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what job you are into?
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I am a Peace Officer and I do Photo Radar for the Police.
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Soul mates
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Ruth; I not only do not believe in soulmates; I don't believe that there is someone for everyone. It makes sense as the population of men to women is not equal so just by simple numbers; it is quite feasible that there not someone for everyone. That being said; I do live a happy life being single. I immerse my time with volunteer work, my friends, and my family; as well as hobbies. My life is good and I like coming and going as I please so a relationship would only hinder that and make me miserable.
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Handsome men over 50!
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Yup sounds like your looking for a guy. But your from England and your face is cutoff. LOL |
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So I take it you have added him as a friend? If he does hang with you long enough, he may come to understand the ways and wills of women..lol.. Nope; I didn't add him as a friend. He was asking about nice looking women. I am not nice looking. |
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Because they are not smart enough to appreciate a mature man.
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Yep, it is hard so I don't try. Instead; I just go out and enjoy life by living every day like it's my last.
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Younger Dating Old People.
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I think it would be more useful to go out with people you find yourself attracted to, and not worry about classifying them by age, race, hair color, or whatever. I know for myself, when I hear, "I only like white women", its a turn off. When I hear, "I only like older women", its the same turn off. It sounds like objectification, and fetish, or notch collecting. Or some might say its a preference. If a person isn't attracted to a young person then its there preference much as if the person is only attracted to certain race, hair colour, or body shape. Whether we like it or not; its just the way people are. |
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Edited by
navygirl
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Sat 01/17/15 02:13 PM
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Ladies,Ladies,take it easy!  No worries; this is my last post and its not worth arguing about.  I am just going to deactivate for a while as I have better things to do.
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Edited by
navygirl
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Sat 01/17/15 02:05 PM
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I think it was foolish to put any of the Heads of States out there. Its a big security risk and getting yourself killed just to prove a point is not the smartest move. JMO Cowering to terrorists barbarism is even less smart in my opinion... I agree cowering isn't smart but there is a thing as acceptable risk. Our world leaders also have been under strict security even before terrorism was a threat. Its not just the terrorists that we have to worry about as we have local fanatics. You point is taken...and respected, but he or our Secretary of State should have been there ...This administration has spent millions of tax payer dollars to beef up security and those world leaders you see marching in the front lines were photo shopped...They did not march, but they understood the need to be counted...Obama sucks... Well our Prime Minister also did not go to the demonstration and I commend him for doing it. I guess having to live with Terrorists threats in the 80s; I have a different perspective from those who have never had to deal with it on a personal basis. I recall climbing underneath vehicles checking for bombs, ensuring all vehicles were locked, checking baggage from anyone trying to come on to our base, and even dealing with the aftermath of a bomb going off at our base. I'm sure you have a different perspective, but that does not make yours anymore valid than mine or others who feel as I do....Once again, MY president failed to present a united front...Maybe, big maybe, if this was the first time he flipped off our allies, I would not be as disgusted with him as I am, but it is not the first time and likely won't be the last... I am not saying your opinion is not valid; I am just saying I see it from the perspective of being surrounded by terrorism; dealing with it face to face so to speak but its pointless trying to explain it to you so I will just drop the subject. Like MSHarmony says; Obama's presence wouldn't have made an impact on fighting Terror. The point of Obama attending the rally was NOT to make an impact on fighting terror  ...The point was solidarity, standing behind our allies, but trying to explain that to you is useless so I will just drop the subject.... Oh incidentally; there is group called NATO and another called the UN. You might want to look these up and see that these groups already represent standing behind our allies; at least that is what my NATO medal represents. How about you Leigh? Have any medals from the UN or NATO? Did you ever serve even as a civilian? Why do you ask?...Do I have to have a medal or have served, even as a civilian  to post to this thread or disagree with you?....With all due respect, it's none of your business and it's ....Didn't the military teach you anything?...  You are right its none of my business and its not about disagreeing so please don't put words in my mouth as this is now the second time you have done this. I just asked to to see if you actually understood that NATO and the UN are the ways we support our allies which is another form of solidarity. Common sense would suggest that we support our allies. We need not attend a rally that could have resulted in many more deaths had it got out of hand or had the terrorists decided to attack. However; its your president and you are certainly entitled to think of him in any way you want. I don't keep up with American politics but it sounds like he isn't very popular these days. |
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Younger Dating Old People.
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I think by far dnewnew has put this age gap conversation in to prospective. I think most of the people here are looking at small age gaps like a little over 10 years. I think the big problem comes when there is like a 20 or 30 year gap. dnewnew brought up a good point about the difference in libido as we age. I even said myself that being 50 and a shift worker; sleep is precious to me and I can't have some young man at 30 pawing me through the night when I have to get up at 4:00 am. I think most have no desire to be a babysitter to someone so young or someone very young has no desire to be a caregiver to someone who is so much older. Also; if you are being a caregiver; I think its a safe assumption to assume sex is off the table.
