Topic: Men.
Jesusprincessmt's photo
Sat 02/21/15 07:06 AM

As someone who has been described as hideous, I think I can field that one.


There are really three reasons:

1. You never know unless you ask.

2. Some women that are extremely attractive appear unapproachable to even the most handsome of men. So, they might not get asked out a lot, which increases the chances of a positive response when they do.

3. The fact that we look bad actually makes them look better, so their vanity might just play into our favor.



Roamingorator according to your pictures, your profile and posts, I would not call you hideous. Actually I think you are a good looking man. blushing

sparkyae5's photo
Sat 02/21/15 07:06 AM
Edited by sparkyae5 on Sat 02/21/15 07:08 AM

My friend asked me to post on here a question she would love to know the answer to.

She asked,

Why do really ugly men even think they have a chance with a beautiful woman? She always says, you must be mental to even think you stood a chance.

Personally I find this cruel. But I told her I would ask, so here goes.

PLEASE REMEMBER THIS IS NOT MY QUESTION, ITS A FRIENDS


eye of the beholder is it not ? it sounds like someone that thinks

that they do NOT have to work on a relationship.....i have only met two

women in my life that i could talk to about anything and never feel

judged, they are the most beautiful women in this

world !!!!!!!!!!.....


RoamingOrator's photo
Sat 02/21/15 08:29 AM


As someone who has been described as hideous, I think I can field that one.


There are really three reasons:

1. You never know unless you ask.

2. Some women that are extremely attractive appear unapproachable to even the most handsome of men. So, they might not get asked out a lot, which increases the chances of a positive response when they do.

3. The fact that we look bad actually makes them look better, so their vanity might just play into our favor.





Roamingorator according to your pictures, your profile and posts, I would not call you hideous. Actually I think you are a good looking man. blushing


Why thank you, that is so nice of you to say, and I appreciate the compliment. blushing

While the statement was true, I'm absolutely positive that the person who called me such was intentionally trying to be cruel.

lionsbrew's photo
Sat 02/21/15 08:56 AM

My friend asked me to post on here a question she would love to know the answer to.

She asked,

Why do really ugly men even think they have a chance with a beautiful woman? She always says, you must be mental to even think you stood a chance.

Personally I find this cruel. But I told her I would ask, so here goes.

PLEASE REMEMBER THIS IS NOT MY QUESTION, ITS A FRIENDS


I would say because they have the confidence to do so. Just because one person thinks something is ugly others might call them cute because of those differences in features. Personally I don't think pugs as dogs are cute other people find them adorable.

no1phD's photo
Sat 02/21/15 08:57 AM
Edited by no1phD on Sat 02/21/15 08:59 AM
attractiveness.. plays off a sliding scale... even your friend !.compared to somebody more beautiful.. and I might add! more beautiful inside and out.... may seem unattractive herself.
.... but she can always reassure herself on this.. even the ugly ducklings mother, thought he was beautiful..... oh and we all know what happened to the princess who kissed a frog... PS it must be difficult to have a friend such as her.... always wearing she may try to steal your men...
.. because god forbid you ever land a very attractive man. well you know what she's going to be thinking! right...drinker
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Hazukashii_30's photo
Sat 02/21/15 09:32 AM
Very rude...anyhow "beauty is only skin deep." If she thinks that way, so be it, I just want to tell her straight to her face that, "No matter how beautiful you are, you're going to get ugly when you get old."

BURN! xD

Anyhow, that question insults ugly a ugly guy like me.

TxsGal3333's photo
Sat 02/21/15 09:40 AM
One of the things I use to tell my kids while growing up was............

No matter how beautiful one is their attitude can make them appeal ugly......When one has a good heart it shines and makes even the plainest person radiate...

Just because she sees someone as ugly does not mean the one they are with does... Sure lots of times it may be due to the money they lavish on the women.. Ohh well if so it is theirs to spend...


dreamerana's photo
Sat 02/21/15 10:02 AM
beauty fades. true character doesn't.

looks has nothing to do with being compatible. with having someone who understands you and cares about you.

no photo
Sat 02/21/15 10:53 AM

attractiveness.. plays off a sliding scale... even your friend !.compared to somebody more beautiful.. and I might add! more beautiful inside and out.... may seem unattractive herself.
.... but she can always reassure herself on this.. even the ugly ducklings mother, thought he was beautiful..... oh and we all know what happened to the princess who kissed a frog... PS it must be difficult to have a friend such as her.... always wearing she may try to steal your men...
.. because god forbid you ever land a very attractive man. well you know what she's going to be thinking! right...drinker
.

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The guys ive been with have never been interested in her, they know what she's like. I've been lucky and have very faithful men who were smitten with me. flowerforyou

Dodo_David's photo
Sat 02/21/15 11:11 AM

My friend asked me to post on here a question she would love to know the answer to.

She asked,

Why do really ugly men even think they have a chance with a beautiful woman?


Debbie, tell your friend that really ugly men don't think they have a chance with a beautiful woman, but they do think they have a chance with her.

no photo
Sat 02/21/15 11:13 AM


My friend asked me to post on here a question she would love to know the answer to.

She asked,

Why do really ugly men even think they have a chance with a beautiful woman?


Debbie, tell your friend that really ugly men don't think they have a chance with a beautiful woman, but they do think they have a chance with her.


Lmao :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:

DavidCommaGeek's photo
Sat 02/21/15 11:14 AM
Also tell her to watch movies like Beauty and the Beast, The Hunchback of Notre Dame, and basically any other popular media that tells and re-tells the story.
It may not be true in real life, but I think these kinds of stories contribute to why "really ugly men think they have a chance with a beautiful woman".

no photo
Sat 02/21/15 11:54 AM

Also tell her to watch movies like Beauty and the Beast, The Hunchback of Notre Dame, and basically any other popular media that tells and re-tells the story.
It may not be true in real life, but I think these kinds of stories contribute to why "really ugly men think they have a chance with a beautiful woman".


Ok, but I would be wasting my time, however if it had a LV designer label on, she would

no photo
Sat 02/21/15 12:10 PM
Hi everyone.

I am not exactly new, but I decided to try meeting new friends this way (real, not virtual ones) with a bit different approach. If it works - it works, if not... well, I tried. :-)

On a topic... Ugly is not a matter of looks, but a state of mind.

OOi812's photo
Sat 02/21/15 12:14 PM
If your friend is attractive, her good looks will wear off soon enough. But the ugliness inside her??? Unfortunately, that ugliness inside her is there to stay.

no photo
Sat 02/21/15 12:19 PM

If your friend is attractive, her good looks will wear off soon enough. But the ugliness inside her??? Unfortunately, that ugliness inside her is there to stay.



She thinks she is

Rock's photo
Sat 02/21/15 01:31 PM

My friend asked me to post on here a question she would love to know the answer to.

She asked,

Why do really ugly men even think they have a chance with a beautiful woman? She always says, you must be mental to even think you stood a chance.

Personally I find this cruel. But I told her I would ask, so here goes.

PLEASE REMEMBER THIS IS NOT MY QUESTION, ITS A FRIENDS


I've never seen or heard a truly beautiful woman ask such a question.

isaac_dede's photo
Sat 02/21/15 01:43 PM
ummm.....because the do have a chance here's proof

isaac_dede's photo
Sat 02/21/15 01:47 PM
you may also want to show her this.....most men are attracted by something deeper than physical appearance. ...even the attractive ones

no photo
Sat 02/21/15 01:56 PM
Thanks Isaac, I'll show her these. flowerforyou