100% FREE ONLINE DATING
sponsored links
Previous
| Topic: what's the rush? | |
|---|---|
|
|
|
Why do you think some people are in such a hurry to find "the one"?????
(and NO this isn't about me Atlantis  )
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Who? Neo? I thought they found him.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Because the laundry is REALLY starting to pile up....
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Trinity ...
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Because interest rates will be going back up?
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Trinity ... Follow the rabbit. |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
because someone besides me needs to do the dishes!
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
trying lock the gold digger in on a low interest rate b4 the economy gets back to normal
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Trinity ... Follow the rabbit. Hole ...
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
take the red pill!
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
I love the cobalt of blue ...
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Why do you think some people are in such a hurry to find "the one"????? (and NO this isn't about me Atlantis ) I nudged you anyway. 
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Edited by
Atlantis75
on
Thu 07/15/10 08:56 PM
|
|
will you marry me Melody?  and then we divorce next day! Should be fun! 
|
|
|
|
|
|
Edited by
mikeschwink
on
Thu 07/15/10 09:05 PM
|
|
**** everyone wants a child at one point in their life so here it is... Well, Honestly because us guys "want" a boy to carry our legacy, our name, our stature. I feel that ladies want a more sentamental approach having something that has grown with them for nine months. I think that they want a bond that they could never create from any guy. (which is utterly true) So I hope I put it to rest. It is just my personal opinion.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
I imagine it's because modern people want everything in a hurry. We want our food fast, our banking without talking to anyone, we all drive as fast as we think we won't get pulled for (not the limit), and 24 hour groceries . We've just become a have it "now" society.
So, our patience has worn thin in the area of dating too. Does anyone have 2-3 year courtships anymore? I'm not saying it's bad, I'm not saying it's good, it just has become how the fabric of our society is. Besides, no one stays married for 60+ years anymore. If we find we make a mistake, we get a quicky divorce and are right back out looking for the next one. Quick ins, quick outs, it's just part of our nature now. |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
I imagine it's because modern people want everything in a hurry. We want our food fast, our banking without talking to anyone, we all drive as fast as we think we won't get pulled for (not the limit), and 24 hour groceries . We've just become a have it "now" society. So, our patience has worn thin in the area of dating too. Does anyone have 2-3 year courtships anymore? I'm not saying it's bad, I'm not saying it's good, it just has become how the fabric of our society is. Besides, no one stays married for 60+ years anymore. If we find we make a mistake, we get a quicky divorce and are right back out looking for the next one. Quick ins, quick outs, it's just part of our nature now. I think I agree with this answer 
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
I imagine it's because modern people want everything in a hurry. We want our food fast, our banking without talking to anyone, we all drive as fast as we think we won't get pulled for (not the limit), and 24 hour groceries . We've just become a have it "now" society. So, our patience has worn thin in the area of dating too. Does anyone have 2-3 year courtships anymore? I'm not saying it's bad, I'm not saying it's good, it just has become how the fabric of our society is. Besides, no one stays married for 60+ years anymore. If we find we make a mistake, we get a quicky divorce and are right back out looking for the next one. Quick ins, quick outs, it's just part of our nature now. I usually just remind myself of stories I read from the foreign legionnaires or military stories....or people going away sailing on the sea..they were "single" for not 1 or 2 years but for up to 10-15 years..perhaps even more. Some guys didn't even get married and had children until they were in the late 50s. |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
As being someone who was married. I can honestly say I have no clue why anyone is in a rush for that.
Now if we are talking about just the "one". I don't think there is just one. I don't mean that to be a w#ore. I just mean. As you grow so does your personality. I'm not the same person now I was 3, 6, or 12 years ago. We become new people as we continue in life. So he/she may be perfect now, but in the future your mind/soul goes this way theirs goes the other. So I personally think there are many "ones". Just depends on which part of my life I'm at. |
|
|
|
|
