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Topic: He says he is only joking.
MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Fri 10/24/08 03:10 PM
Your boyfriend calls you names like *****,slut,whore,ugly,fat,skank,smelly,tramp,etc.But he says that he is just joking, and he doesnt mean it.Would you take it as a joke?How would you react?

RareEntity Joined Mon 09/01/08 Posts: 23676	Fri 10/24/08 03:11 PM
kick his azz out

MisKim323 Joined Sat 06/28/08 Posts: 14563	Fri 10/24/08 03:11 PM
I would let him know that it is no way funny and he can find the door

Riding_Dubz Joined Wed 05/21/08 Posts: 22110	Fri 10/24/08 03:11 PM
I LOVE IT when my woman talks dirty to me

ledi180 Joined Sun 04/15/07 Posts: 5910	Fri 10/24/08 03:12 PM
There are times when I can be a b*tch, so he'd be welcomed to let me know, in a non verbally abuse way, but aside from that, I don't think I'd dig being called a whore. Just my thought

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Fri 10/24/08 03:12 PM
make up sex at the park

laughsandgiggles Joined Sun 10/28/07 Posts: 3560	Fri 10/24/08 03:12 PM
Your boyfriend calls you names like *****,slut,whore,ugly,fat,skank,smelly,tramp,etc.But he says that he is just joking, and he doesnt mean it.Would you take it as a joke?How would you react? Buh bye!!! that is so disrespectful- and he would probably freak out if i called him those names or worse- so he would have to go- don't let the door hit ya in butt on the way out baby!!!

kcjonny Joined Mon 10/13/08 Posts: 1	Fri 10/24/08 03:14 PM
I think that if you don't like it, it doesn't matter whether he is joking or not. You should tell him to stop.

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Fri 10/24/08 03:16 PM
When my wife called me asshole, it made me feel special

Lightitup Joined Wed 10/22/08 Posts: 43	Fri 10/24/08 03:17 PM
Mirror Dont let ANY ONE disrespect you like that. There is a difference in calling someone a name in jest and someone being abusive. I was in an abusive relationship for years, he did the same crap and then started hitting me. LEAVE!!!!!! THIS IS YOUR WARNING. YOU DESERVE BETTER.

SimplyElla Joined Wed 02/13/08 Posts: 7124	Fri 10/24/08 03:19 PM
TO EVERY JOKE IS SOME TRUTH

Lightitup Joined Wed 10/22/08 Posts: 43	Fri 10/24/08 04:26 PM
When my wife called me asshole, it made me feel special Me too except not my ex wife

buffry Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 2647	Fri 10/24/08 04:30 PM
I love that kinda talk..specially as he's riding this kitty!

symbelmyne Joined Mon 01/14/08 Posts: 5356	Fri 10/24/08 04:30 PM
Your boyfriend calls you names like *****,slut,whore,ugly,fat,skank,smelly,tramp,etc.But he says that he is just joking, and he doesnt mean it.Would you take it as a joke?How would you react? smash his head in with a hammer. ...this also doubles as an answer to your "ever hit your man.." post.

Godschosengirl Joined Fri 09/07/07 Posts: 2491	Fri 10/24/08 04:42 PM
Tell him I don't like that type of joking and ask him to refrain from speaking to me like that. If he does it again, done.

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Fri 10/24/08 04:44 PM
Not acceptable or funny.

papersmile Joined Fri 10/12/07 Posts: 5148	Fri 10/24/08 04:45 PM
Your boyfriend calls you names like *****,slut,whore,ugly,fat,skank,smelly,tramp,etc.But he says that he is just joking, and he doesnt mean it.Would you take it as a joke?How would you react? i'd probably make sure that i proved him right and behave accordingly when in his company.

galendgirl Joined Sun 07/06/08 Posts: 24728	Fri 10/24/08 07:53 PM
Some things aren't funny as jokes... move on!

msmyka Joined Sat 03/22/08 Posts: 17079	Fri 10/24/08 07:56 PM
Oh lord you should hear the names I call my loved ones... I really could never get mad as I am guilty myself

heathersaysgobucks Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 5306	Fri 10/24/08 07:57 PM
I've never picked a boyfriend that would talk to me that way, but it sure wouldn't last long if he did.