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I think it was foolish to put any of the Heads of States out there. Its a big security risk and getting yourself killed just to prove a point is not the smartest move. JMO Cowering to terrorists barbarism is even less smart in my opinion... I agree cowering isn't smart but there is a thing as acceptable risk. Our world leaders also have been under strict security even before terrorism was a threat. Its not just the terrorists that we have to worry about as we have local fanatics. You point is taken...and respected, but he or our Secretary of State should have been there ...This administration has spent millions of tax payer dollars to beef up security and those world leaders you see marching in the front lines were photo shopped...They did not march, but they understood the need to be counted...Obama sucks... Well our Prime Minister also did not go to the demonstration and I commend him for doing it. I guess having to live with Terrorists threats in the 80s; I have a different perspective from those who have never had to deal with it on a personal basis. I recall climbing underneath vehicles checking for bombs, ensuring all vehicles were locked, checking baggage from anyone trying to come on to our base, and even dealing with the aftermath of a bomb going off at our base. I'm sure you have a different perspective, but that does not make yours anymore valid than mine or others who feel as I do....Once again, MY president failed to present a united front...Maybe, big maybe, if this was the first time he flipped off our allies, I would not be as disgusted with him as I am, but it is not the first time and likely won't be the last... I am not saying your opinion is not valid; I am just saying I see it from the perspective of being surrounded by terrorism; dealing with it face to face so to speak but its pointless trying to explain it to you so I will just drop the subject. Like MSHarmony says; Obama's presence wouldn't have made an impact on fighting Terror. The point of Obama attending the rally was NOT to make an impact on fighting terror ...The point was solidarity, standing behind our allies, but trying to explain that to you is useless so I will just drop the subject.... Oh incidentally; there is group called NATO and another called the UN. You might want to look these up and see that these groups already represent standing behind our allies; at least that is what my NATO medal represents. How about you Leigh? Have any medals from the UN or NATO? Did you ever serve even as a civilian? |
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Just chill out with my missus and kid and phone for a pizza!  Great idea!  Me; I do a workout and then sit in my hot tub to unwind. bigsmile I also like to work on my music. Navygirl......you write music....do you sing too??? That is so wonderful! (soaking in a hot tub.....hmmmmmm divine!!) Yes; I do write music as well as transpose it, I play about 12 different instruments, and I do indeed sing. No; I don't play one of those contraptions; just one instrument at a time. |
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soloidarity is expressed in many ways,, not just sharing photos and media,,,, and absence speaks volumes..... I agree. Some high school pep rally was not needed to show solidarity. There are just damn lucky that the terrorists didn't try an attack on their little rally as thousands would have been killed. |
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Edited by
navygirl
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Sat 01/17/15 09:57 AM
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I think it was foolish to put any of the Heads of States out there. Its a big security risk and getting yourself killed just to prove a point is not the smartest move. JMO Cowering to terrorists barbarism is even less smart in my opinion... I agree cowering isn't smart but there is a thing as acceptable risk. Our world leaders also have been under strict security even before terrorism was a threat. Its not just the terrorists that we have to worry about as we have local fanatics. You point is taken...and respected, but he or our Secretary of State should have been there ...This administration has spent millions of tax payer dollars to beef up security and those world leaders you see marching in the front lines were photo shopped...They did not march, but they understood the need to be counted...Obama sucks... Well our Prime Minister also did not go to the demonstration and I commend him for doing it. I guess having to live with Terrorists threats in the 80s; I have a different perspective from those who have never had to deal with it on a personal basis. I recall climbing underneath vehicles checking for bombs, ensuring all vehicles were locked, checking baggage from anyone trying to come on to our base, and even dealing with the aftermath of a bomb going off at our base. I'm sure you have a different perspective, but that does not make yours anymore valid than mine or others who feel as I do....Once again, MY president failed to present a united front...Maybe, big maybe, if this was the first time he flipped off our allies, I would not be as disgusted with him as I am, but it is not the first time and likely won't be the last... I am not saying your opinion is not valid; I am just saying I see it from the perspective of being surrounded by terrorism; dealing with it face to face so to speak but its pointless trying to explain it to you so I will just drop the subject. Like MSHarmony says; Obama's presence wouldn't have made an impact on fighting Terror. The point of Obama attending the rally was NOT to make an impact on fighting terror ...The point was solidarity, standing behind our allies, but trying to explain that to you is useless so I will just drop the subject.... Yeah; being military I don't have a fcking clue on standing behind my allies. 
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AMAZED
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AMAZED. You have read it right; I a��m amazed by the pictures some people upload with their profile. It is not a problem with specific age groups, but across the board...well, with the exception of the young ones. And progressively the problem gets worst as the groups advance with age. I will use one example. For a few hrs I looked at the age group of 60 to 65, and here are some results...I might be of by a few percentage point (but not by many). Almost ten (10) percent of pictures are out of focus; you can no��t tell if the person i��s 25 or 85. By analyzing color, format, sharpness, background, clothing styles, I deduce that thirty-six (36) percent are at least 20 years old pictures. Then, to my utmost surprise, I find another twenty-one (21) percent to be new pictures, but representing maybe daughters, grand-daughters, nieces, or even a neighbor’s daughter, which are at least thirty (30) years younger then the stated age of the member (some 40 or more). What is the message, hit on me because I used to look great thirty years ago, contact me because I have a beautiful grand-daughter? Let us face it, most people look at the picture first and then read the profile. I understand someone not wanting their picture displayed (for whatever reason), so show a beach, a mountaintop, or even a cat or a dog, but do no��t insult the browser by claiming you look 25 when in fact you are 65. Plastic surgery is great, but not that great. I am damn ugly so I put the picture of the train up there.
