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Topic: the number one reason people get dumped
MrWonderfll3000 Joined Sun 06/15/14 Posts: 41	Mon 07/14/14 07:38 PM
Really charming in the beginning, shitty later.

MrWonderfll3000 Joined Sun 06/15/14 Posts: 41	Mon 07/14/14 07:44 PM
Really charming in the beginning, shitty later. Must be a top 10 reason? ;-)

dcastelmissy Joined Thu 08/01/13 Posts: 39633	Mon 07/14/14 07:52 PM
Whatever the reason, doesn't change the outcome, everyone has to just move on or suffocate in a non-functional relationship or lack of one. That's the bottom line for me. Moving forward is the only way to fly!

Whozurdaddy Joined Mon 03/24/14 Posts: 101	Mon 07/14/14 08:29 PM
Perfect.

Whozurdaddy Joined Mon 03/24/14 Posts: 101	Mon 07/14/14 08:37 PM
I cant name just one reson, so i'll name three.. , but they are, in fact, very intertwined: * lying, deceiving,not being able to be what they really are (for various reasons: fear, high demands, underlying agenda etc.) * not communicating properly about positive and negative aspects of the relationship * not being able to deal with the differences (communicating, adjusting, accepting, transcending them) I say you have good insight.

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Tue 07/15/14 08:35 AM
Unwillingness to help hide the bodies teamwork is vital

Cutiepieforyou Joined Wed 10/17/07 Posts: 43085	Tue 07/15/14 08:39 AM
Not putting enough into the relationship....allowing everything else to comb first all the time.

2KidsMom Joined Tue 09/30/08 Posts: 58206	Tue 07/15/14 09:10 AM
Unwillingness to help hide the bodies teamwork is vital

willing2 Joined Sun 06/08/08 Posts: 20221	Tue 07/15/14 09:22 AM
Not putting enough into the relationship....allowing everything else to comb first all the time. Exactly why I filed for divorce last week. It's signed and just waiting for a judge to finalize it in 60 days.

seethestar Joined Sun 06/15/14 Posts: 92	Tue 07/15/14 12:04 PM
Sugarcoating is t he worst.. I hope t he truth came out in the divorce proceedings

mysticalview21 Joined Sat 06/28/14 Posts: 5462	Tue 07/15/14 03:27 PM Edited by mysticalview21 on Tue 07/15/14 03:32 PM
which kind of dumped in the beginning of a relationship ? in a relationship already ? I believe its all kinds of reasons ...not just one ... may have not looked like their profile picture and lied ... had nothing in command to be attracted to one another after meeting... to demanding and controlling personality... and do not feel secure with one another ...while being together... maturity goes a long way... yes... this is coming from the one who loves fantasy art

longboardernew Joined Mon 02/03/14 Posts: 583	Wed 07/16/14 09:31 PM
loss of love

Whywherewhenwho Joined Fri 10/01/10 Posts: 322	Thu 07/17/14 03:06 AM
Well there can be many reasons but I think the following leads by a landslide; When a couple marry or get together she thinks he'll change his ways and he believes she always stay the great lady he fell in love with. Fact is he won't change but she will...

0ldhag Joined Sat 05/31/14 Posts: 1146	Thu 07/17/14 03:41 AM
Unwillingness to help hide the bodies DId realize couples still had sex when they were married..I thought it would be easy to 'hide the bodies'

michele63 Joined Sun 02/12/12 Posts: 3405	Thu 07/17/14 06:36 AM
Misunderstood and lack of trust. big issue at times. usually the accuser is the one that has the problem not the accused.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Thu 07/17/14 07:48 AM
false beliefs about the opposite gender that lead one to see their partners' behavior as something that "women" or "men" do, rather than dealing with and seeing that person as an individual. the tendency to objectify....it blocks vision...lol I have seen quite a few objectification statements on here as I read thru

2KidsMom Joined Tue 09/30/08 Posts: 58206	Thu 07/17/14 07:58 AM
Lack of Respect...

veneg Joined Thu 07/17/14 Posts: 1	Thu 07/17/14 08:25 AM
Unfaithful

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Thu 07/17/14 09:20 AM
loss of value

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Thu 07/17/14 09:27 AM
false beliefs about the opposite gender that lead one to see their partners' behavior as something that "women" or "men" do, rather than dealing with and seeing that person as an individual. the tendency to objectify....it blocks vision...lol I have seen quite a few objectification statements on here as I read thru yeah, this is true. getting comfortable in the role of being selfish for too long, stubborn, passive attitudes, surface answers, one word answers, personal value is shunned.