Happy Happy Happy for you and the new parents.

Or bashing women for not responding to being foul mouthed, whineing, and having I-itis but when you answer their questions they go running to the Mod they are being attacked and insulted. So for now on Silence for the fools.

My bet is on Wednesday afternoon......Get your rest and happy delivery.

My youngest child had ear surgery in his second year and I well remember the fear over thirty years later.

I also remember that he breezed right through it and after a little nausea as he woke up was up playing enjoying the attention only a few hours later.

That it seem to rocket his previously struggleing developement was such a blessing.

The suggestion to talk to other parents is a really helpful suggestions. National Association For the Deaf is a good place to start looking.

K-Spin which is a program with Lexington Kentucky Red Cross could hook you up too. Ask for a lady named Gail Lincoln. She is pretty much an expert on maxiofacial stuff.

Will keep you on my prayer list. If you need more resources write at your leisure.

Probably not. I try to blend in.

Spend too much time posting in forums instead or having a life? lol

I think it is a very nice profile.

Nice photo. Million dollar smile.

It might help to put spaces between words and double spaces between sentences. Little hard to read. But good text.

Nice quote but need the parantheses so know where it starts and ends.

No but if you want to tell me a couple I will be glad to try them out.

Being a twin is really tough. Sorry it is not working out so great.

Sad that so often the difference/alikenesses are such a source of stress. I am sure there is hurt on both sides; just expressed differently.

Also sad is the roles that twins often get pushed into (even by family members); good/evil, submissive/agressive, smart/dumb, loveable/unloveable. From what I have seen it tends to be a lot of the reason behind things when relations are problematic.

There are a couple of excellent National Twins organizations you might turn to for positive suggestions. There is also a good book called Dealing With Difficult People.

The choice to just vacate the relationship will have a mixed result you have evidently already seen. There will come a time when your parents generation is gone and the kids leave home where you could deeply miss your siblings; especially a same sex twin. If you let long gaps happen the sore spots don't necessarily heal. Looseing a sibling you don't like is just as painful as looseing one you do. One thing about it once they truely are gone from your life you don't get to resolve anything and the desire to choke the poop out of them never goes away.

Sending prayers of peace and healing your way. There is and excellent site called Musella if she wants the best of the best in this fight.

The mouth; is it smileing? Yes = Good. No = Looseing interest fast.

Hopefully not often. Think what is important is to get back on program and maybe learn from the slip. Figure out why/what lead up to it. I have found bad habits return in a void so you need to find something that meets your need in a good way.

Hi Mike, Thanks for the Valentine's greeting. Sound like a great guy. Be interested to hear how you would develope your list of interests.

I suppose this is kind of like current events or humor but wish the threads would quit sounding like an extension office for u-tube or my space.

Well you have to start somewhere but it is nice to know the goal. It does seem like some profiles contradict themselves.

I would give this profile an 8 and if you put on a picture smileing a 9. The text is natural and friendly.

LOL if I wrote everything down I do I wouldn't have any time to do it. LOL

Yup you got to slam a few doors and sweep a few rugs every once in awhile.

I'd like to be a Redneck cuz I could....

Buy my Wedding Cake with Food Stamps!

Honeyingmooning in my Camper in the WalMart parking lot..

Live in my Grannyma's house until I have six kids.

Call all my male youngins buy hollaring Bubba.

My oldest daughter would be pregnant at the same time as me being pregnant with our last kid.

Keep live catfish in the stocktank.

And have at least one litter of kittens under the house at all times.

Have at least one Uncle is in jail.

And one Aunt driving truck. Or the other way around can't remember.

My first/only job would be at the Good Will.

Have pretty Christmas decorations up year around.

Be on a first name basis with the staff at the welfare office.

See all my friends on Mingle on Saturday night. lol

While I might apply this concept in the creative process or even in an employment situation but I can't see it applied in a personal relationship.

Especially NEVER and intimate relationship where (1) I can't imagine begging for anything or someone loving and respecting me wanting me too. (2)Since I see a partnership as a relationship of intertwined equals the idea of permission would be like asking myself if I wanted to do something.
(3)Doing something against my partner that I would need forgiveness for would seem like betraying myself so it would seem so foreign to me that it would cross my mind to ask for it.

That is not to say I am so glib to think everything I would say or do would be perfect in my partners eyes but he would feel secure in my intent or I wouldn't be with him.