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Thu 05/25/17 05:49 AM

I don't care for the terminology

for instance

if you describe a strong man

do you say he is big and bulky

like a no neck gym rat?

or do you describe his personality traits?

strength by this time in life

is to me about a quiet confidence

you do not have the need to throw your weight around

or be the 'big man' in the room

you know who you are as a person

it is no different with a woman

she knows her strengths

and being open and vulnerable with another human being

is a strength no matter the gender

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Wed 05/24/17 09:05 PM

On the other hand........there's four fingers and a thumb.
On the other hand, I have warts....

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Wed 05/24/17 09:04 PM





I happened to read this..
He is my favourite actor.
Somehow... It surprises me, this quote is from him.
I don't know.....maybe ..he always seem so happy and funny.
It shows ...how little I know .......

Sharing with all the minglers.flowerforyou flowerforyou

Some assert that comedians have a history of pain and use humor as a coping strategy and I suspect there is some truth to how these two are linked....

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Wed 05/24/17 02:40 AM

communication is always important

I am usually under an 'assumption' that there is no exclusivity unless expresssly communicated, UNTIL a sexual relationship occurs

for me, there is going to be no sexual relationship without the commitment of exclusivity

but, just online communications?

I expect them to have ,know, and communicate with others, and I suppose I assume they are expecting the same.



One difficulty not addressed is when a relationship becomes sexual and the couple are not compatible and one person needs to leave and the illusion of fidelity is demonstrated Wanting exclusivity is not the wisest goal if one is seeking an honest and compatible pairing as commitment will fail if sexual parity is not fulfilled///

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Sun 05/21/17 04:58 AM
Ah the meeting of the 7th grade comedy club has begun....

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Sat 05/20/17 08:54 AM

I believe its just an immitation of real life introduction

when someone walks up to me anywhere in real life they usually only say
hello initially,,,,



Yes but face to face one continues to converse and not wait perhaps forever for a response as many are just here to manipulate. anyone who only says hello is not likely to be successful as more interaction is mandatory...

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Sat 05/20/17 06:52 AM
You be in my dream Ill be in yours Bob Dylan

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Sat 05/20/17 06:49 AM
add several dating sites to your agenda, extend your distance so you can increase the numbers of potentials, realize the average person is the US is also married three times and don't take others advise too seriously here...

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Fri 05/19/17 04:03 PM
Geee geographically undesirable, short, stocky, smokes these do not add to your allure so more information may help detract from the aforementioned factors to increase your responses..

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Sun 05/14/17 07:04 AM


one night affair = temporary sexual satisfaction without emotional attachments ? i dont know any human who could turn emotions on or off so how is it managed????


habits or entertainment can work without emotional attachment,

when one learns to view sex in such a way,, it probably isnt hard to manage
and managing hard can lead to a desired climax...

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Tue 05/09/17 04:43 PM

MsHarmony, very brave of you, thank you.
yea she is guilty of self disclosure which is actually a good thing as it demonstrates her maturity to reflect and see what role she played and what were the results of her choices a wise and insightful process yet few seek to travel as insight requires a modicum of courage and many cannot face and so simply deny its presence...

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Tue 05/09/17 04:39 PM

Mistakes are made, lessons are learned. With that said I take what I have learned previously into the next relationship. One lesson I haven't quite figured out is not being so damn shy. slaphead
Shyness is something you can learn to manage with the proper help and can do wonders for your being more assertive and direct with both men and women hope you get help as fears are often stronger than efforts to reduce and or eliminate them,,

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Sat 05/06/17 05:46 AM

Well.. I did look in the mirror this morning while getting ready..lol..heehee
So its true Narcissus has a brother... lol

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Sat 05/06/17 05:44 AM

you can find them here

wheresdawhitewoman.com

They have a shade chart and you can click on it to find the shade of white that you like best.




you simply pick the shade you like make your request and then they arrive at your door waiting to be pampered and spoiled...

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Sat 04/29/17 10:27 AM
Somebody wants permission? if so, the answer is no...

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Fri 04/28/17 08:18 AM
you will certainly know them and how they look whereas here you never know if it is a person. an illusion, or a scammer lol

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Wed 04/26/17 07:48 PM


I tried posting in the naughty section for months...finally gave up.think


laugh that is so you, Max. There are still lots of new members trying to do that.
thanks, Max flowerforyou
Wouldn't Max appreciate some new members???

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Wed 04/26/17 12:42 PM

Gyros and a salad
Ditto me too in Cypress tonite at Opa Greek Tavern Yummy

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Tue 04/25/17 08:12 AM
Excellent great perspicacity Have you considered other dating sites as well???

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Mon 04/24/17 01:30 PM

I seem to recall a saying about lions writing history,,,,,,,


there is a tendency to simplify humans into either heroes or villains,

maybe recognizing their actual complexity is too much intellectual work,,,,


Perhaps we are not ready to accept that the world is not run according to what is said but rather what is negotiated without our awareness or consent. The difference between what people say and want others to believe and hear, versus what they actually intend to do and act upon totally different yet serve to get one elected and re elected..

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