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but i am not trying to help anyone spell or write a letter. I know my limitations. or do i????? lol
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Our Bus is here....Load up...single file ..please  
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Everyone seems to think including myself that you just have to leave. Thats the free advice the only other thing I could suggest is seek a good Therapist and lay your story on the line. Good Luck So only the cool kids and societal dictates of the norm or unnorm are allowed to stay and chat in the forums huh? Crazy or uncrazy leadership begins within the core being of self......no one should decide who is allowed and not allowed to stay in the forums but those set forth to do so.......sure it is a controversial subject and there is conflict in dialouge which indicates a conflict with the self core of the inner being......but does not everyone portry self conflict at some point in life? Many people use these forums for some form of therapy at some point......just because there is conflict over a subject and differing views is what makes these forums great and informational no matter what we take or leave. |
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Our Bus is here....Load up...single file ..please [/quote i miss my old ride to school. you know it i c |
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Many people use these forums for some form of therapy at some point......just because there is conflict over a subject and differing views is what makes these forums great and informational no matter what we take or leave. I think they meant the relationship, not the forums... |
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btw except for one i used quotes from the movie Anchorman
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Many people use these forums for some form of therapy at some point......just because there is conflict over a subject and differing views is what makes these forums great and informational no matter what we take or leave. I think they meant the relationship, not the forums... Oops gotcha thanks missed that....thought that was awful weird....so sorry please accept my apology and misunderstanding on your words....thanks Hm |
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Everyone seems to think including myself that you just have to leave. Thats the free advice the only other thing I could suggest is seek a good Therapist and lay your story on the line. Good Luck So only the cool kids and societal dictates of the norm or unnorm are allowed to stay and chat in the forums huh? Crazy or uncrazy leadership begins within the core being of self......no one should decide who is allowed and not allowed to stay in the forums but those set forth to do so.......sure it is a controversial subject and there is conflict in dialouge which indicates a conflict with the self core of the inner being......but does not everyone portry self conflict at some point in life? Many people use these forums for some form of therapy at some point......just because there is conflict over a subject and differing views is what makes these forums great and informational no matter what we take or leave. I am not allowing or disallowing anyone just made an observation on some of the responses i was receiving. I thanked you for yours but if you wish i could say something else . Remember I am according to these few people who have no clue who i am that i am crazy, evil and etc etc i am not one to leave anyone out. I am just saying now i am done continue if you like |
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Honey; you set yourselfup for a shitload of hurt!! You got yourself in you get yourself out!  Oh daaaaaaaaamn. Best post of the thread ... |
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but i am not trying to help anyone spell or write a letter. know my limitations. or do i????? lol Umm, from what I've read posted, the answer is 'no'. |
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"No lover, if he be of good faith, and sincere, will deny he would prefer to see his mistress dead than unfaithful."
~Marquis de Sade Good Luck! 
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have sex with him..video tape it and blackmail him
for 100,000$ usd 
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There ya go!!!
Man after my own heart!!
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Wasn't looking for it, did not want to, not sure how it slipped up on me. The sad truth is I have fallen for someone that belongs to someone else. I don't want to break up his family. I do still want to spend as much time with him as possible. I know this has no happy ending just wish i knew how to let go. I try and date others but he is the only one that captures my attention. I am so confused. I know you people here will not hold back on your opinions and looking forward to hearing what you have to say. Is it possible to have a happy ending when in love with a married man that you want him to stay with his wife but still want him as a lover, friend etc.... I have very little tolerance for such things. You both are selfish ........ 
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Wasn't looking for it, did not want to, not sure how it slipped up on me. The sad truth is I have fallen for someone that belongs to someone else. I don't want to break up his family. I do still want to spend as much time with him as possible. I know this has no happy ending just wish i knew how to let go. I try and date others but he is the only one that captures my attention. I am so confused. I know you people here will not hold back on your opinions and looking forward to hearing what you have to say. Is it possible to have a happy ending when in love with a married man that you want him to stay with his wife but still want him as a lover, friend etc.... I have very little tolerance for such things. You both are selfish ........ now..I would agree.. 
