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Thu 09/17/15 07:54 PM



Alrighty ... I got a coffee break before I gotta go on my date ... so ..

- Czech ( I even spelled that wrong in my own language, hahaha)
- German
- English
- French
- Scottish
- Irish

Well, that leaves the Americans with the more difficult ones :)
Knock yourselves out!


Spanish
Portugese
Dutch
Nordic (norwegian, swedish, danish, finnish)
Russian
Greek
Polish




that's cheating :laughing:

you forgot Icelandic,Faroese :smile:


well, are we talking about languages or origins of languages? bigsmile

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Thu 09/17/15 07:48 PM


Adverse childhood experiences...
...results in adult health and behavioral problems.

Those experiencing more adverse childhood experience and general feelings of "not loved" are more likely to engage in illicit sex(incl but not limited to prostitution, pornography, sex abuse), engage in drugs, more health, mental, and behavioral issues as adults

Alcohol, tobacco, drugs, gadget use, body image (and eating disorder) and gender confusion issues, engaging in risky behavior (incl but not limited to violent/criminal/bullying activity, promiscuous sexual activity) can be used as a form of self medication to compensate, feel good or as escapism from internal conflict. With lack of proper intervention, and in an environment that accepts or encourages such behavior as normal, this causes permanent neural connections that solidifies such behavior as adults that can be passed down thru the generations as part of epigenetic theory of heredity.

Edited to add:
Arousal or excitement felt in many cases is termed traumatic sexualization and is an inappropriate development of the child as part of identifying with the perpetrator. This causes a subset to become eventual perpetrators themselves.

There is a misinterpretation of risky behavior as a form of enjoyment.

Executive function does not work in correlation with controlling impulse and assessing risk and consequence.

This puts the child, adolescent, or teen in a position to be manipulated, brainwashed or guilt-tripped into compromising themselves.


I remember how interesting I found this thread to be when you wrote it.

But I came across it when it was time to go home from work.

I made a mental note to write my thoughts, and events overtook me and I completely forgot about it. Then I remembered it again today...

I feel that the primary cause of the "black sheep child" (black sheep not bad egg) is poor parenting. I always think that educating your children properly is a major point, like sex education for example.

I would say most parents want the best for their children and educate them as to the dangers of getting involved in risky activities.

And then for the major part, I blame the media, which sexes up dubious or questionable things, almost everything, to make them look glamorous and sexy and the "in-thing" like tattoo's (they are for life not just for a weekend party) and soldiering, war is a dirty messy and traumatic thing, yet the media adverts that want you to join the military/navy/airforce sex it up to look glamorous and inviting, making no mention that you can lose an arm, leg eye not to mention your head and life too!

What really and truly frightens the life out of me if GM stuff being studied, like plants and animals. Like for example the MITS created "Spider Goat" A goat spliced with a gene from a spider....

Spider Goat (source BBC)

This is merely the tip of the iceberg


holy cow! spider goat surprised

and i thought spider-pig was bad enough...


:laughing: oops

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thank you for your comment on this Jaan flowerforyou
i wrote this post exactly to provoke thought into the subject :banana:

there is no question that parenting is a major factor in the lives of children...as well as the environment they are placed in.

media is a platform for a lot of agendas, and media is already the environment that kids are in today. and the fact is, it is already a global phenomenon and electronic media grows exponentially every second.
this can highly affect kids thru exposure to different "ideals". it is also a fact that advertising and marketing do use sexualized and violent images as well as fantasy/too-good-to-be-true ideas to sell a commodity or service.

the question now:
is media a good experience or an adverse experience for kids?
again this will boil down to both external dialogue and internal dialogue of the child/adolescent/teen, as well as the body's reaction to the media images presented.
On one hand, it exposes them to a variety of different cultures, learnings and ways of life.
On the other hand, it can promote the wrong ideas and fanaticism and rebelliousness.
it has been my observation that "bad eggs" and "black sheeps" emerge because of children's internal feelings of un-reciprocated or under-reciprocated love from parents, regardless what the parents do or don't.
Media becomes a sort of gratifying experience to lessen the pain of "feeling not loved enough"...just like substance ab/use and sexual promiscuity.

to bring it back to topic, we all know that kids at a certain age do pass thru stages of rebelliousness and will actively seek for like-minded individuals and ideals to feed and justify that feeling of rebellion. the developing brain, constantly exposed to certain images and ideals put forth by media will cause permanent fixations into adulthood without proper intervention. and eventually, it could become a patterned behavior passed down from parent to child.

the question now:
what if the idea of epigenetics will eventually be used as a means to that end?

on one hand, it seems to be an emerging "devil-made-me-do-it" reason for choosing one thing over another, therefore lessening personal accountability for choices made.
on the other hand, it can supposedly assist in understanding and treating or preventing certain "unwanted" predispositions.

