Yea that is funny. Pretty far from being christian.

I was dating a man for 9 months and our first date I took him to the park where the President came for a rally and I went. Talked about it while we walked the park and still had my Obama signs around the house when he came to visit. He was quiet about it so I assumed he was probably not a fan. Cool. As long as he dislikes him for legimate reasons I have no issue with it. If he believes he is a Muslim, Kenyan born, socialist, communist or trying to destroy the country from within however that would not be cool because those are the "excuses" used by white racists to hate the President.

Well long story short, we finally friend each other on facebook and guess what he posts? One of those lists from the white racists about the president. You know the one about his having applied for school as a foreign student and two social security numbers, etc.... I felt blindsided and terribly hurt. I posted the links in the comments section of the post to prove the inaccuracy of the post. I asked if he knew it wasn't true and he agreed some of it wasn't but he didn't care if it was true or not. Politics really didn't matter to him, he said. That is how the racists are, they do not care if it is true because they dislike him for not being white.

He kept this to himself for 9+ months.

Our chemistry was mind blowingly amazing and I think that is what kept me from communicating well enough with him to have discovered this sooner.

And I had to put it to him bluntly because he didn't get it at first, just thought I was being petty. I told him "I don't share my body or life with those who do not like the president because he isn't white". He denied it but the proof is still there on his facebook page and he doesn't even have the one black friend he claims to have....which is what all the white racist say to console themselves.

We are not seeing each other anymore...

Lesson learned.

I am being much more clear on my profiles now.
Hoping not to have to go through this again.

I wish. No. They are now seeing me for the first time. Ignored me before.

Oh yea armed people never save the day that is the fact of the matter. Presidents have been shot and killed while surrounded by armed individuals.

Buy into the gun lobby's crap so they can get richer....

Meanwhile as before no gun toter will ever save the day and we will be shot down by self proclaimed armed good guys daily.....

This has as much truth to it as the Titanic being President Obama's fault

Glad to see someone else who understands.

I did not like Bush at all and had to fight to not laugh when the shoes were thrown at him because I understood the frustration with Bush but I never approved of the act and acknowledged the disrespect to the president that act meant. President Obama has suffered worse than any president before him because of his being black and it is highly offensive to white people who see it let alone the black folks who are reminded of what they have had to suffer in this country since it's inception.

Only racist believe there is a race card.

Due to a recent new health issue, I had to change my diet and exercise causing me to lose some weight and 6+ inches off my hips, 6+ off my waist and unfortunately around my chest also :(. The changes I made were not to lose weight, it is a by product of the needed changes for my health.

This has caused men who would not normally look my way to show interest.

Now, I would be a complete idiot to accept the attention now when I wasn't good enough in their book when I was bigger.

They need to go and find a woman who didn't love and respect herself enough before the weight change to understand that the new found interest is actually an insult to her. I am the same regardless to what the outer shell looks like. And I am awesome.

I am so glad I had already had contact with someone before the weight loss and we finally connected and are seeing each other now because this would be a big barrier to finding someone now. Especially if I knew them before and they are just now showing an interest.

This shallowness is so ugly....

It was shameful. Hopefully it was just the clown who was showing his lack of class and taste and not a racist attack as it appears.

You don't stalk someone and when they defend themselves scream self defense.

Had Zimmerman followed me, a white woman, and got too close and I attacked him before he could grab me and he shot me. Post humuosly I would be a hero for fighting for my safety. Zimmerman would fry.

So yea, I can see how the jury with what they were given had to do the wrong thing but they DID do the wrong thing.

There are women who love it also. I am one. I like sex just for the purpose of sex. I love sex with someone I love. Sex is one of the gifts of this life and I do not intend to waste it worrying about protocol or whatever.

So it isn't just one sided. Women have been programmed to deny it when they feel this way.

On the flip side of this I have met men who can pretty much go without sex but maybe a couple of times a year. Not my cup of tea at all but some women who is the same will like them.

Some of the problems we have in our society are that men were programmed to believe that a women undressed was an excuse for them to act like animals and they were excused for it "they are just men after all". It is misogyny taught in our religions/society which are used to raise our men.

There are differences in men and women but it is not as vast as we were taught.

My learning and observations here of course.

When I notice I am feeling my happiness slipping away, time to go. I have a natural happiness that took me a long time to find in myself and cultivate in myself. I won't let others/life/anything take it from me. So if that happiness starts slipping, I have to go.

I fully recommend sex before marriage. It would really suck to be married to some lovers out there for life

I love it when youtube is passed off as some kind of reliable source of factual information... it gives me a good chuckle.

Not true. Atheists have less children. Also good for this society to help the planet last longer

So you waste your energy and anger on what others do or do not do that is against what you believe hoping to get validation from others for this judgement.

Can you provide these people with family planning education? Birth control? Are these areas where men feel superior to women and take sex whether a woman gives consent or not?

Be a help not a complainer, eh?

Of course same sex marriage should be and be plentiful if there are those who want to be married. It isn't any of my or anybodies damn business if someone wants to get married as long as they are of age and consent. Mind your own please. And they should be able to have twenty if they want too. As long as they are of age age and mental consent.

Religions need to stay out it. They can dictate to their flock how they should live but not everyone outside of it.

Eventually all will realize that it isn't their concern to mandate who loves who as long as age and mental consent is considered. If they want to marry or have a civil union they should be able to do either or both if they want.

I lived in Texas and it sucks. But I can't speak on California, never been there.

Yea the lack of regulations in Texas is a good thing though, right? Not. You can't go to work and know you are safe. You can't live in a home and know it was built right because they don't regulate.