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Topic: Pushy Pokey Women
TBRich's photo
Mon 06/23/14 02:41 PM
Why do women do this? Often when I walk down the hall at work and pass a female co-worker, I will then get a poke/push in the shoulder. When I turn around they are walking away. The other day I was finishing my paperwork so I could punch out and a woman comes into the office, goes on a verbal jag of how she is leaving now; then looks at me asks why I am not talking to her, sticks her finger in my ear and wiggles it about, then leaves. WTF was that. The worse part is as I started learning to walk again, my balance is still not great; yesterday a woman walks by and gives him a forearm to the chest- I fall backward thru an unlocked door and she grabs my shirt to keep me from falling.

WTF? They all know I have only been walking since November and I am still mastering it. Is it that they see me as handicapped and easy to pick on? I am assuming I am their release for their intense tripod anger.

mikeyspace4691's photo
Mon 06/23/14 02:47 PM
Spank em OP

soufiehere's photo
Mon 06/23/14 03:08 PM

Seriously, it seems like pokes of affection.
Women will do that.
They are being empathetic.
Their version :-)

TBRich's photo
Mon 06/23/14 04:04 PM


Seriously, it seems like pokes of affection.
Women will do that.
They are being empathetic.
Their version :-)


You mean 40 year old women acting like they did in elementary school? How to tell bullying from affection, I tell the clients to "use your words". Anyhow the end result is the same- if they knock me down in front of the clients, I will be right royally pissed

motowndowntown's photo
Mon 06/23/14 04:05 PM
Give em a good slap on the butt next time you're in the lift with them.

Hey, what's good for the goose is good for the gander.

no1phD's photo
Mon 06/23/14 04:08 PM
affection.. she sticks her tongue in your ear..
bullying.. she sticks her finger in your ear..lol...jk.... give them that haha but f*** off look.. works for me..drinker

Thomas27's photo
Mon 06/23/14 04:12 PM
Face it, we are here for their amusement... After all, it is the least you could do...

If a woman is poking you in a different way, check the package? And look for the Adam's apple...

slaphead

Seriously... Sexual-harassment, it works both ways, men are not the only ones that do it ..

smartwithsparks's photo
Mon 06/23/14 04:18 PM
its Like Recess ...
They punch you in the arm..
Cuz they like you...:banana:

Copper Nitrogen Titanium's photo
Mon 06/23/14 04:23 PM
My guess ...

They are going out of their way to make you feel accepted. If you were gone for a bit and came back incapacitated in any manner, they probably worry you feel like an outcast now that you are different. (I am not saying that is how you feel, I am saying that is how a woman would typically feel. )So they believe they are helping you.

Dodo_David's photo
Mon 06/23/14 04:48 PM
Why do women do this?


Because they are women.

From a scene in the movie As Good As It Gets:

Receptionist: How do you write women so well?
Melvin Udall: I think of a man, and I take away reason and accountability.


laugh

happy

I'll be leaving now.






0ldhag's photo
Mon 06/23/14 05:21 PM
My friends mom used to do that to all the younger guys..they hated it.

I really don't know why women do this though. If I liked someone, the last thing i'd be doing is touching them in any way. Wouldn't want them to think I was some creep.

no photo
Mon 06/23/14 08:05 PM
Edited by sweetestgirl11 on Mon 06/23/14 08:09 PM

Why do women do this? Often when I walk down the hall at work and pass a female co-worker, I will then get a poke/push in the shoulder. When I turn around they are walking away. The other day I was finishing my paperwork so I could punch out and a woman comes into the office, goes on a verbal jag of how she is leaving now; then looks at me asks why I am not talking to her, sticks her finger in my ear and wiggles it about, then leaves. WTF was that. The worse part is as I started learning to walk again, my balance is still not great; yesterday a woman walks by and gives him a forearm to the chest- I fall backward thru an unlocked door and she grabs my shirt to keep me from falling.

