59 year old fossil?

I met her at the Flea Market. She just started working at the little restaurant there.

When she came through, I bought some coffee and gave her a tip. When she was coming back through, I asked her if she had a minute to talk.

We talked. I asked her about her family. She has a 15 year old son. She lives here and spends a lot of tome taking care of her sick Mother in Mexico.

She has a phone with a Mexican plan. I can't call into Mex. so, I gave her my number.

Couple things I like about her. She is soft spoken, very feminine and doesn't dress to impress. She comes across like a homebody. I don't do bars or dances in clubs. I will dance at festivals held here.

If. she calls, I will ask to take her and the son to dinner. Just a casual date. The second date, if there is one, I will start talking to try to get to know her.

She is Mexican and feels like she may have old school respect and honor.

What has been your experience?

I'd be more inclined to say if you do not date her you won't ever know if the 2 of you are right for each other. I hope she calls! Whether she is right for u has less to do with her being mexican or 30 and more about who you both are on the inside

I honestly like to give the person the benefit of the doubt, but beware... if she lives here, and takes care of her mother, which lives in Mexico, it may be hard to establish a relationship.
It seems she caused some attraction for you to consider a relationship.
Just be cautious of your actions.

I am 34 and would never be able to date someone almost twice my age, as we just wouldn't have enough in common and would be in completely different places in life. But, if you feel this woman has enough in common with you and she feels the same, go for it.

The last woman I dated was 34 and she married someone 3 years older than me, so yes, it does happen.

Stranger things have happened. One can never tell where the heart will lead.

Suggest all your dates be 'Dutch'..that
could clear things up a little.

I don't know Soufie, going to the Netherlands for the first few dates, that could get expensive.

Hey, why not? Even us dinosaurs need love too!

Dude! If she really is interested you should be thrilled! You ain't relegated tot he pasture yet!


If you hit date three you are on the road so to speak!

Good hunting!

I'll just take her here to a local place. Netherland is too far fo jut dinner.

I have no problem paying. I have no expectations. If it goes farther, cool. If not, no problem.
There is a way different culture here. Some Mex gals are all about techno and modern stuff. Others are homemaker mateeial and like the family style life.

Thanks, sing.
I will weigh, as she probably will also, the commonalities as well as the differences.

Who knows kind of like flipping a coin you would never know what side is up till you take the time to look...

Heck Heffner is fixing to marry someone that is 60 years younger.. so one can never say it would never happen... got to take a chance before you will ever know...

Well, you know what they say....



'Until you have tip-toed through the tulips and
stuck your finger in a dike, life has not unfolded yet....'

Dude! As the great philosophical band ABBA once said....."Take a chance on me".....and those Swedes would never lie.

Yeah, definitely. We're all different. So my preferences may be completely different than someone else close to my age. If it seems to work out, I say go for it.

Maybe if the guy is really nice, active and has lots of Money and is generous.

You sound seriously interested in this girl already. I say there is a good chance she may be. So far you didn't talk too much about her looks, but I am sure she is attractive. You talked mainly of her personality and the way she is, her morals and such. She seems nice. I say its up in the air. You seem open with this girl and you're actually talk about how fond you are of her. That's a good sign.

Fossils have a history of knowledge behind them. Plus you don't stalk your exes on FB or try to be something you're not from what I've seen. We'll see. If you show genuine interest then its always a good sign. I hope she calls you!

I thought better of you than THIS...

Thanks.
Actually, 2 of my exes are friends of mine on FB.

The first exes husband just got out of bypass surgery and is doing well. He sang at my 2nd oldest daughters wedding last year. He's pretty good.

If I want to impress her for the weekend, I could write her a check.

She might be a litty-bit upset come Monday when the bank opens.