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Fri 11/27/09 07:29 PM

she is 60? shocked

I was guessing around 45...no kidding!


Yes...and she has a Ph. D. in Economics! I am so lucky! happy

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Fri 11/27/09 07:27 PM

Hi Gator,

I fixed the picture for you. use [ ] instead of ( )


You are a sweetheart...thank you, dear!

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Fri 11/27/09 07:24 PM

She's beautiful! :smile:


Thanks...she's beautiful inside and out! Like Tina Turner...she looks great at 60! :wink:

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Fri 11/27/09 07:10 PM

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oops...tried to post a photo and obviously didn't do it right! Sorry...laugh

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Fri 11/27/09 06:51 PM

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Fri 11/27/09 06:04 PM

What is more attractive,,

A girl who goes out on dates regularly

or

one who doesnt have dates often



laugh Good foe you...doesn't make any more sense this way either! laugh

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Fri 11/27/09 05:59 PM

spock I wonder sometimes.... I wonder sometimes! slaphead



Well, at least two times! laugh

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Fri 11/27/09 03:18 PM


Um,, duh,, whats a woman,,,,whats stupid,,,,did you ask me something,,,???




lolol


A woman is one of those creatures than has an unnatural affliction towards fridge magnets and fluffy pillows.


Hmmm..... I kinda like fluffy pillows...I must be showing my sensitive, feminine side again!

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Fri 11/27/09 03:10 PM

If we were all together in an actual room and not a virtual one, how would you be different....just as candid, outgoing, interactive?


I would be much taller! laugh There's no doubt, it would be an interesting event to observe. laugh

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Fri 11/27/09 02:53 PM

I know a libertine is a complete turnoff.

A true man does not need to romance a different girl every night, a true man romances the same girl the rest of his life.
flowerforyou

:wink: happy flowerforyou

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Fri 11/27/09 12:09 PM



:heart: How does true love stand the test of time?:heart:

Pretty well! :wink:

:heart:Aren't misunderstandings,tiffs and insecurities possible in true and pure love too?:heart:


Yes...though usually fewer than relationships that don't work...and we tend to commit and communicate better. happy

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Fri 11/27/09 12:00 PM

Women are born lesbians?


noway This is a joke...right?

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Fri 11/27/09 11:28 AM



I'm surprised that you had the time in your "busy" schedule to post this. All good advice to live by. I had to chuckle when I read a few of them, as they apply directly to me. Here's to your momdrinker and her yams. Keep doing what your doing.


Thanks, dear...and thank God for cut and paste! We're off to Florida tomorrow am...talk to you soon!!!
happy

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Fri 11/27/09 11:10 AM


If my neighbor suddenly stops talking to me..(true story here) and I, after several days of silence walk up and ask if I have done something to offend you..and I get stink eye and more silence as they walk away, And I say.. "I apologize if I have upset or offended you"... I am being insincere, or insecure? We never had any problems, and suddenly they stop talking to me..
I was not being either..I was attempting to make peace with a neighbor..over something.. I still don't even know what..is it my problem anymore or theirs?

My mother gets offended if someone swears and she hears it. A stranger drops the f bomb and my mom turns and says to them.."Please don't talk that way around me"...the stranger gets a weird look and apologizes. Also a true story..
was the stranger being insincere or insecure? I think just trying to be nice..even though maybe he felt my mom was being intrusive..which she was.
The comment made by Gator.."that if you think I did something wrong, I'm sorry you think that."..I don't feel is an indication of insecurity or insincerity...who knows what people are going to be offended by.
I have no problem saying I'm sorry...I can not control what others feel is offensive and apology worthy.
I wouldn't want an insincere apology either..if one feels the need to apologize to me I will accept it..I never demand or expect it. I get to choose what offends me..and it ain't much.


I guess my point was that my experience is that when people say..."that if you think I did something wrong, I'm sorry you think that."...it's not really an apology...or a left handed one at best. They're saying you're wrong...I didn't do anything wrong. And, again, MY experience is that these people are almost always insecure and/or insincere.

