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Topic: What are your top 3 things you look for in a mate?
Jenninqc's photo
Wed 10/13/10 06:59 PM
I was just talking to a friend of mine that is single as well and we were discussing what we were looking for, and it occured to me I have no idea what I want. I mean number one would be being able to understand my kids come first, and honesty, but what else do you look for? It has been a LONG time since I was on the dating scene...

eileena9's photo
Wed 10/13/10 07:33 PM
1. Communication ability....does he do more then sit there and grunt when I talk to him.

2. Eye contact....when he talks to me can he hold eye contact with me and not look away nervously all the time.

3. Must have a fuzzy upper lip and a fuzzy pillow for me.bigsmile

Like him----->>>>

freakazoid's photo
Wed 10/13/10 07:46 PM
Obedience, ample child bearing hips and a strong back

Lezzart's photo
Wed 10/13/10 07:52 PM

Obedience, ample child bearing hips and a strong back


Aren't we in 2010 now? or did I miss something?noway

no photo
Wed 10/13/10 07:52 PM
i only require one thing;
make me happy.
(:

Dodo_David's photo
Wed 10/13/10 07:53 PM


Obedience, ample child bearing hips and a strong back


Aren't we in 2010 now? or did I miss something?noway

I was thinking the same thing.

Dodo_David's photo
Wed 10/13/10 07:54 PM

i only require one thing;
make me happy.
(:

And how does a person make you happy, Bianca . . . besides giving you pickles. :smile:

Dodo_David's photo
Wed 10/13/10 07:56 PM
1. A heart full of compassion.
2. Acceptance of me just as I am.
3. Acceptance of my children.

Lezzart's photo
Wed 10/13/10 08:00 PM
Edited by Lezzart on Wed 10/13/10 08:02 PM
Unfortunately I could not limit myself to only 3 things...and maybe thats why I am still single..lol
I would like (not demanding...lol)
-Trustworthy / faithful / understanding/ caring / hard working / intelligent/ ability to express himself...
so... basically...my equal.

Am I to demanding? or maybe unrealistic? oh well... ((sigh))

no photo
Wed 10/13/10 08:00 PM


i only require one thing;
make me happy.
(:

And how does a person make you happy, Bianca . . . besides giving you pickles. :smile:


i honestly do not know.
>.<

Dodo_David's photo
Wed 10/13/10 08:04 PM



i only require one thing;
make me happy.
(:

And how does a person make you happy, Bianca . . . besides giving you pickles. :smile:


i honestly do not know.
>.<

Bianca, thank you for your honesty.
I would still give you a pickle if I could. :smile:

rofo43's photo
Wed 10/13/10 08:46 PM
OMG, tell the truth, no lies, geeeez, The only truthful woman is ME, when I dress for Halloween,:-((

AmandaRJ's photo
Wed 10/13/10 08:53 PM
1.Honesty
2.honesty
3.kind heart
4.good sense of humor

Tim_Burgess's photo
Thu 10/14/10 03:33 AM
1)Honesty
2)Faithful
3)Intelligent
4)Beautiful
5)They must be themselfs, not some wannabe

ronniejr's photo
Thu 10/14/10 03:48 AM
We would be able to talk to one another often. Someone who I can do crazy stuff together and be happy. last but not least a lot of good sex. If you can't do that with each other there's not much of a relationship.

ronniejr's photo
Thu 10/14/10 03:50 AM
Edited by ronniejr on Thu 10/14/10 03:52 AM

ronniejr's photo
Thu 10/14/10 03:54 AM

i only require one thing;
make me happy.
(:
I think that is the most important thing.

AGoodGuy1026's photo
Thu 10/14/10 05:22 AM



i only require one thing;
make me happy.
(:

And how does a person make you happy, Bianca . . . besides giving you pickles. :smile:


i honestly do not know.
>.<


THEY don't... personal happieness is an individual responsibility (i.e. you are responsible for your own happiness, and only YOU can "make" YOU happy) - if you look outside of yourself for happiness (in others, or things) - you are never going to be truly happy...

$.02 drinker

Chazster's photo
Thu 10/14/10 05:38 AM
In no particular order.
Attractiveness. Let's face it, if we are not attracted to each other it is not going to work. I am notasking for a model. Just someone I think is attractive.
Compatibility. This goes for physical and mental. Do you have similar life goals? Similar interests? Are you sexually compatible?
And last, someone that will motivate me to follow my dreams and be a better me.

unsure's photo
Thu 10/14/10 05:56 AM

i only require one thing;
make me happy.
(:

Honestly, only YOU can make yourself happy...your mate is suppose to add to your happiness!!

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