Hello ladies and gents.

We live in the era of social networking and finding an LDR is not that difficult, the question is : Do you think that your LDR can actually work( and no don't google that question) ?

No.
I might be the wrong person to answer this objectively, though.

You'd have more chance of a chocolate kettle working than an LDR!! Some do, but it's easier to go with someone that you can see regularly and not once in a blue moon!

.. I am in the middle of one right now..
... its not fun..
... ok maybe it's not a relationship..
.. when she comes to town she rings me up.... sends a car for me..
to bring me to her hotel....
...hmm.ok.. maybe it is relationship..lol

Sounds more like an open relationship to me. ;) not bad though

Mine started out as an LDR, now it's a regular relationship. One or the other has to be willing to move, and that should be talked about early on, or you're just wasting each others time.

what ^^^^^^^ he said!!!!!!!!

Sometimes, it's just better,
if the other person stays long distance.

Usually the problem with a LDR has nothing to do with the distance, but you don't find out until one of you completely changes their life for the other. There are so many underlying reasons why the relationship won't work out that can't be known until it's too late. So, don't sacrifice your life, if you're solving the distance problem make sure they are solving things in other areas of relationship. But, if they won't take the effort to be with you too, forget about it, don't even meet them.

mostly they don't. but they can if you are both on the same page and at least one of you is willing to eliminate the distance eventually

In a long distance relationship,wow, will it work. NO. I was traveling back and forth for almost a year. I ask her to visit me. Nothing but excuses.
ALMOST the end of the year we went out and when we got their I took her hand and she just push me away. I question her, she said nothing.
I didn't feel good at all.
Long story short. I return back to New York, she call to see if I made it back ok. It was short. I didn't contact her at all . she text here and there. Three months past she start calling I had nothing to say. Except how disrespectful she was.

Here is the bomb, she said she is three months pregnant, I know it was not mys because we didn't have sex.

She tried to say she was rape, now she wants me to be the father, really. Not I, it's not I who got you pregnant.

So, long distance relationship, trust plays a big part. For me, no trust.

lol ... no .. it doesn't sound like you're in a relationship, it sounds like you're just a fling and a good time, when ever she's in town! But whatever floats your boat! lol

EXACTLY.

sorry that happened to you, byoe. Something didn't look honest the way it went down

What's an LDR?....

Long distance relationship.

They can, that's all I'm gonna say about that.

To others yes! To others no! It reminds me of what i watch before from the television. An interview to the people who meet there husban/wife at the social media. Some of them has a very much interesting story like a Swedish man who accepted and married a disabled woman from here. The woman that has 2 artificial legs. This people has of different success storries.

In LDR you need a patience in knowing each other. So many things to consider in this kind of relationship. Specially... Who will sacrifice his/her work or job and left his/her country? If no one then both you must have to moved on.

Thank you.