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Younger Dating Old People.
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Age gaps are fine for dating only...for a LTR though, not so much. The bigger the gap the greater it looms as the older person AGES FASTER than the younger. How many men want to wind up with their hot trophy wife (20 years younger)acting as their nurse instead of their lover? How many hot trophy wives will be satisfied at their sexual prime of late 30s with an impotent 70 y.o. (little blue & yellow pills not withstanding) who's in poor health to start with? This applies to the female older/male younger too & with even worse consequences since there is no female version of Viagra. The male/female sexual physical love turns into something like a generic "caretaker/companionship" love which is a loss to the relationship as a whole. It's one thing if you started out w/no sex, but to have it disappear over time only due to the age of your partner? Aging together at a similar rate is far preferable in terms of what's going on with the human body. And yes...having an equal age partner who is suddenly unable to have sex (like having a car accident & becoming paralyzed) is putting the other person in exactly the same situation as above: one wants it & can do it & the other can't. "Love" does not satisfy every need & unless you can face the future without a sexual connection to you partner, well IMO it's not a satisfying relationship. Best answer yet. You are a wise woman. 
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Topic:
Younger Dating Old People.
Edited by
navygirl
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Sat 01/17/15 12:16 AM
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It must be two days gone..... Here we go again..... Nope I'm out I prefer younger..  That's cuz you are old It's subjective! As the stomach turns through the cycle of life. We are human and subject to change...Navy girl just ain't changing your diaper,that won't change (thank you for the qualification {{{Navygirl}}}   I'm old, and you call them cougars and I call them young chips or too young. I am old too and being an older person I like my rest. As a shift worker; 4:00 am is damn early and if some young guy kept me awake all hours of the night pawing me; he would end up getting my fist in his face or a knee in the groin. Us old folks need our sleep.  Funny..like I said (in different words) your qualification will ALWAYS be taken seriously. .lol ..you probably qualify as a deadly weapon too. How's the kickboxing going? *EDITS IN* I See my auto correct screwed me on my first post (reference:chips/chics Like I didn't get my share at birth with dyslexia. ..oh that's not enough...lol Just got the new phone and haven't set it up yet..Think I'll wait 'till It gets a STD before I download free protection and such.. dumb-dumb I am loving the kickboxing. I had to stop for a while because of renovations but now back to my regular workouts. I hope life is treating you well.
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Just chill out with my missus and kid and phone for a pizza! Great idea! Me; I do a workout and then sit in my hot tub to unwind. bigsmile I also like to work on my music. Navygirl......you write music....do you sing too??? That is so wonderful! (soaking in a hot tub.....hmmmmmm divine!!) Yes; I do write music as well as transpose it, I play about 12 different instruments, and I do indeed sing. |
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Edited by
navygirl
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Sat 01/17/15 12:37 AM
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I think it was foolish to put any of the Heads of States out there. Its a big security risk and getting yourself killed just to prove a point is not the smartest move. JMO Cowering to terrorists barbarism is even less smart in my opinion... I agree cowering isn't smart but there is a thing as acceptable risk. Our world leaders also have been under strict security even before terrorism was a threat. Its not just the terrorists that we have to worry about as we have local fanatics. You point is taken...and respected, but he or our Secretary of State should have been there ...This administration has spent millions of tax payer dollars to beef up security and those world leaders you see marching in the front lines were photo shopped...They did not march, but they understood the need to be counted...Obama sucks... Well our Prime Minister also did not go to the demonstration and I commend him for doing it. I guess having to live with Terrorists threats in the 80s; I have a different perspective from those who have never had to deal with it on a personal basis. I recall climbing underneath vehicles checking for bombs, ensuring all vehicles were locked, checking baggage from anyone trying to come on to our base, and even dealing with the aftermath of a bomb going off at our base. I'm sure you have a different perspective, but that does not make yours anymore valid than mine or others who feel as I do....Once again, MY president failed to present a united front...Maybe, big maybe, if this was the first time he flipped off our allies, I would not be as disgusted with him as I am, but it is not the first time and likely won't be the last... I am not saying your opinion is not valid; I am just saying I see it from the perspective of being surrounded by terrorism; dealing with it face to face so to speak but its pointless trying to explain it to you so I will just drop the subject. Like MSHarmony says; Obama's presence wouldn't have made an impact on fighting Terror. |
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Edited by
navygirl
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Fri 01/16/15 11:41 AM
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Me; I do a workout and then sit in my hot tub to unwind.
I also like to work on my music. |
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