A perfect date in nz .. is easy to plan .. a sail through dusky sounds would be idyllic .. my safety would not be an issue .... his might be

You think it would be wrong if I ask to frisk them on meeting?

Yeah, I guess in this day women AND men should opt for safety first.
Anymore, predators can be either sex.

Considering all of the Greek references that are in this thread, here is some baklava for everyone.

You mean trust a stranger? Please clarify. If I am meeting someone, it will be where I feel safe

If I meet someone, it will be where people know me and have my back. If that person doesn't like it, bye.

I've done something similar in the past.
Lately it stopped working for me because I forget I have it in the freezer and by the time I get a hankering for it again, a half a year has gone by. Then it gets "that taste" and I throw it out anyway.

Yeah, I'm weird, but I know it.
Unlike most of the men I know and me when I was younger,dating is not a quest to get laid, its a way to share experience to find comonalities. I figure a date needs to be as close to normal lifestyle as it can get.

It isn't a fantasy for me, I've done it.
We talked on the phone while she was driving down here.
I used my computer to find her an affordable motel room close by.
When she got here, I let her get some sleep and we agreed on a time I would come pick her up.

First, we went to breakfast. A sitdown joint that is a donut shop but serves breakfasts.
Then I took her on a tour of the town, starting with the beach drive. We talked and she played the songs I have that she likes.
It was a sunny warm morning.

I took her to the duck pond, we fed the ducks and walked in the park a bit.
We walked into Old Town and did a bit of shopping at the lil mom & pop souvenir shops. We had a light lunch at one of the beach pubs and she agreed to let me cook dinner for us at my place.

By early afternoon it was heating up so I took her back to her motel so she could grab her swimming stuff. We stopped by my place, I showed her around and grabbed my own swimming stuff and a beach blanket. We lounged around the beach, more wading in the warm surf than actually swimming.

Around 4pm we packed up and went to my place. After we both got changed, we looked in the kitchen for ideas for dinner. We agreed on Grilled steaks and a macaroni salad. We went grocery shopping, she loved all the weird foods that were available down here that she never tried before. I bought a few items for her to try. We picked up the fresh ribeye steaks at the butcher and a container of macaroni salad at the deli.

I cooked her steak first. She said it was done perfectly.
We ate outside while the stereo was playing inside. We shared some wine and spent time talking on the porch till it got dusk.

After it got dark, I let her look thru my movies and pick out a movies and we cuddled up on the sofa and watched a movie. After the movie we agreed it was time for her to go and I took her back to the motel. After a long goodnight, I went home.

The next day, I awoke to her ringing the doorbell. I was pretty happy to see her happy face. She came in and we had coffee and some rolls I had in the fridge.
She asked me what we were doing today and I asked her what she wanted to do. She said she wanted to visit the French Quarter in New Orleans. So, we drove the scenic route and spent the day at the Nola French Quarter, we went to the famous cemetery and looked at the crypts, she thought it was cool that it looked just like in the movies. I directed her to a few other 'sights' and we headed back 'home' using the highway.

That night, things got weird. I noticed some very disturbing personality conflicts concerning prejudice and racism, among some other moral issues. I live in a mixed community. I told it wouldn't work between us and why. She left and went back home.

Until her true personality came out that night I was hoping to get laid and it looked like it really was going to be a wonderful night. I could have blindly accepted her and gotten laid but I'm not like that.

She called me for about a month trying to convince me to want her.
Then my phone minutes ran out and I didn't renew them, lost the number because I didn't renew it in time. Her phone calls stopped.

Up until this woman lied to me we were having a good time. Too bad she needed to lie.

Feeding the ducks in the park near me, a stroll around the architecture and then food at some posh restaurant.


I’m keeping a close eye on this thread to see who the easy to please women are, the first to mention McDonalds gets a PM.

Fine dinning, historical site seeing, talking about everything getting to know one another! This is a real date, did it several times inperson!