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Wasn't looking for it, did not want to, not sure how it slipped up on me. The sad truth is I have fallen for someone that belongs to someone else. I don't want to break up his family. I do still want to spend as much time with him as possible. I know this has no happy ending just wish i knew how to let go. I try and date others but he is the only one that captures my attention. I am so confused. I know you people here will not hold back on your opinions and looking forward to hearing what you have to say. Is it possible to have a happy ending when in love with a married man that you want him to stay with his wife but still want him as a lover, friend etc.... I have very little tolerance for such things. You both are selfish ........ 
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i was once in love with my friends wife, and i hung around them while trying to figure out what to do. her husband treated her badly, lots of mental abuse. she didn't seem happy with him, but i could tell she really loved him, part of the reason i fell in love with her. she didn't deserve any of his abuse, as no woman does, but her in particular. i never told her how i felt, even though she knew, because i felt it just wasn't my place to. after i found out he cheated on her a few times, i could not be friends with him anymore, and i eventually lost contact with them both. during this time, i was fired from 2 jobs and had a car repossessed. all because i could not tell her how i felt. i also recently found out that he started dealing drugs, and she was hooked on meth. i wish i had told her now, but everything happened ten years ago, and all i can do is kick myself about it. do what your heart tells you, your mind is not always right in matters of the heart.
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Wasn't looking for it, did not want to, not sure how it slipped up on me. The sad truth is I have fallen for someone that belongs to someone else. I don't want to break up his family. I do still want to spend as much time with him as possible. I know this has no happy ending just wish i knew how to let go. I try and date others but he is the only one that captures my attention. I am so confused. I know you people here will not hold back on your opinions and looking forward to hearing what you have to say. Is it possible to have a happy ending when in love with a married man that you want him to stay with his wife but still want him as a lover, friend etc.... I am not gonna apologize for what I am gonna say here. But the mere fact that you are trying to act like you are more of a victim here is obsurd. You weren't looking for it, but you still allowed yourself to be put into this position. Seriously. Your comments are in the same league as when a guy says to his wife, "Baby. I cheated, but I really didn't mean to. I just tripped, slipped, and my d*ck fell into her. It wasn't my fault". And laugh at that comment all you want, but the reality is that people try to take a situation in which they know they are wrong to get involved in, and blame something or someone for getting themselves into said situation. But I guess this is the norm these days. No respect for a marriage, or a relationship. It is all about our own selfish needs. You didn't mean for this to happen? Please! You know damn well you wanted this. And no, there is no happy ending. Just nut up and, walk away, and learn from being an idiot on even getting yourself into this position. Goof out! |
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Wasn't looking for it, did not want to, not sure how it slipped up on me. The sad truth is I have fallen for someone that belongs to someone else. I don't want to break up his family. I do still want to spend as much time with him as possible. I know this has no happy ending just wish i knew how to let go. I try and date others but he is the only one that captures my attention. I am so confused. I know you people here will not hold back on your opinions and looking forward to hearing what you have to say. Is it possible to have a happy ending when in love with a married man that you want him to stay with his wife but still want him as a lover, friend etc.... I am not gonna apologize for what I am gonna say here. But the mere fact that you are trying to act like you are more of a victim here is obsurd. You weren't looking for it, but you still allowed yourself to be put into this position. Seriously. Your comments are in the same league as when a guy says to his wife, "Baby. I cheated, but I really didn't mean to. I just tripped, slipped, and my d*ck fell into her. It wasn't my fault". And laugh at that comment all you want, but the reality is that people try to take a situation in which they know they are wrong to get involved in, and blame something or someone for getting themselves into said situation. But I guess this is the norm these days. No respect for a marriage, or a relationship. It is all about our own selfish needs. You didn't mean for this to happen? Please! You know damn well you wanted this. And no, there is no happy ending. Just nut up and, walk away, and learn from being an idiot on even getting yourself into this position. Goof out!  and i agree with ya
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Goof scary when serious
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