WTF? They all know I have only been walking since November and I am still mastering it. Is it that they see me as handicapped and easy to pick on? I am assuming I am their release for their intense tripod anger.


they likes ya sugar...enjoy :)

if it goes too far, have a chat with that one and explain what you have explained on here. Since she grabbed your shirt my guess is she did not realize...no one else really understands what you went thru or how you have or have not progressed. In the work place, memories are short sometimes...maybe a reminder is in order. namaste

Thomas27's photo
Mon 06/23/14 08:11 PM

My friends mom used to do that to all the younger guys..they hated it.

I really don't know why women do this though. If I liked someone, the last thing i'd be doing is touching them in any way. Wouldn't want them to think I was some creep.


No way wiggling fingers to the ear!

scared

Dodo_David's photo
Mon 06/23/14 10:14 PM
"Pushy Pokey Women" - Thread Title

I always thought that Pokey was a horse.



MaJayJay29's photo
Mon 06/23/14 10:16 PM
Edited by MaJayJay29 on Mon 06/23/14 10:18 PM

Why do women do this? Often when I walk down the hall at work and pass a female co-worker, I will then get a poke/push in the shoulder. When I turn around they are walking away. The other day I was finishing my paperwork so I could punch out and a woman comes into the office, goes on a verbal jag of how she is leaving now; then looks at me asks why I am not talking to her, sticks her finger in my ear and wiggles it about, then leaves. WTF was that. The worse part is as I started learning to walk again, my balance is still not great; yesterday a woman walks by and gives him a forearm to the chest- I fall backward thru an unlocked door and she grabs my shirt to keep me from falling.

WTF? They all know I have only been walking since November and I am still mastering it. Is it that they see me as handicapped and easy to pick on? I am assuming I am their release for their intense tripod anger.

watch hitch he explains it perfectly happy
on serious note women do it because of many reasons but bullying is not usually it. and they probably wont stop unless you confront them.

Totage's photo
Mon 06/23/14 10:23 PM

Why do women do this? Often when I walk down the hall at work and pass a female co-worker, I will then get a poke/push in the shoulder. When I turn around they are walking away. The other day I was finishing my paperwork so I could punch out and a woman comes into the office, goes on a verbal jag of how she is leaving now; then looks at me asks why I am not talking to her, sticks her finger in my ear and wiggles it about, then leaves. WTF was that. The worse part is as I started learning to walk again, my balance is still not great; yesterday a woman walks by and gives him a forearm to the chest- I fall backward thru an unlocked door and she grabs my shirt to keep me from falling.

WTF? They all know I have only been walking since November and I am still mastering it. Is it that they see me as handicapped and easy to pick on? I am assuming I am their release for their intense tripod anger.


Sounds like they're trying to be more playful than malicious. Women at work threaten me all the time and hit me, but it's all out of love though.

turtlebug01's photo
Mon 06/23/14 11:41 PM
Oh wow o.o ive never seen any forty year olds do that. perhaps you should confront them?

machug's photo
Mon 06/23/14 11:44 PM
Ummmm, okay.

All I can come up with is, they want your attention.
A strange way for women that age, but, ???

Good luck.

:smile: (ok, I almost made it out of here without a grin.)

HoneyFly's photo
Tue 06/24/14 12:11 AM
The poke / push in the hall was her way of saying "excuse me" - most likely, because she didn't see you & too embarrassed to say "I'm sorry!"

The finger to the ear was her way of saying "pay attention".

The forearm to the chest was her way of checking your balance. I'm surprised she even grab your shirt which meant she does care if you did fall / that she didn't want you to file a complaint.


no photo
Tue 06/24/14 09:40 AM
If you really don't like the attention, next time you see her. Tell her you don't like her touching you and that she needs to keep her frackin' hands to herself. Or just smack or push her hand away, that might teach her to keep her hands to herself. I know I would find it incredibly annoying, and I wouldn't give a crap what others think. It's called "Personal space" for a reason.

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