I was married to somebody, with a completely different agenda, it didn't work. It was a clash between a biased conservative (also staunch Catholic) family versus a liberal (in all senses) family.

I am very active in politics, so for me there has to be some common ground. Not 100% agreement, but at least some common ground. Which is not possible, as soon as issues like bias and xenophobia kick in.

Leah and Rocky

My head was the first place I checked.

Would you believe they fell into a small trash can? I had shredded papers. Never would have found them.

OT: Jumping head first into the fire.

Signing up for a Silent Dinner. Literally no talking. The dinner is with others from the deaf and hard of hearing community.

Anyone is invited.

Stoked to meet new people. Begin learning more of Deaf/HH culture and apply what I know/have learned into real life applications.

In person... 9 so far. All but two were friends I met in forums.

Getting ready to meet another friend in about 8 days

Exactly, that's pretty much how it is for me as well.

However, like Crystal, I believe if we truly click and resonate with each other, that our politic views aren't going to be so far apart that it would be an issue.

For me, it depends, If they are open-minded like I am, and we can have a civil conversation about it in the rare circumstance it comes up, then no it is not a dealbreaker... However if they are close minded and just want to argue then it's a major dealbreaker...

I see men ask about this regularly in the quizzes I've spoken of before on that particular dating site.
I always skip such quizzes and men.
I don't like it when a man isn't open and interested to get to know me, but is judgemental, has such fixed ideas that he'd immediately reject a person.

I do agree that when political opinions and ideologies lie far apart it's not going to work, but then I do think when you really click you won't be that far apart politically.

As for me, yes! Though I wouldn't use the term - "deal breaker", but I don't foresee a relationship with someone diametrically opposite in the political spectrum.

We're apolitical in this house.

Though, it can be fun sneaking down
to the political forum, and tipping
over that outhouse.

Not really their position as such, but their relationship to it. If all they have on their mind, and all they can talk about is, "blah blah blah politics this, and blah blah blah political that", then I'm outta there.

In the occasion of Diwali, I wish all the mingle friends.

Going to see my middle child in hospital , they got admitted in again yesterday due to type 1 diabetes complications, i stayed with them there over night but popped back home to get some stuff .,

I do...it's the laws of attraction we attract what we put out. YOU need to create that reality for things to start flowing in yourself.

You can't wait around and expect it to drop out of the sky onto your lap. It takes action, dedicated, believing and a passion to light a fire under your butt like you wouldn't believe. Live life like it already happened.

For me I made it my passion for change. Working on goals, mind,body and soul. Changing my mindset I'm going after my dreams and know I will achieve them. career, happiness, health. With a positive mindset I raised my vibration to attract good things/people into my life all around.


I know my future is going to be better than I could ever imagine. Why? because I'm willing to put in the work.

thinking When I was in Kathmandu in the early 70s ... along with the rest of the hippies under banners like ' give peace a chance ' ' make love not war! ... it was totally insane with all the stuff going on in the street... stayed at Hotel Woodland s and ate plenty of buff.... aka ...buffalo !
You right Bonnie .... I did come away a changed person.... stoned outta my mind ha ha !!