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Topic: looking elsewhere??
Dinkles2014 Joined Wed 08/06/14 Posts: 4	Wed 05/27/15 02:45 PM
When dating would you continue looking on here?

SitkaRains Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 17228	Wed 05/27/15 02:47 PM
When dating would you continue looking on here? IDK...I did and found my guy... Each to their own.. Would I put all my eggs into one basket Nope never did

Dinkles2014 Joined Wed 08/06/14 Posts: 4	Wed 05/27/15 02:49 PM
Tar x

Datwasntme Joined Fri 07/25/14 Posts: 9701	Wed 05/27/15 03:25 PM
lots of great people here to chat with and meet and what not

IgorFrankensteen Joined Thu 10/01/09 Posts: 5444	Wed 05/27/15 03:34 PM
I put all MY eggs in one refrigerator. Don't care for baskets. Lost twenty years worth of eggs in the last mess, but I've laid a few more since. At least, according to amused onlookers.

kirkscastle Joined Wed 05/06/15 Posts: 5	Wed 05/27/15 04:06 PM
In an honest, open relationship where neither person has stipulated that it is a one on one thing, then it would be prudent to let the other person know that you'll still be having a look until you find mr. right!! I was in a relationship for 2 years, but we both agreed that it wasn't going to end up in a partnering situation. She told me 2 months ago that our friendship is now on a 6 month sabbatical, which is fine with me. You win some and.......other times the other person wins!!

ciretom Joined Wed 06/18/14 Posts: 4953	Wed 05/27/15 04:09 PM
When dating would you continue looking on here? Not the way I date. But it's mostly to avoid stupid things like: "I saw you online!" "Well you had to be online to see me online!" "I was only online to see if you were online!" "OMG! You're a stalker!" "You're playing games!" "You're not really serious!" "You're a cheater after our one date!" "It's cause I'm fat, isn't it!" "You're so insecure!" "You're so judgmental!" Not to mention: "Why haven't you called?" "I sent you an email on the dating site, why didn't you respond?!" "I did using your regular email!" "That's not what your facebook said!" "I texted you the explanation!" "I know, that's why I sent you a message on IM, kik'd you, tweeted you, instagrammed you, sent a whatapp, and dropped by your house to put a note on your door." "You dropped by my house?! It's over! You're too clingy!" It's too easy to turn into miscommunication of motives and such. For me, it's best to minimize avenues of communication. It leads to less miscommunication, IMO. Communication is important to relationships at all times. But that doesn't mean absolute access via any available channel in existence.

Conejita71mx Joined Tue 04/28/15 Posts: 28	Wed 05/27/15 04:17 PM
When dating would you continue looking on here? Not the way I date. But it's mostly to avoid stupid things like: "I saw you online!" "Well you had to be online to see me online!" "I was only online to see if you were online!" "OMG! You're a stalker!" "You're playing games!" "You're not really serious!" "You're a cheater after our one date!" "It's cause I'm fat, isn't it!" "You're so insecure!" "You're so judgmental!" Not to mention: "Why haven't you called?" "I sent you an email on the dating site, why didn't you respond?!" "I did using your regular email!" "That's not what your facebook said!" "I texted you the explanation!" "I know, that's why I sent you a message on IM, kik'd you, tweeted you, instagrammed you, sent a whatapp, and dropped by your house to put a note on your door." "You dropped by my house?! It's over! You're too clingy!" It's too easy to turn into miscommunication of motives and such. For me, it's best to minimize avenues of communication. It leads to less miscommunication, IMO. Communication is important to relationships at all times. But that doesn't mean absolute access via any available channel in existence. you crack me up! All what you said is so right!

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Wed 05/27/15 04:22 PM
When dating would you continue looking on here? I would not....could not....just look here..... I would not....could not....just look over there..... I do not like green eggs and ham..... I do not like them....Sam I Am...... Poetry from Goof.....you're welcome.

Rock Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 21251	Wed 05/27/15 04:28 PM
When dating would you continue looking on here? Dating, is just dating... And differs greatly from a committed relationship.

TMommy Joined Fri 05/10/13 Posts: 9850	Wed 05/27/15 04:54 PM
Dating as in just met and did date number one? In that case keep options open. If you were seeing each other exclusively? Then Heeeeeeell to the no!!!! Only reason for him to be in facebook better be to talk to his daughter at college and if he be tweeting it best be to his married son in Colorado but that's just me darling..he picks that phone up to read text or.take a phone call during dinner his house better be on fire

SitkaRains Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 17228	Wed 05/27/15 05:08 PM
When dating would you continue looking on here? IDK...I did and found my guy... Each to their own.. Would I put all my eggs into one basket Nope never did Well crap I read this thread wrong I thought the OP meant... as in different dating spectrums... Putting all the eggs into one basket as just look on here.. I didn't advice that since then we would be seeing a thread of I have had no luck... Sorry Pancho I am SO NOT LOOKING BABE.... sucking will commence tonight

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Wed 05/27/15 05:09 PM
I never stop looking. ..lol

panchovanilla Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 5396	Wed 05/27/15 08:10 PM
When dating would you continue looking on here? IDK...I did and found my guy... Each to their own.. Would I put all my eggs into one basket Nope never did Well crap I read this thread wrong I thought the OP meant... as in different dating spectrums... Putting all the eggs into one basket as just look on here.. I didn't advice that since then we would be seeing a thread of I have had no luck... Sorry Pancho I am SO NOT LOOKING BABE.... sucking will commence tonight Mmmmmmm I understood what you meant Sweetie. See how in tune we are. But don't let me stop you from making up.

Dinkles2014 Joined Wed 08/06/14 Posts: 4	Thu 05/28/15 12:45 AM
Did you guys have a tiff from my question... x

Dinkles2014 Joined Wed 08/06/14 Posts: 4	Thu 05/28/15 12:56 AM
Did you guys have a tiff from my question... x .... Sitka and pancho how come you are dating, together but you are both using the website ??

SuzQ66 Joined Thu 03/26/15 Posts: 1969	Thu 05/28/15 01:01 AM
They are in a LDR. And they are friends with a lot of people on here. I doubt they had a tiff, no worries.