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use and development of GM products and preservatives will definitely affect us all. but then again, it has already become a necessity to sustain global needs and wants.

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Thu 09/17/15 06:59 PM
are mushroom rings only found in the british isles?

i don't know of any other culture linking the mythic creatures and magic with mushroom rings.

mushrooms, yes, but not mushroom rings.

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Thu 09/17/15 06:56 PM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HiR5UGAdlMA

some men secretly really want Jessica Rabbit ^^ :tongue:

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Thu 09/17/15 07:27 AM

Alrighty ... I got a coffee break before I gotta go on my date ... so ..

- Czech ( I even spelled that wrong in my own language, hahaha)
- German
- English
- French
- Scottish
- Irish

Well, that leaves the Americans with the more difficult ones :)
Knock yourselves out!


Spanish
Portugese
Dutch
Nordic (norwegian, swedish, danish, finnish)
Russian
Greek
Polish


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Thu 09/17/15 06:39 AM
yes, privately owned restrooms are sometimes locked especially when they are located outdoors because it can be abused by the general public. these are the usually the companies that have the general public as their customers. and usually also by the stores that operate 24/7.

you never know what kind of people can walk into an individual stall and what things can do...throw whatever junk into the toilet, use up the water supply of the store, etc...

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i dunno about starbucks having a security code for their restroom tho...i know it is usually indoors, at the very opposite end of the entrance, and it's not as if just anybody will be walking into their stores anyways...

heck, did the barista even know if the officer would be ordering anything AFTER she had gone to the restroom? the "bathroom experience" might make her want to have a "coffee experience" after...lol

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Thu 09/17/15 06:08 AM


PansyTilly.....I have not encountered a keyed restroom in like 30 years. I guess I can understand some places that are high crime areas, but in general public stores/restaurants typically do NOT have keyed restrooms.


Quite a few are locked in Malaysia, normally at gas stations. And only the female ones. The male toilets are never locked. But one can simply go to the counter to ask for it's keys if u need to use it


same here. but gas station restrooms are usually outdoor from the shop, and i can understand why they would lock it.

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Thu 09/17/15 06:05 AM
so it seems more like an isolated incident by an employee that did not give consideration to a police officer (for whatever reason she may have had)...

i guess Starbucks can't fire the employee since she could always claim it is part of company policy...i doubt they would change that policy in writing either since that could cause a problem with the general public using their restrooms...

company image training should probably go hand in hand with their barista customer service training...ohwell

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Thu 09/17/15 05:15 AM
is this just an issue with the US?

i have entered Starbucks a few times and politely requested to use their restrooms before, without ordering anything. They don't have their restrooms locked here. of course, i dont do it all the time tho...that wouldn't be right...but the couple of times that i have, they never made a fuss out of it. they even let me park in their parking space for that few minutes...

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Thu 09/17/15 01:46 AM
funny you should mention Compton...

i literally just finished watching this...laugh

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1omPNEVOIaM


i will take a looksee at the link you posted

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Thu 09/17/15 12:38 AM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c2DgwPG7mAA
rofl

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Wed 09/16/15 11:42 PM
Edited by Pansytilly on Wed 09/16/15 11:48 PM
Public Morals

Edward Burns looks real good on this...smitten

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Wed 09/16/15 11:22 PM
LC learns series

:banana: rofl

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n-UXVZt_FNA&spfreload=10

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Wed 09/16/15 11:12 PM
heehee....oh the things you do not know about people bigsmile tongue2

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Wed 09/16/15 10:12 PM


i have only made a quick glance on each article and website. i have not appraised the content but they seem credible. no wikipedia here...laugh

these are introductions to the relation of epigenetics to and from heredity, psychology and behavior.

i will post ones on specific issues stated as i find them. waving



http://learn.genetics.utah.edu/content/epigenetics/

WHAT IS EPIGENETICS?

http://www.theguardian.com/science/occams-corner/2014/apr/25/epigenetics-beginners-guide-to-everything

