Hummm move out....never works with two family's under the same roof...

Nothing wrong with fwb concept. Two consenting adults who want to have some rockin' sex, why the hell not? doesn't mean the woman is a slut and it doesn't mean the guy is just a sex hound with no emotion attached to him. Sex is all about emotion! physical emotion.

I just can't. I'd let myself down. I did think about it some time ago, but no.

You say people who aren't into ldr relationships make you sick. Well, people who try to use me as access to a green card make ME sick. Also, I'd only torture myself if I couldn't at least go visit my lover a few days a week. Or him visit me at times.

I am 100% sure that I can bring nothing to the table which is why I keep myself so busy that I wouldn't even have time to date. Also, never having been married; men don't want anything to do with me so its a sealed deal.

Yeah; this why I was laughing at the statement.

Yeah; this why I was laughing at the statement.

Seriously; just because a woman has the guts to approach a man first; she is not feminine? Where did you get that silly idea?

Do these three words, “I Love You”, hold some kind of magic power that can change a person’s life overnight?

Or is it only the lonely hearts club band that knows the tune to this song, and how these three words can string people along?

Is saying, “I love you”, ever wrong?

Nice to meet you, Navy Girl. You seem like a decent woman. Why did u give up?

Well; you finally got something right. I also will give up on responding to your posts as its simply not worth the effort.

It was ingrained in me from my youth that as a female it is not my place to approach a man first, I was also taught never to smile provocatively nor make direct lingering eye contact because men can misconstrue the look. My mother was of French ancestry and she was rigid concerning the way she expected me to behave in mixed company. I have a natural swagger to my hips also, so when I walk I look sassy, and men find this attractive. My mother told me I walked too sexy and needed to tone it down. But, I can't help the way God put me together, and to this day I still twist when walking, it's not done purposely, I can assure you. With this said, I also don't mind saying that at my age I would like to feel comfortable making an advance and letting a man know I'm interested, instead of suffering in silence. But, I can't seem to get my mother's face and words out of my head when it comes to the roles both genders are expected to follow. So, no I will never approach a man first about having a serious relationship.

Hey, i am not saying men are judgemental. I know we are. But not as females. I am saying women in general. Btw, i am not in US. But believe me i have heard about men in US quite a lot and it makes me wonder what a disgrace they are for men in general.
Btw, you r right about the nervousness for both genders. It's ridiculous when u observe it

A prostitute? I understand a lot of them take really good care of themselves but you are always running a risk that you might catch an STD or a disease there is no cure for. I would rather have an FWB that I have know for a while and have been friends with where I know how many past relationships they have been in rather than someone who has been with hundreds of total strangers every month. I am not talking about having an FWB when you're already in a relationship. An FWB comes in when you have no partner. A good FWB is a Friend first and if you do get in a relationship the person who most wants to see you happy so there would be no interference in future relationships.