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Fri 11/27/09 11:07 AM


If my neighbor suddenly stops talking to me..(true story here) and I, after several days of silence walk up and ask if I have done something to offend you..and I get stink eye and more silence as they walk away, And I say.. "I apologize if I have upset or offended you"... I am being insincere, or insecure? We never had any problems, and suddenly they stop talking to me..
I was not being either..I was attempting to make peace with a neighbor..over something.. I still don't even know what..is it my problem anymore or theirs?

My mother gets offended if someone swears and she hears it. A stranger drops the f bomb and my mom turns and says to them.."Please don't talk that way around me"...the stranger gets a weird look and apologizes. Also a true story..
was the stranger being insincere or insecure? I think just trying to be nice..even though maybe he felt my mom was being intrusive..which she was.
The comment made by Gator.."that if you think I did something wrong, I'm sorry you think that."..I don't feel is an indication of insecurity or insincerity...who knows what people are going to be offended by.
I have no problem saying I'm sorry...I can not control what others feel is offensive and apology worthy.
I wouldn't want an insincere apology either..if one feels the need to apologize to me I will accept it..I never demand or expect it. I get to choose what offends me..and it ain't much.

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Fri 11/27/09 09:41 AM
My mother sent me this..she still emails at age 92! Said she found it on the Internet...a columnist from the Cleveland Plain Dealer wrote it, apparently, when he turned 90. She said it is as good advice as she could give me...or anyone else on life. I agree...so, here it is.
1. Life Isn't fair, but it's still good.
2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.
3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.
4. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and family will, so stay in touch.
5. Pay off your credit cards every month.
6. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
7. Cry with someone. It's more healing than crying alone.
8. It's OK to get angry with God. He can take it.
9. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck.
10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.
11. Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present.
12. It's OK to let your children see you cry.
13. Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn't be in it.
15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don't worry, God never blinks.
16. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.
17. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful, or joyful.
18. Whatever doesn't kill you really does make you stronger.
19. It's never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else.
20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don't take no for an answer.
21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don't save it for a special occasion. Today is special.
22. Over prepare, then go with the flow.
23. Be eccentric now. Don't wait for old age to wear purple.
24. The most important sex organ is the brain.
25. No one is in charge of your happiness but you.
26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words...'In five years, will this matter?'
27. Always choose life.
28. Forgive everyone of everything.
29. What other people think of you is none of your business.
30. Time heals almost everything. Give time time.
31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
32. Dont' take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
33. Believe in miracles.
34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn't do.
35. Don't audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.
36. Growing old beats the alternative...dying young.
37. Your children get only one childhood.
38. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.
39. Get outside every day, miracles are waiting everywhere.
40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's, we'd grab ours back.
41. Envy is a waste of time...You already have all you need.
42. The best is yet to come.
43. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up, and show up.
44. Yield.
45. Life isn't tied with a bow but it's still a gift.
flowerforyou happy

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Fri 11/27/09 09:33 AM



That bird you're holding in your photo...Isn't it the kind coal miners use to smell GAS?


I dont think so, didnt they use canaries?




Yes...Being facetious!


OK...now your threads are worse.laugh

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Fri 11/27/09 09:32 AM


That bird you're holding in your photo...Isn't it the kind coal miners use to smell GAS?


I dont think so, didnt they use canaries?




Yes...Being facetious!

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Fri 11/27/09 09:29 AM
That bird you're holding in your photo...Isn't it the kind coal miners use to smell GAS?

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Fri 11/27/09 09:23 AM

How about this one 'I am sorry for whatever I did to offend you..."

Do you think an apology can be sincere if the one apologizing doesnt truly know what they did wrong? I dont.


Well, my experience is that insecure and insincere people use this...or even worse.."If you think I did something wrong, I'm sorry you think that!" laugh It's amazing how many people have a tough time apologizing...it's good for the soul! happy

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