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Topic: Not Seeking Sympathy...
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Sat 11/07/09 06:13 AM
..as this is not about me, I'm just curious, what's it take for you to get over someone you've broken up with? Do you consume a gallon of Ben and Jerry's, throw darts at their picture, burn everything they ever gave you, play 'your' song over and over 'til you can't stand to hear it anymore....what's it take for you to move on...

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Sat 11/07/09 06:23 AM
a breakup is like a death. you have to go through all phases of grieving ending with acceptance

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Sat 11/07/09 06:26 AM

a breakup is like a death. you have to go through all phases of grieving ending with acceptance


Agreed! Hi Mark!flowerforyou Good to see ya!

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Sat 11/07/09 06:28 AM
Edited by bgeorge on Sat 11/07/09 06:29 AM
all of the above...lol and the day it dawns on you that you really do not give a $h*t anymore...fantasticdrinker

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Sat 11/07/09 06:28 AM


a breakup is like a death. you have to go through all phases of grieving ending with acceptance


Agreed! Hi Mark!flowerforyou Good to see ya!


Hi Robin, happy saturdayflowers

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Sat 11/07/09 06:31 AM

..as this is not about me, I'm just curious, what's it take for you to get over someone you've broken up with? Do you consume a gallon of Ben and Jerry's, throw darts at their picture, burn everything they ever gave you, play 'your' song over and over 'til you can't stand to hear it anymore....what's it take for you to move on...


Booty call.

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Sat 11/07/09 06:47 AM
i allow myself a real good cry and then find a new love. bigsmile

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Sat 11/07/09 06:48 AM
if you fall off the horse get back on...

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Sat 11/07/09 06:56 AM
Have myself a good:cry: Then talk about it to my best friend,then :cry: somemore.Then just move on.drinker :heart:

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Sat 11/07/09 07:07 AM
Depending on how long you were together-the longer the relationship and seriousness of it- the longer it takes. I know I can have no continued contact for quite awhile or I tend to get sucked right back in.

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Sat 11/07/09 07:08 AM

if you fall off the horse get back on...

I fell off a horse one time. I wouldn't recommend it. I usually take a couple weeks to be sad and listen to sad songs ( not country ick) and then go get a snowcone an move on. So with all that said an done, go get a snowcone, an it will all be ok when u finish it drinks

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Sat 11/07/09 07:19 AM
Timeflowerforyou

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Sat 11/07/09 07:36 AM
All great answers. For me, it's been a little different each time. I usually do the song thing and then collect up any reminders and toss 'em out. Staying busy and maybe a day outside at the park, hiking, out in the fresh air, always makes me feel alive again.

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Sat 11/07/09 07:39 AM

Depending on how long you were together-the longer the relationship and seriousness of it- the longer it takes. I know I can have no continued contact for quite awhile or I tend to get sucked right back in.


Yeah me too, I have to have some separation, but it seems like they wanna reach out to you even more sometimes, usually for the booty call!

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Sat 11/07/09 07:41 AM


if you fall off the horse get back on...

I fell off a horse one time. I wouldn't recommend it. I usually take a couple weeks to be sad and listen to sad songs ( not country ick) and then go get a snowcone an move on. So with all that said an done, go get a snowcone, an it will all be ok when u finish it drinks


I'd have to substitute the snow cone with a hot fudge sundae!!:banana:

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Sat 11/07/09 07:41 AM
I sleep with a bunch of women that I don't know until I feel better about myself, Then start looking for a girlfriend:wink:

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Sat 11/07/09 07:58 AM

I sleep with a bunch of women that I don't know until I feel better about myself, Then start looking for a girlfriend:wink:


y u little slut ulaugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

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Sat 11/07/09 07:59 AM

I sleep with a bunch of women that I don't know until I feel better about myself, Then start looking for a girlfriend:wink:


rofl Tramp!!

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Sat 11/07/09 11:06 AM
Depends on how it ended. Sometimes I didn't want to get over them, so I nursed the wounds and wallowed in my misery until I got tired of it. Now I know it's stupid and futile to allow myself to be miserable over someone who doesn't give 2 chits about me.

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Sat 11/07/09 11:09 AM
laugh I used to give them back everything they gave me then I regret it later. Now I pack everything up and store it away where I can't see it. Then I play songs like "I will survive" and "Heartbreaker" laugh

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