Topic: LDR - Still possible?
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Tue 10/18/11 07:37 PM
OH MG you found a computer!!!! WOOHOO

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Tue 10/18/11 07:53 PM


A lot of people tend to be fake on the internet and not themselves in person. I have never dated online nor will I. If i cant speak to the person face to face and have that "physical" attraction and desire then i don't see the point. Thats like saying you travel a lot or love the outdoors, but your always in side chatting on the internet. If your older I could see it happening, but not under 30.


rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl
OMG all us poor oldies..tongue2

yes i hear 30 is the new 60 ohwell

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Tue 10/18/11 09:30 PM



A lot of people tend to be fake on the internet and not themselves in person. I have never dated online nor will I. If i cant speak to the person face to face and have that "physical" attraction and desire then i don't see the point. Thats like saying you travel a lot or love the outdoors, but your always in side chatting on the internet. If your older I could see it happening, but not under 30.


rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl
OMG all us poor oldies..tongue2

yes i hear 30 is the new 60 ohwell


Oh great, I am probably the new 80's surprised So much for vanity

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Wed 10/19/11 12:19 AM

Hi Babygirl

BIG KISSES! You deserve them!

Guys, this is the real deal. One of my absolute favorite people that is worthy of the very best.

love you dada


Thanks, Dada - do I need to complete my list of at least 10? LOL

Been talking to someone on here (hey you know who you are) LOL and I don't think if he's for real or he is just looking for fun. Will let you conduct a background check once confirmed interested tongue2

Love you too flowers

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Wed 10/19/11 02:40 AM

OH MG you found a computer!!!! WOOHOO


howdy back

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Wed 10/19/11 02:42 AM


Hi Babygirl

BIG KISSES! You deserve them!

Guys, this is the real deal. One of my absolute favorite people that is worthy of the very best.

love you dada


Thanks, Dada - do I need to complete my list of at least 10? LOL

Been talking to someone on here (hey you know who you are) LOL and I don't think if he's for real or he is just looking for fun. Will let you conduct a background check once confirmed interested tongue2

Love you too flowers


That's right. I want names, numbers and references.

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Wed 10/19/11 02:55 AM



It's possible, but LDR's SUCK!


No they don't. They can be beautiful.


They CAN be, but works better for some than for others. For some reason I keep finding myself in them. frustrated frustrated frustrated
Im sorry.sad2

I wanna hold you too Aaron.sad

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Wed 10/19/11 03:50 AM




It's possible, but LDR's SUCK!


No they don't. They can be beautiful.


They CAN be, but works better for some than for others. For some reason I keep finding myself in them. frustrated frustrated frustrated
Im sorry.sad2

I wanna hold you too Aaron.sad


Soon......soon......

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Wed 10/19/11 05:07 AM
Your experience and patience displayed dedication, what you need is one good, honest, loyal and committed man. Making LDR work for both of you will be very challenging and consider the unimaginable tons of stress that will come with it. But so they say, "No pain, no gain". In your case if you think you can handle it, go for it. Just always prepare yourself both for better and worse.

Personally, I tried this kind of ldr, it was a-three-cute-fun-days of my internet life. Conclusion: I therefore conclude that ldr was fun but dreadful period. No further recommendation. happy

Good luck on your journey and all the bestflowerforyou

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Wed 10/19/11 10:19 AM





It's possible, but LDR's SUCK!


No they don't. They can be beautiful.


They CAN be, but works better for some than for others. For some reason I keep finding myself in them. frustrated frustrated frustrated
Im sorry.sad2

I wanna hold you too Aaron.sad


Soon......soon......
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(I need more smileys!!!!)

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Wed 10/19/11 11:14 AM

Why are there so many asain woman on here trying to date american men? Don't get me wrong i love asain women but why should i spend thousands trying to bring them here, or travel half way around the world to see them, when there are plenty of asian women already here? You complain that these two men have not come to see you, have you made any effort to travel to them? What do you have to offer these men if anything or are you just looking for a free ride?
She is a software engineer, I doubt she is looking for a free ride, I understand the desire to have an equal commitment, and when you are in a job that pays well you want to make sure your partner does not have a motivation to leech, ie is successful.


