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Topic: Sex in a relationship
Unknow Joined Thu 01/05/12 Posts: 241	Wed 09/19/12 01:06 PM
How long would you date someone before you feel its mature enough to make love. Is it like if you rush in, you would rush out or it helps to make the relationship stronger?

SimplicityAtItsBest Joined Mon 09/10/12 Posts: 960	Wed 09/19/12 01:11 PM
Wow, this is like the hardest question ever! Jk. If you're asking for time frame, I would say ... 1 day to forever. It depends on the two of you and how strongly you feel for one another.

kc0003 Joined Fri 05/11/07 Posts: 26382	Wed 09/19/12 01:29 PM
there is no definitive answer to this, as all people and all relationships differ.

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Wed 09/19/12 01:38 PM
I'm having a déjà vu moment.

Ladywind7 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 7833	Wed 09/19/12 01:40 PM
It is never going to happen regardless of how strongly I love him. I will wait for marraige because of my faith.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Wed 09/19/12 02:37 PM
Until her fourth beer.

willing2 Joined Sun 06/08/08 Posts: 20221	Wed 09/19/12 02:59 PM
Keep this a close secret and promise never tell anyone, ok? Ok, then. I will screw before, during or after the first date.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Wed 09/19/12 05:38 PM Edited by singmesweet on Wed 09/19/12 05:44 PM
Whenever I feel comfortable doing so. I don't have any rules about it.

andrewzooms Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 2842	Wed 09/19/12 05:40 PM
After 3rd date the majority of the time.

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76374	Wed 09/19/12 06:02 PM
Humm sorry but at my age I threw the rules out the window. Now I do what I feel like doing and when, I don't have a time limit... It all depends on how well we click......

Unknow Joined Sat 10/21/06 Posts: 3353	Wed 09/19/12 06:12 PM
Humm sorry but at my age I threw the rules out the window. Now I do what I feel like doing and when, I don't have a time limit... It all depends on how well we click...... Gotta agree with TxsGal!

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Wed 09/19/12 07:51 PM
Until her fourth beer. Dilated pupils work too.

Precious-Man Joined Thu 10/13/11 Posts: 88	Thu 09/20/12 05:27 AM
I will give it to her if she needs it at anytime

SimplicityAtItsBest Joined Mon 09/10/12 Posts: 960	Thu 09/20/12 07:27 AM
I will give it to her if she needs it at anytime You are so giving

pyxxie13 Joined Wed 09/28/11 Posts: 3835	Thu 09/20/12 01:32 PM
no set time or rule, just when it feels right for me.

willing2 Joined Sun 06/08/08 Posts: 20221	Thu 09/20/12 05:57 PM Edited by willing2 on Thu 09/20/12 05:58 PM
I will give it to her if she needs it at anytime Women will love it if you give it to 'em. There's a lot of ways to give it to 'em. On is sneaking up from behind and surprising them with it. They will even close their eyes and open their mouths for it. They won't mind if you watch as it melts and runs down to her chin. If it's good enough, they will want it more than just once. You might even find one that likes it so much, she will beg you for more. I'd give it to them as much as they could take. Nothing like satisfying a woman with as much.... Chocolate as she can handle.

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45337	Thu 09/20/12 06:16 PM
I'd wait up to an hour. But those arms and legs had really better be broken.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Thu 09/20/12 07:35 PM
How long would you date someone before you feel its mature enough to make love. Is it like if you rush in, you would rush out or it helps to make the relationship stronger? obviously it is up to the 2 partners involved and what works for them - the thing that disappoints me is that often men will see sex as the goal and even sometimes the "end" where as I see it as the beginning - something to build on as in "practice makes perfect" so I am very careful because I want to avoid the 1 niter types

Unknow Joined Thu 01/05/12 Posts: 241	Thu 09/20/12 10:54 PM
Have you probably felt being used and cheap after a first date sex? It aint worth it really.

s1owhand Joined Fri 05/18/07 Posts: 29437	Fri 09/21/12 12:47 PM
Have you probably felt being used and cheap after a first date sex? It aint worth it really. if you don't feel at least a little bit dirty then you prolly ain't doin it right!