Epigenetics 101: a beginner’s guide to explaining everything

http://nobaproject.com/modules/epigenetics-in-psychology

Epigenetics in Psychology


http://www.psicothema.com/pdf/4072.pdf

Epigenetics and its implications for Psychology

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/manage-your-stress/201207/the-influence-and-epigenetics

The Influence Of, And On, Epigenetics

http://champagnelab.psych.columbia.edu/docs/champ23.pdf

Behavioral epigenetics: A new frontier in the study of hormones and behavior

http://learn.genetics.utah.edu/content/epigenetics/brain/

Epigenetics and the Human Brain

http://www.nature.com/subjects/epigenetics-and-behaviour

Epigenetics and behaviour

http://bioscience.oxfordjournals.org/content/61/8/588.full

Behavioral Epigenetics: How Nurture Shapes Nature

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3063335/

A twin approach to unraveling epigenetics


personally...i think environment (nurture) is more determinant than arbitrary genetics (nature) to determine the kind of person one is and how society can choose to become "moral" or not. that is what God-given free will is about.


I think it is about 50/50. Many are aware of the "bad egg", the child that does not follow the upbringing and goes rogue.


yes, it depends on both external interactions as well as internal dialogue. not only in the familial upbringing, but also in peer group interactions.
i didn't follow my upbringing(hence i am the "bad egg" :angel::tongue: ), and as far removed from it that i am, i am still very much affected by it.

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Wed 09/16/15 09:18 PM
http://visboo.com/facts-y%D0%BEu-w%D0%BEnt-%D0%B2%D0%B5li%D0%B5v%D0%B5.html

58 facts

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Wed 09/16/15 09:00 PM
The story of two elderly people

This is the story of two elderly people living in a Florida mobile home park. He was a widower and she a widow. They had known one another for a number of years.

Now, one evening there was a community supper in the big activity center. These two were at the same table, across from one another. As the meal went on, he made a few admiring glances at her and finally gathered up his courage to ask her, "Will
you marry me?" After about six seconds of' careful consideration,' she answered. "Yes, Yes, I will." The meal ended and with a few more pleasant exchanges, they went to their respective places.

Next morning, he was troubled. Did she say' yes' or did she say' no'? He couldn't remember. Try as he would, he just could not recall. Not even a faint memory. With trepidation, he went to the telephone and called her. First, he explained to her that he didn't remember as well as he used to. Then he reviewed the lovely evening past.

As he gained a little more courage, he then inquired of her, "When I asked if you would marry me, did you say' Yes' or did you say' No'?" He was delighted to hear her say, "Why, I said,' Yes, yes I will' and I meant it with all my heart." Then she continued, "And I am so glad that you called, because I couldn't remember who had asked me."


slaphead :laughing:

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Wed 09/16/15 09:47 AM

Aint gonna get any easier for him. Tv network A&E is airing Cosby: The Women Speak Thursday night. Several of the victims will be telling their stories.


They are prejudicing the case. Im surprised they allow it.

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Wed 09/16/15 12:40 AM
Edited by Pansytilly on Wed 09/16/15 12:41 AM
First of all...thank you so, so much for your comment and observation, PacStar. flowerforyou

One of the core studies cited states that the research is ongoing, so it is actually a prospective study covering a wide range of backgrounds.

The way i read it and the way it was presented, it did not aim to determine or predict outcome. It's purpose is to find an objective basis as to why certain people are predisposed to certain conditions compared to others, such that two concepts are presented...

1) undesired effects can be prevented thru specific intervention during specified times of highest neural and psychological development (executive function and neurophysiology) in children up to their teens.
2) presentation of traits (whether to the negative or the positive) are determined not only by psychic development, but thru activation of specific genetic sequences.

It basically says that humans are social creatures as well as biological ones and being such, can adapt to change, thru both, psyche and genetics. One as a process of choice and the other as a process of evolution.

The study itself does not propose this, but many do lobby the premise that sexual orientation is not a function of choice, but rather has a genetic reason. It has also been proposed that a criminal mind is not solely a function of psychologic reasoning but rather of arbitrary neural connections and biologic drives.

Since there is always a great divide between what constitutes as "moral" or "religion-based choices", vs what is "scientific fact" of life, the premise of the post is one that removes moral boundaries and leaves all reasoning to science. Hence, the mention of epigenetics as the reasoning and justification behind people's primary mental processes.

Science vs philosophy.

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Tue 09/15/15 08:59 PM
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