I thought this was a dating site i have talked to one ****ing person is this site a scam ??i mean not one person wants to evan wants to look at my profile??

Just takes time to find the right one ...

you can always ask for a REFUND!

Here's what you do?

Add more photos of yourself make sure it is only you in the photos

State what kind of women you are interested in

Give details about your redneck life besides the obvious

State other hobbies besides fishing, hunting, and chewing tobacco


You need to put work into your profile


Good Luck

Oh yeah, participate in the forums often, this shows what kind of person you are and what kind of personality you have

It's a matter of getting yourself out there...so to speak.Look through people profiles and make contact...not everyone will reply,same as you may not reply to everyone ! A wink or nudge is a good starting point,you never know who you may meet :) But like in the real world...if you want to met someone ,you need to make the effort :) Good Luck

Yep, obviously it's the sites fault...

Just hang in there.This site has a lot of attractive, smart,and funny people. We are just another pebble in the rock pile here. Join the forums meet people soon you will have people emailing you, good luck have fun.

You have only posted 6 times and you expect for people to know you?
Get into the community and start posting, then all the women will see what you like and don't like. This is how everyone gets to know you.
Which one of the guys are you? We have to guess?
What are you looking for in a woman?
Fix your profile and state what you want!!
If you don't spend time on doing things in here, you won't meet anyone..you have to put effort into it if you expect something to happen!!
Good luck!

You could demand a refund.

Try using a clear picture of just you as your main picture and run your profile through spell check. That's the first impression you're giving someone, so spelling, grammar and proper use of punctuation are important.

Absolutely. If a guy doesn't continue contacting me, then I just assume he's lost interest and I move on. So when you DO find someone you want, make sure you keep e-mailing them.

Sure I'll talk to ya ;) i am new to this site also. Sometimes its harder being a guy on here, all you had to do is reach out to make friends. I am a nice person, sure shoot me a message=]

Get a better pic of yourself... just you.. also being desperate doesnt help... dont depend on a site anyways to find a girlfriend i find it that most girls i meet on here are crazy.. its better to be friends first then get into the girlfriend area.. all those bs answers you got about including hobbies and stuff isnt going to do nothing but run off certain girls... get out there and talk to random girls you'll be surprised, if you like to read go to the library if you like to exercise go to the gym... this is for "friends"... why would you let a site piss you off.? just straight foolish lmao..

What did you expect for free? This site is what you make it. Make yourself known to people in the forums and drop the attitude, as that'll hold you back big time, ok? Happy mingling!

Let's see . . . your only profile image has two men in it, and, thus, people don't know which one you are. Your profile image and profile give the impression that you are looking for a redneck buddy to hunt, fish and drink with.

It appears to me that you are getting what you paid for.

I had a special girl message me but I gave up on the site and then a few months later I seen the messages ! I think I learn the hard way, up hill battle.

Confucius say 'Man who push car get exhausted'

Hey David,

He could demand a refund.




Still cracks me up!

Am with you on that...how about we sue Mingle for selling us hot air??!! Pay for damages too..