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Topic: Sleeping with someone on first date?
TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76353	Wed 07/23/14 05:34 PM
only if she promises to cuddle.!!! And your flying to Texas when??? hehehehee

dcastelmissy Joined Thu 08/01/13 Posts: 39633	Wed 07/23/14 05:38 PM
Never say never... You live the way you choose...you're married and choose nudity and who knows what else...but you can live any way you choose...I say NEVER FOR ME!

HeadnHeart Joined Wed 06/02/10 Posts: 1270	Wed 07/23/14 06:03 PM
Not on my agenda, but I can't say never. Chemistry can change things

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Wed 07/23/14 06:42 PM
Not on my agenda, but I can't say never. Chemistry can change things Erm, I myself would not rule out fondling. Chemistry can make you do wonders.

Tommy5702 Joined Mon 07/21/14 Posts: 23	Wed 07/23/14 07:02 PM
In a new york minute, I havent had sex in about 9 months now

audinaclara Joined Sun 07/13/14 Posts: 2	Thu 07/24/14 12:15 AM
Noooooo

PrettyNpalmsprings Joined Sat 06/14/14 Posts: 2	Fri 07/25/14 10:17 PM
Every date and every conversation ends up sexual. I don't get second dates because I won't sleep with the guy. Now explain that. No sex before monogamy. No guy seems to listen to that and therefore I remain single. Very sad,

bikerbob1957 Joined Tue 10/08/13 Posts: 10	Sat 07/26/14 06:53 AM
I like to get to know the person so probably not on a first date. I have many years ago when I was young and had no sense but these days I like to converse with a lady first and know that she is capable of holding a conversation. Now I know I am getting older, lol

Ceg38 Joined Sat 07/26/14 Posts: 1	Sat 07/26/14 11:11 AM
Never done it, but I'm going to have a first date with someone and I know is going to happen but to be sincere I'm nervous! :s

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Sat 07/26/14 01:55 PM
you're not getting the milk, until you buy the (cow).... . I'm keeping my virginity.. until you put a ring on my finger.. you can tease me all you want... but I'm just not going two give it up that easily.. I'm not that type of Boy...

LUNG1954 Joined Thu 04/24/14 Posts: 1326	Sat 07/26/14 06:46 PM
Every date and every conversation ends up sexual. I don't get second dates because I won't sleep with the guy. Now explain that. No sex before monogamy. No guy seems to listen to that and therefore I remain single. Very sad, We marry someone we fall in love with and are expected to stay attracted to them and monogamous for a lifetime. When we can't, we trade our partner in for a better model, because obviously it is their fault. It can be easier to find fault in our mate than it is to live in a culture that supports infidelity...yet expects monogamy. We don't teach people how to stay faithful. We are expected to stay monogamous for 20, 30, 40, 50, sometimes 60 or even 70 years, yet there is no precedent in history for this kind of monogamy. We have never lived this long, nor have we been expected to stay attracted to one person for almost a century.

Rayer977 Joined Sat 06/28/14 Posts: 2	Sat 07/26/14 06:47 PM
I need a gf slepping is a far thing

Jtevans Joined Fri 08/10/07 Posts: 30654	Sun 07/27/14 11:23 PM
Would you consider sleeping with someone on the first date? uh,of course

dcrdnk Joined Wed 08/15/07 Posts: 5094	Sun 07/27/14 11:55 PM
I have known couples who have & they've been together for yrs..

Tommy5702 Joined Mon 07/21/14 Posts: 23	Mon 07/28/14 06:22 PM
Noooooo YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I wouldnt ******** about something I miss yet enjoy so much.

tman_62 Joined Wed 04/16/14 Posts: 171	Mon 07/28/14 06:39 PM
I did once. It was a long time ago, and no, I wouldn't do it again.

funkyfranky Joined Tue 05/01/12 Posts: 5966	Mon 07/28/14 06:50 PM
I'm not sure, my heart say's no way, and be it silly or whatever but I tend to listen to my heart

TBRich Joined Fri 11/07/08 Posts: 8232	Mon 07/28/14 06:58 PM
The fastest I ever slept with some one after meeting them was a half hour maybe. I was leaving the ER after treatment for an eye injury and this friggin' hot hispanic woman was leaving the ER for a broken arm. I was sneaking to my car, as they told me I shouldn't drive and she didn't have a ride, as apparently her boyfriend was the one who broke her arm. I gave her a ride and then gave her a ride. It was probably revenge sex for her and I was just amazed how friggin' hot she was. Dropped her at her friend's house and never saw her again. Did I mention she was friggin' hot, I didn't roll my car windows down for a week.

Rehnuma Joined Mon 03/17/14 Posts: 12	Thu 07/31/14 04:07 AM
sleeping is wasting time

patriciamae14 Joined Sat 07/19/14 Posts: 317	Thu 07/31/14 04:22 AM
No thank you, i'll let him wait for a year!