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Thu 07/23/09 08:07 PM

Beware of women who warn ya bout other women:thumbsup:

Is that "the guilty dog barks first" thingy?

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Thu 07/23/09 07:10 PM
I wish I had a nickle for every time someone told me they thought they "Felt Funny" and ignored their symptoms until they were in serious trouble medically. Rehab is a drag. Avoid it at all costs even if it means a minor doctor bill for preventive maintenance.

You don't always feel that God aweful when you are having heart problems. You don't seem the type to be that anxious; class clown yes, but intuition might be more the venue of the love of your life so I don't know if I would risk leaving her behind.

You may not be having a major heart attack but your body is trying to tell you something and you might want to go see a doctor and have them check you out. You know what your risk behaviors are so no sense going through them.

Good Luck.

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Thu 07/23/09 06:49 PM
Some things you just have to suffer for the greater good.

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Thu 07/23/09 06:45 PM
I wonder how many guys are looking at the cheese though?

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Thu 07/23/09 06:37 PM
You will do fine in Grad School. I am sure you have your angels smoothing the way where need be.

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Thu 07/23/09 06:28 PM
I like hats but that is kind of weird.

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Wed 07/22/09 11:39 PM
My sons didn't color their's but are greying prematurely. I have a daughter in law that colors hers. No decorator colors but seems like it looks more harsh than it used to.

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Wed 07/22/09 11:17 PM
See ya later.

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Wed 07/22/09 03:56 PM
I don't care if a guy is occassionaly and little Arsehole just as long as he isn't a total But* all of the time. lol

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Tue 07/21/09 11:07 PM
Find a shirt in a flattering color that doesn't wash out your fair complexion.

Get a shave or at least a trim so you don't look grungy.

Redo your photo so that the glasses don't glare and you do not have a background that looks like a 14 year old's room. Add photos that show interests.

You have that youthful look and if you have a small frame you need to add full length photos that makes you look like a man rather than a kid that is all head.

Rewrite your profile. If you are that smart you can do something much more organized and error free.

You actually sound like a good guy with a fun get out and live view of life. Good Luck!

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Tue 07/21/09 09:31 PM
I smell lawsuit somewher down the line. Owning a cell phone no more predicts a traffic accident than owning a refrigerator.

Not everyone is and idiot and tries to do things they are not suppose to while driving a car.

Do I think the community should come down like a ton of bricks on some one who uses a phone while driving? Absolutely. The catesrophic results are well documented.

Why the technology doesn't exist to some how jam the phone signal when used in a car I don't know but I wish it did.

People who hate this as much as they do DUI could help a lot by simply hang up on those who are talking while driving.

I just wish anyone caught while driving and useing a phone could be deprived the privledge of having service.

I predict there will come a time where owning a cell phone does require either a license or insurance or both.

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Tue 07/21/09 08:52 PM
This might sound like a dumb question...but do you love your kids? Like your life?

My guess is you would say Y-E-S! Well if you feel that way why wouldn't a guy? Likeing kids being PART of your life isn't exclusive to Moms or even guys who have kids.

My late husband kind of shocked me. Everyone thought he was a terminal bachelor and the truth was he just wasn't all that hot for babies but he wanted to be a parent when he was ready and thought my sons were a prayer answered. No we didn't have five but one we did have was profoundly disabled and probably demanded as much as three all in himself. And we were checking into getting more when he passed.

Hang in there. Go out with your family and have a blast! Nothing makes someone want you as seeing you really loving your life; kids and all. While I wouldn't bring a new person into the "family" up front I would not be so afraid of my kids being around someone you like that you make it something fearful.

Keep your eyes open and check out the background of everyone but it isn't just boyfriends who abuse kids. Part of what they learn about relationships requires actually having them. Even the ones that fail.


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Tue 07/21/09 07:49 PM
Magnetic Key holders are a car theif or a "naughty" teenager, or a determined senior's best friend. Since insurance companies can wait as long as three years to pay off if the car doesn't show up wrecked or stripped. If the car is used in a crime it is not unheard of for defendants to say they were given permission to use the car and possession of the key is the proof. Putting a bus token or phone change in one can save your bacon if you live in the city.






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Tue 07/21/09 11:53 AM
Was thinking about this post.

As someone who's life has been "on the move" for various reasons I would like to share some perspective that maybe others don't have.

That is no matter where you live, where you go to make a "fresh start", "move forward", or "find Happiness" the most important person you take is you. No matter where you live in the USA you are pretty much going to find the same thing. There will be the same general mix of personalities, opportunities, and stressors. (That also generally means you have the same opportunities to meet quality people to date if you just look for them locally.)

Moving in and of itself can be pretty exciting, and I think it is a good experience that folks should try at least once, but it can drain your energy and cut off the little investments that you sometimes don't even realize you make. That how much easier that familiarity is even if it is boreing.

So much of a move is rebuilding things you have already accomplished. That can be a bonding experience if both partners are starting from scratch but when you move into someone else's life you are basiclly sacrificeing a lot and there will be a lot of catching up. If you are really up for that and the person you join can be generous enough not to expect that it takes a while for things to level out it can be worth it.


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Tue 07/21/09 10:19 AM
Hello ya all. Goofing here myself. Cooler but still hot here in Sac how about where you are?

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Tue 07/21/09 09:48 AM
Don't know what the post was about but the line my very wise Mother in law told me in parenting adult children "Twenty somethings are just two year olds on steroids. Relax trust what you have invested they will be fine."

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Tue 07/21/09 09:32 AM
If you left off the last four sentences this would be an Excellent profile. Good luck. Welcome to the playpen,

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Tue 07/21/09 09:07 AM
I wonder how many languages are represented in the basic "American" conversation each day?

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Tue 07/21/09 08:48 AM
Some duct tape is pink and blue and yellow and other colors; oops off topic...guess the Barbarian lol Probably as close as I will ever get to Barbie.

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Tue 07/21/09 08:25 AM
Irish and Native American; Irish widow

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