Topic: LDR - Still possible? | |
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A few years back, I met a sexy, wonderful woman from here. She lived 1,500 miles away. But I got my self together, and junped in the car and went to meet her a few times, before I went there to stay for an extended time.....I had just been hurt in Iraq and was still quite beat up, so I went back to take care of me, and life got in the way....We are still best of friends and talk a few times a month.
If you don't try, you are for sure going to fail. It is not easy and I don't think I have it in me anymore to try a LDR, but when the heart screams, sometimes ya just have to quiet it and see what the screaming is all about... |
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I hear you Phuque2... better luck for a SDR
![]() I didn't hesitate to try and after 2 failures I still gave myself one last try. So far it is going good for now. I am happy ![]() |
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But for the yearning, my mingle mate and I
have found it fairly easy making a LDR work for nearly 2 years now. Absolute commitment helps. Blind ears listening to naysayers. Constant, unbroken contact, we talk 7 times a day without fail. It matters little if you are out of conversation, it is the connection itself that matters most. Complete individuality, free to 'be.' Trust. It can work. |
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I'm not sure if this will still work ... I've been in this whole online dating since I was 26, and have had 2 steady relationships - one 3 years, and one 4 years plus. Only thing that I haven't anticipated was the chance of meeting - both guys didn't make their ways to come and see me, though both have promised that they will. Both have financial problems, but I wonder why they haven't assessed their capabilities before committing on something - this what really makes my heart sink. For now I am giving my last try, although there's this one guy whom I have met face to face already, who likes me, but I am not sure about my feelings for him. Is it still possible to meet the One on here? ![]() LDRs are possible if both persons are committed to one another. It can be difficult to start a relationship off as an LDR, but if both parties are serious about each other nothing can stand between them, but what they allow to. |
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But for the yearning, my mingle mate and I have found it fairly easy making a LDR work for nearly 2 years now. Absolute commitment helps. Blind ears listening to naysayers. Constant, unbroken contact, we talk 7 times a day without fail. It matters little if you are out of conversation, it is the connection itself that matters most. Complete individuality, free to 'be.' Trust. It can work. ![]() |
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