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Wed 10/19/11 05:52 PM
Edited by newg78 on Wed 10/19/11 05:54 PM


Why are there so many asain woman on here trying to date american men? Don't get me wrong i love asain women but why should i spend thousands trying to bring them here, or travel half way around the world to see them, when there are plenty of asian women already here? You complain that these two men have not come to see you, have you made any effort to travel to them? What do you have to offer these men if anything or are you just looking for a free ride?
She is a software engineer, I doubt she is looking for a free ride, I understand the desire to have an equal commitment, and when you are in a job that pays well you want to make sure your partner does not have a motivation to leech, ie is successful.




Yes I'm a software engineer but not practicing it now, I graduated 7 years ago and I realized programming is not my call so I shifted to becoming a writer. Today I am enjoying my home-based job, I mean jobs since I am catering several employers from different countries online - that's where I make money, better than any professionals do here. I am a certified technical writer based on oDesk.com, but still I do some website maintenance and updates. Well, I'm gifted so what can I say - I guess I make better than other Americans do LOL (not bragging). May be this intimidates any white guy to pursue me because I can afford to give him FREE ride rofl


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Wed 10/19/11 06:38 PM

I'm not sure if this will still work ...
I've been in this whole online dating since I was 26, and have had 2 steady relationships - one 3 years, and one 4 years plus. Only thing that I haven't anticipated was the chance of meeting - both guys didn't make their ways to come and see me, though both have promised that they will. Both have financial problems, but I wonder why they haven't assessed their capabilities before committing on something - this what really makes my heart sink.

For now I am giving my last try, although there's this one guy whom I have met face to face already, who likes me, but I am not sure about my feelings for him.

Is it still possible to meet the One on here? what


Possible, but not that likely on the free sites. The subscription only sites seem to attract people who are really serious. The free ones tend to be full of flakey types and scammers.

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Wed 10/19/11 06:54 PM


Possible, but not that likely on the free sites. The subscription only sites seem to attract people who are really serious. The free ones tend to be full of flakey types and scammers.


Hmmm, may be there are still some here, I just need to dig up the hole? what

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Wed 10/19/11 07:38 PM
I think you just need to find someone local. If it didnt work the first time, shame on them. It didnt work the second time, shame on you (not trying to be an a hole). You need someone not the thought of someone.

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Wed 10/19/11 07:47 PM
Tough crowd!

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Wed 10/19/11 07:59 PM

Tough crowd!
Well, experience has made me cynical. :thumbsup:

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Wed 10/19/11 08:00 PM
LOL. Just being real and honest. 7 years of online dating and no results, no offense, but that should be a sign.

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Wed 10/19/11 08:00 PM


Why are there so many asain woman on here trying to date american men? Don't get me wrong i love asain women but why should i spend thousands trying to bring them here, or travel half way around the world to see them, when there are plenty of asian women already here? You complain that these two men have not come to see you, have you made any effort to travel to them? What do you have to offer these men if anything or are you just looking for a free ride?


FYI:

These two men had so much from me. In fact I have offered the latter with the following:

1. Money for passport fee - CASH UPFRONT (but he never got one)
2. Whole amount for plane tickets
3. Expense-free hotel accommodation
4. Expense-free Wedding
5. Thousands of phonecards (when I was the one calling him)
6. House to stay when married, if he wanted to live in the Philippines
7. Last month I tried my fortune on getting a US tourist visa just to go see him, but unfortunately was turned down - US Embassy hates single people visiting the USA - weird but aren't we allies???

I just wanted to help, I knew this man has financial issues. But because of my great love for him, I was willing to give all. Don't get me wrong - I'm Asian but never asked a white man for a free ride. Damn, I'm just soo good :(


sweetheart ya gettin' scammed methinks

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Wed 10/19/11 08:02 PM


I'm not sure if this will still work ...
I've been in this whole online dating since I was 26, and have had 2 steady relationships - one 3 years, and one 4 years plus. Only thing that I haven't anticipated was the chance of meeting - both guys didn't make their ways to come and see me, though both have promised that they will. Both have financial problems, but I wonder why they haven't assessed their capabilities before committing on something - this what really makes my heart sink.

For now I am giving my last try, although there's this one guy whom I have met face to face already, who likes me, but I am not sure about my feelings for him.

Is it still possible to meet the One on here? what


Possible, but not that likely on the free sites. The subscription only sites seem to attract people who are really serious. The free ones tend to be full of flakey types and scammers.


Not true. I joined match.com and it's been a waste of money. Not a single wink, like, email, nothing... I know I'm not the best looking, most attractive, sweap you off your feet guy. BUT I do know i am funny careing and I'm not ugly. Average, so either I'm doing something wrong and i dont notice it, or its a fraud/waste.