best advice carry a good flashlight...

I'm left handed so I usually feel with it but will change hands if needed or tired depending on needed satiation....

Given the plethora of needed variables to be in each others league its difficult to generalize as person specific issues also play a role just as a person who has been abused would appreciate a strong and successful person who could provide a feeling of safety and this could put someone who otherwise was not in their league. Generalizations are helpful but learning the exceptions can be most rewarding if one is willing to address the fears in seeking out of ones league I once met a woman on campus who was wearing no makeup had her hair in a pony tail, wearing a sweatshirt and jeans and asked her to dinner as she seem quite natural and pleasant. I picked her up for dinner later and when I arrived she was in full make up she had been with Eileen Ford and been on the cover of Vogue, and on several bill boards in Atlanta, the newspaper and Time magazine. She liked the fact that I was personable, assertive, and not aware of her modeling looks and that meeting her without the make up was for her more genuine and authentic than simply another man wanting to sleep with a model.. she later moved on to television in Florida..

If you had to ask you knew the answer just hoping someone would let you off your conscience speaking...

Unfortunately that is not done with saliva but rather urine

sometimes its safer to stay with ones pain than risk perceived greater pain in moving forward One writer referred to this as " the divine right to stagnate" So if you are not willing to let go of the site of the shore you cannot explore new vistas....

And likely ignored by a plethora of others...

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Well , If it applies to both situations, the former one is easy to deal, Trash him without any second thoughts.



lol yeah i agree ..new person situations are harder. like fee fie foe fum

For the Second situation, it is very personal. It really depends on what you value the most and your faith in.

problem is sometimes they would mold their personality into what they think would work to make the girl fall for them ..., should we try and do the opposite then? would saying : i like a lying obnoxious,insensitive guy, help in a way that the opposite of this guy comes along and figure out this is not what you really want

Wow... heavy appetite, soulmate ;)

dichotomous choices are really no choice as the issue is the missing middle...

I resemble that remark

When I college I met Irene around two in the afternoon. We met on campus at the U of H and talked till 6 then she invited me to her parents house nearby. We talked I met her mother father, grandmother, maid and talked till 530 in the morning , At this time her father came into the living room and said In our house the guests must leave when the sun came up so after 13 plus hours I did leave. We have continued to converse till today and will do so till one of us dies as friendship such as ours is eternal Not only is she bright but also wise and speaks 6 languages, was sued by the US government for 200 million dollars and she won!! Irene is incomparable and indefatigable too

I appreciate your desire to resolve a rejection but not sure that a open ended invitation is the better way to accept being stood up I would wonder what was going on and what role you played if any, in the outcome you experienced? Without more input its not possible to ascertain what actually happened.. Continue with your optimism and perhaps move more slowly with your next potential date... regards

some folks may not know that birds are used to name women in England just as they smoke a fag ( cigarette) lol

Your message is direct and honest. Most people are not aware of the variance in sexual behavior and such ignorance compels much confusion and unnecessary pain to those similarly inclined. Hope you both continue and provide the support and love you share...

Townhouses and Condos are terrific all the amenities with none of the fixing jobs other than paying its a great way to have it both ways lol

Handymen are for hire all over the place just spend a few dollars and get what you need done...

I am fortunate to have dated Vietnamese, Chinese, Filapino, Taiwanese, Australian, German, Irish, Hispanic, Greek, Lebanese, Spanish, Italian, Cuban, French, English, Chech, Thai, and generally speaking found them to be honest, kind, nurturing, and calm.... Half of all relationships fall upon each partner as to its viability and or its failures and how such issues get addressed.

Let me ask my mother if I can do so....

No its a shortcut for lack of knowledge in offering an introduction and a lack of imagination welcome to anything goes....

Welcome love landlord....

Astrology has no basis in science but people seek a shortcut to understand and comprehend the complexity of human behavior so they seek simple answers to complex human issues at the expense of rational discourse and common sense....