 of our top scientist and hand choosen Crononauts to live on the planet Serpo for exchange for the 2 aliens wr held captive at Dugway AFB. These scientist and the human settlers live 10 years on Serpo. After the 10 years they wad able to return 2 died on Serpo 3 others decided to stay on Serpo and the rest returned a died later herw on Earth.

IgorFrankensteen

I read your comment and just like i responded to TOTAGE i think terraforming lets say Mars or the Moon is not a good ideal. Wr have cataclymic weather patterns, unknown bases and radiation to consider. Now if they want to terraform a planet scientist suggest.Nebula, Series B , & Alpha Century are the best canidates for life because those moons has oceans, vegetation, and a atmosphere. The problem is sending our shuttles to these vast planets is too far out in the galaxy to explore. I dont know if you ever read " The Secret Exchange Program " book? If you haven't it all started with the crash at Roswell when the MJ 12 retreive alien technology and alien bodies some where dead and 2 remain alive. The 2 that was alive we called them " EBE 1 " & " EBE 2" Long story short MJ12 suggested a exchane 12 of our top scientist and hand choosen Crononauts to live on the planet Serpo for exchange for the 2 aliens wr held captive at Dugway AFB. These scientist and the human settlers live 10 years on Serpo. After the 10 years they wad able to return 2 died on Serpo 3 others decided to stay on Serpo and the rest returned a died later herw on Earth.

TOTAGE

This technology Pres.Trump and NASA maybe looking for can in my opinion to be very dangerous. We not ready or have the ability to use alien intelligent technologies. As humans we are way too war inbreeded to use that against nations at war or even on us citizens. Okay lets play gods advocate for a minute suppose we do terraform Mars or rhe Moon? Do scientist really think we can escape pending doom? Do rhe elites think under populating Earth and spreading out humans on distant planets is a good ideal? My opinion i think not. If you understand the history on other planets Nuclear cataclysms and Meteor storms cause life on those planets to wipe away. Now back to this technology i think we not intelligent or ready to use such tools. We playing God too much

Animal Lover

Well thanks for stopping by. We talk and converse with many emotions and getting points across. Sometimes in life we cant hold back. A clear picture is many words. Quite frankly i live it when me and my Vocal Avengers has many words to say including myself.

Animal Lover

Well thanks for stopping by. We talk and converse with many emotions and getting points across. Sometimes in life we cant hold back. A clear picture is many words. Quite frankly i live it when me and my Vocal Avengers has many words to say including myself.

ToodyGirl5

What i meant is i dated different Caucasian women but never had parents that had the issue like the one my girl dealing with. I made the decision that its totally up to my girl to make that call if i ever will meet them. I mean life goes on. Im in a good place with us. She'll have my family. You see where im going too?

GreenEyes148

I think the aliens that abduct us is studying us like project lab mice. Earth is an experiment.

TOTAGE

You absolutely right again. I was watching YouTube and theres guys claiming they frim the future time travelers. One of the guys you know face blurred out and he was mentioning by the year 2028 we perfected time travel for leisure and military purposes. Then he pull out his smart phone and showed us what 2028 looks like and i couldnt believe what i saw. What i saw was a 2028 Las Vegas the sky had a red haze which was explained the haze in the sky by the time traveler by that time our sky sudfered from global warming. Radiation. There where buildings with lights outside like seeing a scene from the mobie 5th Element. Cars was hovering in the sky and the humans looked kind of odd. It was explained that humans evolved with aliens and then the video went on to explained more future things but besides the space confederation time travel can be dangerous. Its playing Yah too much.

GreenEyes148

Welcome back....to answer your question why i would have conserns about her parents? Well right now its not a issue but i know one day if i get real anonymously into a serious relationship or even marriage i would have to meet the parents. She communicates with her parents but not in the level where it should be. Even if one day. I put a ring on her finger inspite of what they think i wouldnt exclude them from a wedding. As a parent i would love to to be part of my daughtets wedding and see the happiness and not allow a view from being a parent onthe most important day of her life.

ToodyGirl5,

No No No....thats not the image im saying.....when i mention dating other nationalities im talking briefly...My date is the most serious i been with a woman in 5 years after my Ex wife. I ask advice from my vocal avengers to give me feedback outside my view. I dont want you to have the wrong impression of my dating.

JOHNNY111

Thank you for your kind wisdom. I believe we will work out. She and i have alot common interests. Like i mention in another post that im not in a hurry to meet her parents but i also want her to know when the time and karma right then i be open to meet them. So we will continue to date and i do believe we wind up in a serious relationship soon. So i keep you guys posted.