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Topic: the number one reason people get dumped
TBRich Joined Fri 11/07/08 Posts: 8232	Mon 07/14/14 05:38 PM
The bathroom was just too far

graywolf55 Joined Wed 09/19/12 Posts: 1259	Mon 07/14/14 05:39 PM
Adjust- Transcending them? that's not changing? Or they talking of themselves? Maby i need to get (OLD WEBSTER) out nobody talks English anymore (all those new fannnngley dannnngley) words they use that have multiple meanings? HI Kic!

Thomas27 Joined Sun 10/21/07 Posts: 4860	Mon 07/14/14 05:40 PM
The bathroom was just too far Crap..... It happens....

LowRange Joined Sat 12/28/13 Posts: 665	Mon 07/14/14 05:47 PM Edited by LowRange on Mon 07/14/14 05:49 PM
I cant name just one reson, so i'll name three.. , but they are, in fact, very intertwined: * lying, deceiving,not being able to be what they really are (for various reasons: fear, high demands, underlying agenda etc.) * not communicating properly about positive and negative aspects of the relationship * not being able to deal with the differences (communicating, adjusting, accepting, transcending them) I won't lie about anything here or to anyone, but firstoff are you wanting a MAN or a remote control robot, television? Most of my friends on here (Ladies) know or have kept up with me in the forums see me at least for who i am and not what they want me to be. Everyone has their preferences on (who they want to date) but for Changing that person th what you want? Yes in a relationship both should be true and content with each other but most Marriages are going to be Divorces from the Words (I DO) if a person is changing for you or that's expected! Find the person you want to be with before this happens, there at least ONE! Don't put your expectations world how can they not want to look, so long as they don't wreck you in a ditch while doing it...just my thought.

graywolf55 Joined Wed 09/19/12 Posts: 1259	Mon 07/14/14 05:48 PM
I cant name just one reson, so i'll name three.. , but they are, in fact, very intertwined: * lying, deceiving,not being able to be what they really are (for various reasons: fear, high demands, underlying agenda etc.) * not communicating properly about positive and negative aspects of the relationship * not being able to deal with the differences (communicating, adjusting, accepting, transcending them) I won't lie about anything here or to anyone, but firstoff are you wanting a MAN or a remote control robot, television? Most of my friends on here (Ladies) know or have kept up with me in the forums see me at least for who i am and not what they want me to be. Everyone has their preferences on (who they want to date) but for Changing that person th what you want? Yes in a relationship both should be true and content with each other but most Marriages are going to be Divorces from the Words (I DO) if a person is changing for you or that's expected! Find the person you want to be with before this happens, there at least ONE! Don't put your expectations on the other(you both loose) and if Children are involved from this coupling (they are the worst losers of all)! Think!! If "being who he is" means allowing him to wish I was beyonce they he step off and step out.. ....no way around it Agree- So stop picking those type of (losers) to date!! You are the one that chose them! No is in my Vocabulary! Besides you talk of cosmetic surgery (why?) that's not going to change a damn thing but your looks and you are a beautiful young lady to be down on the Men you yourself chose to be with! Cool- Fool the words of today -ahhhhhhhhh to be young and foolish again in my prime. Hell no ,i wouldn't trade my life now to be Young and Stupid again!! Thanks that's nice but still.. it's important to be aware of this stuff Being aware of it is good! Using it as a disadvantage for yourself is not! Controlling another person that wants to be in your life (your the looser). If i'm married to a Woman and she wears low cut blouses,short skirts with me out in public that leaves me Beaming to know (she is mine and goes home with me) other men look (but again she is mine) heart and body! There's only a commitment between each other for that and no ownership papers (marriage license) are needed!! Good luck!!

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Mon 07/14/14 05:50 PM
One person gains weight and thus eats the others snack pack. I mean...really....how can a relationship survive this? Simply put...it can't. lol omg some of the things people claim to be breaking up about are just as silly though

willing2 Joined Sun 06/08/08 Posts: 20221	Mon 07/14/14 05:54 PM
To da dump, to da dump, dump, dump. Sung to the tune of the Lone Ranger.

TBRich Joined Fri 11/07/08 Posts: 8232	Mon 07/14/14 05:54 PM
The bathroom was just too far Crap..... It happens.... And neither woman "dumped" me, but I don't think it was about my looks

seethestar Joined Sun 06/15/14 Posts: 92	Mon 07/14/14 06:12 PM
One person gains weight and thus eats the others snack pack. I mean...really....how can a relationship survive this? Simply put...it can't. lol omg some of the things people claim to be breaking up about are just as silly though To you it's silly to me it's truth gimme a break

graywolf55 Joined Wed 09/19/12 Posts: 1259	Mon 07/14/14 06:19 PM
To da dump, to da dump, dump, dump. Sung to the tune of the Lone Ranger. Hi willing2 thanks i'm gone! to dump ta de dump-------- ---:)

TBRich Joined Fri 11/07/08 Posts: 8232	Mon 07/14/14 06:24 PM
"UnPretty" I wish could tie you up in my shoes Make you feel unpretty too I was told I was beautiful But what does that mean to you Look into the mirror who's inside there The one with the long hair Same old me again today (yeah) My outsides look cool My insides are blue Everytime I think I'm through It's because of you I've tried different ways But it's all the same At the end of the day I have myself to blame I'm just trippin' [Chorus:] You can buy your hair if it won't grow You can fix your nose if he says so You can buy all the make up That M.A.C. can make But if you can't look inside you Find out who am I too Be in the position to make me feel So damn unpretty I'll make you feel unpretty too Never insecure until I met you Now I'm bein' stupid I used to be so cute to me Just a little bit skinny Why do I look to all these things To keep you happy Maybe get rid of you And then I'll get back to me (hey) My outsides look cool My insides are blue Everytime I think I'm through It's because of you I've tried different ways But it's all the same At the end of the day I have myself to blame I'm just trippin'

HoneyFly Joined Mon 01/27/14 Posts: 1962	Mon 07/14/14 06:42 PM
Selfish

seethestar Joined Sun 06/15/14 Posts: 92	Mon 07/14/14 06:47 PM
Yeah, People think this stuff is easy but it's not

Thomas27 Joined Sun 10/21/07 Posts: 4860	Mon 07/14/14 06:52 PM
It ain't easy being cheesy!

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Mon 07/14/14 06:52 PM


Lady9902 Joined Sat 05/10/14 Posts: 57	Mon 07/14/14 07:09 PM
someone gets too needy

HoneyFly Joined Mon 01/27/14 Posts: 1962	Mon 07/14/14 07:12 PM
Lack of confidence

dcastelmissy Joined Thu 08/01/13 Posts: 39633	Mon 07/14/14 07:24 PM
One or the other is really not looking for a true commitment,..a lasting relationship but only one that might see them through at the moment!

2KidsMom Joined Tue 09/30/08 Posts: 58206	Mon 07/14/14 07:27 PM
Unwillingness to help hide the bodies

Tanzy14 Joined Sat 06/14/14 Posts: 1672	Mon 07/14/14 07:34 PM
They dont know how to keep their mouths shut