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Topic: your EX
jazzinc's photo
Sat 04/11/15 04:45 PM
Can you be friend of your EX-LOVER?

Easy? Hard? Normal?

JustScribbles's photo
Sat 04/11/15 04:49 PM
*looking around wildly* Whew! Saw that topic and thought she'd violated the restraining order.

But, yeah. (except for that ^^^ one) I'm usually friends with them. That seldom changes 'til their new fellas get to feeling insecure about it.

yellowrose10's photo
Sat 04/11/15 04:51 PM
I am friends with all of my exs (except the last one)

I think it took some time to heal hurt feelings from the break up but yes it can be done.


TMommy's photo
Sat 04/11/15 04:51 PM
ex husband got married last year to the new wife
after the dust settled with divorce
he and I actually get along pretty good
but then again we have two kids and twenty years in common

TyphoonMk1b's photo
Sat 04/11/15 04:53 PM
no relation at all...so neither good nor bad

no1phD's photo
Sat 04/11/15 04:55 PM
there is no such thing as an ex lover for me...

. some habits are hard to break..
Mmmm.ohhhhh..yesss. please...
. as she moans in the middle of the night for me....:angel: ..

WHAT.. JUST BEING HONEST..LOL

kissablekiss's photo
Sat 04/11/15 04:57 PM
Friends with all my Exs .. Mature enough to respect each other and I often turn to them for advices for matters of the heart .. Some boundaries you don't cross anymore .

bashajones's photo
Sat 04/11/15 04:59 PM

Can you be friend of your EX-LOVER?

Easy? Hard? Normal?


Nope. No way. No how....Impossible.

Wait? Maybe?....:tongue:

SitkaRains's photo
Sat 04/11/15 05:38 PM

Can you be friend of your EX-LOVER?

Easy? Hard? Normal?

I only have one EX that I have no relationship with either way...The rest of my Ex's are great men and I value their friendship. Actually had dinner a couple of weeks ago with him and his wife that I set up

IgorFrankensteen's photo
Sat 04/11/15 05:43 PM
Depends on why and how we broke up.

For some, absolutely. Especially the ones where we both behaved well, and just realized we were incompatible some how.

For others, no way in hell, or even with divine intervention. She was SO viciously destructive of me, I never want to hear from her again.

CallMeMB's photo
Sat 04/11/15 05:56 PM
For some folks, absolutely!!!

My ex? Absolutely not!

All feelings and respect were thoroughly annihilated during the course of the relationship.

justme659's photo
Sat 04/11/15 06:00 PM
My ex husband, (the only one) It would take all the gold in FT. Knox for me to talk to him. Not that I do not like him or anything like that. It is just that I would have to go back to that fear and inadequacy that he brings into my life.

As for ex boyfriends, They have moved on and so have I. So no need to keep in touch or associate with them.

Goofball73's photo
Sat 04/11/15 06:11 PM
Well....ever since I slept with my ex-wife's best friend......eh....it's been rocky.

 ☮️ Coolchic Dee 💟's photo
Sat 04/11/15 06:24 PM


I TRIED to be friends with him, but he just kept reminding me of
why I turned him into an "EX" in the first place slaphead
So it's a NO for me noway

no photo
Sat 04/11/15 08:00 PM
I think that depends on why you broke up in the first place. There are good and bad break ups.

For me.. we're friends and always will be.

needsum12luv's photo
Sat 04/11/15 08:20 PM
I still communicate with both my exes. It was a problem with my last girlfriend but she didn't understand that my ex was helping me through tough times (sorta because she owes me) but we rarely see each other. She lives about a mile away from me

needsum12luv's photo
Sat 04/11/15 08:21 PM
Edited by needsum12luv on Sat 04/11/15 08:22 PM


Can you be friend of your EX-LOVER?

Easy? Hard? Normal?


Nope. No way. No how....Impossible.

Wait? Maybe?....:tongue:


no, wait a minute, I'm confused, no......you're confused, yeah that's it.

regularfeller's photo
Sat 04/11/15 08:41 PM

Can you be friend of your EX-LOVER?

Easy? Hard? Normal?


Well, I reckon my view is this: if we couldn't be friends when we was having sex with each other, why we gonna worry about being friends when we ain't?

Annierooroo's photo
Sat 04/11/15 08:50 PM
For me it depends on the ex. My first ex yes we are close like brother/ sister nothing more. He is married and his wife has no problems. We enjoy family occasionns. We are like this s because we choose to be mates for the sake of our daughter.
The ex husband well different all together. He doesn't want to be friends. That's OK his choice.

dust4fun's photo
Sat 04/11/15 09:30 PM
Edited by dust4fun on Sat 04/11/15 09:34 PM

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