If you thinketh, so will you be. Think positively, I've been down in the dumps recently, but I am on a better road now.

It sounds like you really care about her, no matter what you are fighting about, I hope you have less blow ups and more make-ups.

I'm sure not all English girls are like that, but I'd be lying if I said that I haven't come across quite a few with their 'Pride' intact. We get a lot of tourism in Louisiana and I only met 1 or 2 who were cool.

*Hey* That means you are beautiful and unique to your country, I think that's pretty awesome.

Ummm, that's kinda weird. It's not like you can stop being you. Maybe you can fake her out. The 7 dwarves sang...

Hi, My name is Shayna and I am a giant sucker.

I actually had that happen, but in an opposite fashion.

You know that kid who is butt of everyone's jokes and is kind of pathetic because she just wanted everyone to like her, so she would fall for anything...that was me in Jr. High.

I made friends with a particular new girl who looked like the female equivalent of Steve Urkel. Apparently, she was the type to point out other people's flaws so no one would make fun of her.

We hung out for a little while (sleepovers, etc.), then the few friends I did have stopped talking to me and started separating to be with her. I was very alone the last two years I was there and made fun of constantly by the girls I grew up with.

When I moved to a new school, I was suicidal and refused to go. I ended up having to go to therapy. I became a better person for it, instead of a suicidal tradgedy. However, I still had a hard time with resentment.

When I was 22 I got a letter from one of the girls in that group about how she missed all the 'good' times she had with me...I don't know what she had been smoking.

I know it was petty, but I sent her a scorcher that I would prefer to be a memory to her, because for all intents and purposes, that girl is dead.

Five years later, we shared a few e-mails, a few apologies, and I grew up a little. We still chat occasionally.

Let me translate - she is not comfortable taking silly pictures, but she does for fun, You are not confortable taking silly pictures, but you shut her down and say no. Double standard, she is pissed because you aren't being fair.

I think your cute, but 'iam4u' is right. If you just try to live your life happily and not try to validate it with having partners, you will find a partner eventually to share the happiness with.

lol

Massage your fruits are beautiful.

Its a skinhead (Neo-Nazi), your skin looks light enough that they might mistake that in a club. Wear a black knit hat or something equally cool.

I can't see your eyes in the pic, but you don't look too bad to me.

However, I am American who knows we are a melting pot of cultures. Some people are just ignorant.

She ran away huh? Sounds like a personal problem. Who knew English chicks were so stuck up?

Stephanie you are beautiful.

And might I say, in a non-pervy way, you are just adorable.

That's a great question. If you are attracted to someone...are they a pervy groper, if you get excited?

Everybody here seems to be giving you some genuinely decent advice, so I really don't have to say anything.

I will say this...don't spoil her so much. Kissing her butt afterward just makes her see how much control she has over you.

Next time you go out to give her some space, DO NOT TEXT HER. You make yourself seem needy. Wait till she texts you. If she doesn't text, confront the problem when you get back.

How are you dealing in Japan right now?

HANDS DOWN! This is the best advice for that question.

You are welcome. To answer the question about why guys don't get clingy, its because they have that happen at a younger age. Most boys lose their virginity in their teens. Believe it or not, it is by girls who have lost their virginity at a young age as well and ALSO have that tendency to try unmarked territory.

By the time they go out with girls like myself, they have already covered a lot of relationship ground. They know that sex is just a side effect of being with someone. ITS A HELLUVA LOT OF FUN, but its not the connection to love and happiness either.

I have a friend whose husband is severely disabled in his back, they can't do much. However, they love each other and that is what is important to them.

My brother, has no emotional connection to any of his girlfriends. He never wanted to get married and he doesn't. He still has no problem finding girls to get laid. He'd never knowingly be with a virgin b/c he knows the score and prefers women who know as well.

I truly believe she was George Patton in her former life. Always walking around ordering me about. "meow, reaooww, MEOW!"

the older i get, the more I realize that i have nothing to lose in following my dreams.

I also like the other band maynard created as well.