of course i have fallen for a married guy before!, i was so attracted to him thus, no doubt this 'one-in-a-million character was already taken :O(

I think you need to re-examine what you think of as "uptight," making a good moral decision is not uptight it is upstanding!

I think you need to re-examine what you think of as "uptight," making a good moral decision is not uptight it is upstanding!

Sometimes, we only want what we want because it's off limits. I bet if he was single and you could have him you'd be over it by now.

To get respect from others you must first respect yourself. This situation you've gotten yourself into is not a respectful one, nor is it some fairytale that will end up with him sweeping you off of your feet. I don't care how great you think he is... just look at what YOU are allowing him to get away with! Ultimately it's your life and the decision is up to you but no man is worth degrading yourself in this way.

this is so much better than those crappy reality shows on TV....

I say keep your distance, you only fell in love cause your trying to part of his life. That can be a huge mistake but as an adult, have fun now and suffer the consequences later. At least you know he's probably not the "one" and it will end, the timing is just up to you at this point.

I am sorry for your grief but really I would never allow him to leave his wife and family. I don't want to be that person. I mean what I say on that. I just wish I could have some other unheard of type relationship with him i guess. I know better just talking out loud hear stating what i wish i could be his best friend and more but he still goes home to family every night. I could never look his kids in the eye if i caused there family to break up. Although I am from a divorced family and it never really bothered me at all I know that it can be life changing in such a bad way for some children. Oh that there is what i need to remember every time he calls apparently he isn't. It is more of a game of cat and mouse to him and the thrill of not getting caught i think.

I will miss the way he keeps me laughing it is intoxicating not to mention the other but I think I have it in my head now what to do and how to stop.

I don't know that he is one in a million but he has the type of personality I that i love with the look that I dont hate. lol.. He is not my dream guy but he won me over with personality and persistence to say the least. But I'm phasing him out as we speak.

Always think, that if you would be his wife, maybe he would fall for someone else the same way, how you would feel then. Good luck!

Thanks so much to most of you for your advice and your opinions on this. I have it straight in my head now and see a way for it to end. I was having a hard time finding the bigger reason to say no than yes before but i think i have it now . For too long now he has consumed all my thoughts and couldn't even and didn't even want to date another. I am interested in seeing how long it takes him to pick up with someone else. For all you idiots lashing out at me I hope the next one really doesn't want him to leave his wife because I think he is waiting for next best offer. I don't see him ever leaving unless something already lined up to fall into. I wouldn't be surprised if I was the first person he would run and tell me about new "other women".

I know everyone says they never leave but there are those that will never leave unless they know where they are going next. I have seen it happen with men in my family and i would assume they are the only ones that actually leave there wives and will end up doing the same to wife # 2 because they won't go it alone.

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He really got into your head did'nt he?

The only way you get over him is to totally break off any and all communication. Never go back, even if you think he'll soon be free. Save that passion for another man who is available. Maybe even have your next boyfriend role play like he's a married man with you.

You're right; men and women do leave their spouses for others. HOWEVER? If you are questioning your relationship, that clearly indicates that you are not feeling too darn good about what's going on. And? That's not a bad thing. Sometimes we need to separate the feeling of being alone over simply just having someone who will have us in their life because we're convenient for them, which you made yourself. We have divorce attorneys because spouses do cheat and that's probably the number one cause of divorces. But? You already know the answer in your situation. Separate your heart from reality.... That's hard; I know. In fact? Ironically I heard from the married man that I was dating, this morning. There's nothing left on my part.... You know why? 'Cause he told me he'd never hurt me; that he loved me; that he'd never lie to me. Guess what? He was messing with another woman, too! I found out; confronted him.... It died inside me; I'll never go back. Looking back, I now wonder what ta hell I was thinking. Please email me if you need to talk! I mean that! My guess is that he will probably use the magick that most men do; beware of that. He's a man; he wants sex and he wants to feel wanted by someone other than his wife. That's how the male species are made; they are made to mate and reproduce RAPIDLY! LOL.... (teasing there!) Don't go any further; lean on friends to get through. It's gonna hurt and it's gonna be hard on you; but, you'll feel much better about yourself for saying no.

The only thing you get when you fall for a married man, is a man that cheats on his wife....he does it to her...he'll do it to you...simple as that.

ARE WE HAVIN' FUN YET. I AGREE WITH THE COMMENT ^^^^^^^^ (UP THERE!) THIS IS BETTER THAN A REALITY SHOW! NOW THERE'S A NEW TOPIC!

its tragic that women (and men),think that they are going to be the ones to"change" the other person....like you said..what you see, is what you are going to get....

"All he needs is the 'love of a good woman' ... "

Right. That, and a buck-fifty, will get you a fine cup of coffee anywhere ...

SO king what would you have us talk about in this forum? why you visiting and reading you must really enjoy.... does it seem like a broadcast no one comes to this site it is very lame in my area of the world. maybe 200 members in the entire state.

That's a good quote!! I like but what is moral is debatable just like religions all have a different set of rules and ideas of what will get you to heaven or hell. I try not to judge anyone uptight is my term for saying to others they are too judgmental... but still like your quote.