I think I'm actually on the mend Yeah.. I cry a bit, complain a bit... but I'm much better than I was!
Having a wish to kick him in the nuts is normal, Right?
I REALLY belive I can OFFICIALLY move on, if I can do this!
He'd be hurt and writhing on the ground... and that would be symbolic of our relationship.
And I could simply walk away.... without seeing if he's ok, if he needs help gettng up. Nothing.

It feels Really good just saying the words!

This.

I can forgive a lot of things, I can even forgive calling me a nasty name out of anger, because of a hot temper, but the effort it takes to actually go out and **** another woman, no way. I don't forgive that. Unless you literally tripped and fell into her vagina, over and over again for an hour, there is no excuse. If you're not getting enough sex at home, discuss it or leave. If you're pissy about something and want revenge, again, discuss it or leave. Or if you're the sort who can't commit and needs a variety (I've heard that ******** a lot) then don't commit to one woman, remain single, so you're not cheating. Seems pretty simple to me, but I see everything in black and white, there is no gray in my world.

What would YOU do? Are you like Mom, Go get help and work it out?
Like, my sister.. get revenge but stick with him?

NO ONE should be like my CRAZY friend...

Are most of you like me? Man or Woman... if they screw up this big.. no 2nd chances.

If you're keen and actually show an interest in them you're being "pushy" and it's "pressure" but if you act like you're not that bothered they suddenly want to date you. Then they complain about there being a lack of genuine guys and how they keep ending up with jerks that can't really be bothered.

This thread doesn't reveal my character at all, but if you think it does than go ahead. The reason I discussed this is because my girlfriend and I were discussing race and why here father wouldn't like me(he's black) and he wants his daughter to date black guy, and she knows he wouldn't accept me because i'm white. But she says she has a preference for white guys, so really no guy that she likes can she feel comfortable bringing home(if he's white).

The reason I posted it from my perspective is because if I said I don't feel accepted because of my white skin-color I would get crucified on here and people saying "you have no idea what it's like...don't pretend you know how minorities feel" or something to that respect.

I understand people have strong feelings on the issue(as they should) but i was curious to see the general reactions of what people think and why saying someone may be more attracted to one skin-tone over another, just as someone may be more attracted to one eye-color or another. I understand black comes in all different shades, and I never said I would rule someone out just because the color of their skin, I simply said I may don't find most black girls attractive(or really my girlfriend saying she doesn't find most black guys attractive, but it was translated to be from my perspective)

Sad because when you put a bunch of very young kids together they could care less about race and you don't see the labels that are later applied usually out of spite and jealousy. .

This one was 48, so my age range, from the States.
Even if my filters were set up tight, he would've gotten through.

Guys are getting dumber.

Another thing is he is shy to talk to girls face to face that is why he has left his number on the table without even knowing your name

Generally speaking had this guy gone about the initial approach a little different I would have a lot different vibe about it.
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I don't mix business and pleasure. My private life is VERY private.

This one female comedian talked about being at a party and she was getting ready to go home when this guy after talking to her for a bit asked her for a ride home. She replied she didn't know him and so she wasn't comfortable with doing that. The guy's reply was "You would be a lot prettier if you were nicer." Her thoughts were something like, gee thanks. But I don't know how important me being pretty is going to be when I'm a head rolling around in the trunk of my car.

I was just thinking about that joke because of this thread and figured it fit pretty well.

Maybe it was. If it happens again you'll know for sure. I just hope he doesn't find where you live. If he shows up there then you really need to file a report. I would say you could take the guys phone number and the police may be able to find out who he is without much effort. Especially if he's on parole or probation, He would have to have contact info for his officer to get a hold of him if he needed too. As Star said it's better to get this documented now rather then later.

I can't even remember what triggered it when I first started reading this thread. But I couldn't help but to think of how it seemed like a stalker move. The whole thing of him being outside in the parking lot is certainly creepier.

But I don't blame you for feeling the way you do or did. That is probably your instinct telling you something isn't right. It's part of your need to survive. Listen to that little voice in your head and it will usually tell you what you need to do.

You would think someone sober and of appropriate age would be welcomed then...Unless of course you are interested in the drunk and really old type.

I would still file a report with your local police department. At least then you have the early documentation if he ramps up the behavior. Give them the phone number. If you are lucky he has outstanding warrants or he is violating a probation or parole. I would take it serious enough to do a little more than avoid him. Because he has already tested you to see if you would check him on line for a record and you didn't so he thinks you won't go tot he cops which you should.

mine profile.actually frm banglore .good looking.virgin.want to date

Damn, didn't take too long to throw him against the wall and flash a spotlight on him, eh?

He left his number, showed up again to display interest...And you grab a can of f*ing mace, figuratively speaking of course. This is why I quit bothering with women entirely, s*, even at the beginning you're being scrutinized and I haven't even gotten into my legal history yet.

F* that s*.

That is pretty creepy and bit stalkerish by the sounds of it. Just please be careful.

"What do you do?" is the mother of loaded questions.

It's all true! even better, I'm a South Jersey girl... close to the shore!

Oh Of Coarse!!! I may not be able to hold on to a man... but I throw a KIK AZZ get together!

Don't know why guys are sending photos of their dobbers, when they're hung like a Flea? Idiots give the rest of us a bad name!

Hahaha!! Sorry to disappoint... but I do love being a Joisey Girl!


However, I may not travel to meet a man.... but I'd certainly travel for a party!

And then.... ??????