Topic: When a Guy Says
MariahsFantasy's photo
Wed 02/29/12 01:31 PM




"We are not going to do things on your terms"

...wtf does that mean?



It means he thinks he is in charge and calls the shots.


I like you bigsmile


Why, cause I tell it how it is and I dont sugar coat it? bigsmile


You tell the truth. That's what I respect.

Lpdon's photo
Wed 02/29/12 01:47 PM





"We are not going to do things on your terms"

...wtf does that mean?



It means he thinks he is in charge and calls the shots.


I like you bigsmile


Why, cause I tell it how it is and I dont sugar coat it? bigsmile


You tell the truth. That's what I respect.


Honesty is the best policy! (Except when a girl asks you if she looks fat, the of course you always lie!)

MariahsFantasy's photo
Wed 02/29/12 02:21 PM






"We are not going to do things on your terms"

...wtf does that mean?



It means he thinks he is in charge and calls the shots.


I like you bigsmile


Why, cause I tell it how it is and I dont sugar coat it? bigsmile


You tell the truth. That's what I respect.


Honesty is the best policy! (Except when a girl asks you if she looks fat, the of course you always lie!)



I look at it as motivation to lose the lbs.

no photo
Wed 02/29/12 02:22 PM

If he is talking to a woman, then it means that he will be remaining single.





rofl rofl rofl rofl

You are so funny.

Lpdon's photo
Wed 02/29/12 02:25 PM







"We are not going to do things on your terms"

...wtf does that mean?



It means he thinks he is in charge and calls the shots.


I like you bigsmile


Why, cause I tell it how it is and I dont sugar coat it? bigsmile


You tell the truth. That's what I respect.


Honesty is the best policy! (Except when a girl asks you if she looks fat, the of course you always lie!)



I look at it as motivation to lose the lbs.


Cool! So you think it's ok for a guy to tell his girl she looks fat? pitchfork

Dodo_David's photo
Wed 02/29/12 02:27 PM

So you think it's ok for a guy to tell his girl she looks fat? pitchfork


Sure, it's OK . . . as long as he doesn't mind the consequences of doing so.

no photo
Wed 02/29/12 02:31 PM

"We are not going to do things on your terms"

...wtf does that mean?



My first reaction to that statement (depending on the context) is that he is saying

"I'm the boss."
"I'll take the lead."
"I'll make the decisions."
"You are not the boss of me."


That sort of thing.




MariahsFantasy's photo
Wed 02/29/12 03:32 PM

Cool! So you think it's ok for a guy to tell his girl she looks fat? pitchfork


yessum

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Wed 02/29/12 03:34 PM
Its the same as him sayin........

"Honey.......I'm a MORON".


MariahsFantasy's photo
Wed 02/29/12 03:34 PM


"We are not going to do things on your terms"

...wtf does that mean?



My first reaction to that statement (depending on the context) is that he is saying

"I'm the boss."
"I'll take the lead."
"I'll make the decisions."
"You are not the boss of me."


That sort of thing.



Suspicions answered.

MariahsFantasy's photo
Wed 02/29/12 03:35 PM

Its the same as him sayin........

"Honey.......I'm a MORON".




That's the straight up chit

no photo
Wed 02/29/12 03:38 PM


Its the same as him sayin........

"Honey.......I'm a MORON".




That's the straight up chit


But don't ya luv it when he gets it out in the open early???

MariahsFantasy's photo
Wed 02/29/12 03:38 PM


So you think it's ok for a guy to tell his girl she looks fat? pitchfork


Sure, it's OK . . . as long as he doesn't mind the consequences of doing so.


*lifts paddle, slaps palm of hand* hope you don't mind the splinters

MariahsFantasy's photo
Wed 02/29/12 03:41 PM



Its the same as him sayin........

"Honey.......I'm a MORON".




That's the straight up chit


But don't ya luv it when he gets it out in the open early???


Madness! Who does that?

MariahsFantasy's photo
Wed 02/29/12 03:56 PM





No compromise, no mutuality. His way. End of.


My thoughts...exactly this.

Basically, he wants to dictate the terms of the 'relationship' or he's gone. My way or the highway baby laugh


I guess you would never think this getting to know the "good" side of them, when they actually do talk.


A smart control freak knows all the right areas to probe before he ever gives off any signs of being what he is. He has to check for useful vulnerabilities and clues that will let him know what to say and how to act in order to get the person comfortable....


Basically a Sociopath.


MUST we get that deep to define basic toolish behavior?

navygirl's photo
Wed 02/29/12 03:58 PM

"We are not going to do things on your terms"

...wtf does that mean?



Sounds like a control freak to me. JMO

MariahsFantasy's photo
Wed 02/29/12 04:00 PM



Obviously I am only taking this in the context of the question you posted but someone would only say this IF he felt that you were trying to control the direction of the relationship or he wanted control it.

I can’t see why someone would use that wording if it wasn’t about control but that’s only my opinion.



I didn't see what I was doing so much as controlling here. I just don't bury my head in the sand when it comes to saying what's on my mind. I guess that's where we differ. Maybe he thought I was trying to control him in some way by giving him some green lights. Wasn't the truth of it.


You didn't give the context of the statement, though. We have no idea what it was actually about.


How much do you need to know? I think its kinda simple now.

no photo
Wed 02/29/12 04:08 PM



So you think it's ok for a guy to tell his girl she looks fat? pitchfork


Sure, it's OK . . . as long as he doesn't mind the consequences of doing so.


*lifts paddle, slaps palm of hand* hope you don't mind the splinters


You got this nun thing down.

MariahsFantasy's photo
Wed 02/29/12 04:11 PM




So you think it's ok for a guy to tell his girl she looks fat? pitchfork


Sure, it's OK . . . as long as he doesn't mind the consequences of doing so.


*lifts paddle, slaps palm of hand* hope you don't mind the splinters


You got this nun thing down.


Play your cards right.....

no photo
Wed 02/29/12 04:18 PM
Edited by Torgo70 on Wed 02/29/12 04:18 PM
Play your cards right.....


Nunsploitation fantasy come true.