Just throw rocks at him and be done with it.

If you really don't want to get back together with him, then it doesn't help that he contacts you all the time, esp in weekends. 4 months is still early days and if he keeps contacting you when you're still finding your feet, is asking for trouble. For you, that is.
You're probably going back and forth, yes, no, yes, no. That way you won't ever get any rest.
Don't know if you reply? I'd be very clear that I didn't want him contacting me anymore. Maybe a conversation is needed for that. But then you'd have to be very very clear, both in verbal language AND have your body language match the words (if you'd see each other). He might pick up on you not being sure about it all.
And don't get dragged into arguments about (yeah, but, we were so great and this that and the other --> pointless arguments) The only argument is "it's over!"
And do not reply anymore after that. And I hope he's not a fruitcake, as in a stalker in the making?

if their main pic is not a personal pic (cartoon) or looks too good i'll check and see if they have any other pics.

When you give it all to someone, anyone, a piece of you
is forever tied to them.

When it does not work out, sometimes you feel you should
hang on to that piece.

Problem is, the other party did not share that deepness.
Your intentions are pure.
But theirs are not always so.

Recognizing the one-sidedness can help you move on.

I never wanted to write this type of post but it's eating away at me and I need to vent

After my divorce in 2012, I NEVER wanted to get married again... still don't really. However, I met and started dating a very handsome, jeans and tee shirt sexy younger guy. I was having fun... 9 months ago, he asked me to marry him and AGAINST my better judgement I said, Yes! Well, 3 months later we are no longer together! I couldn't put up with the lies and deception... such as " falling alseep over his brother's house" or sending me a 2 paragraph text saying he couldn't talk because he was driving.. Really? This one right here, was the final straw!

I know he's a sneaky little weasel... but damn I miss my sneaky little weasel.

I know what I would tell a female who posted this.. " He does not Love you chick, move the hell on"

I've never been on THIS side of the coin... and it really is a lot cloudier over here.

Someone once said " Sounds like I may still be hung up on my ex" I might be, but LORD knows I'm trying NOT to be, he really is NOT a good guy.

Wait a minute? Don't take the moral high ground with me? I've lived a life and been about, not just you? Talking out my azz? Here's a toilet roll to clean the skidmarks off yer lips? Cos if anyone is talking shite? It's YOU!!

I see you had to edit your original thoughts? Guess that was a tongue check happening? But again, Thank You!!!