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Topic: POLYAMOR vs SWINGING
rindamin666's photo
Sun 10/09/16 04:19 AM
though they are two different words but I think somewhere at some point they have similarities too .
just brought this topic here to know about your views .
if anyone here supports these.

Madcatlady01's photo
Sun 10/09/16 06:22 AM
Edited by Madcatlady01 on Sun 10/09/16 06:22 AM
What is polyamor?

TMommy's photo
Sun 10/09/16 06:33 AM
polyamorous..meaning to love more than one person
does not mean bi-sexual though partners may be of both sexes


swinging or swingers ( in this country at least)

means wife swapping or married couples that go to parties

to meet up with other married couples to sleep with

TMommy's photo
Sun 10/09/16 07:27 AM
pansexual is the one that confuses me...

soufiehere's photo
Sun 10/09/16 07:28 AM

polyamorous..meaning to love more than one person
does not mean bi-sexual though partners may be of both sexes


Whaaaa?
Confuse me more..

soufiehere's photo
Sun 10/09/16 07:31 AM

pansexual is the one that confuses me...

Yes and I have seen some BIG pans.

Wendermilliken's photo
Sun 10/09/16 07:38 AM

pansexual is the one that confuses me...


I'm really confused too... a few days ago I read in a Forum the words "Sexrall relationship"... didn't dare to ask what was that...

no photo
Sun 10/09/16 07:48 AM
Pan sex confuses me too. I always wondered how they made baby pans...laugh

rindamin666's photo
Sun 10/09/16 12:03 PM

pansexual is the one that confuses me...

I think people just need different names to do the same thing .

no photo
Sun 10/09/16 12:20 PM
The complexity of it all! doesn't interest me so I won't even go there to fill my head up with more useless knowledge than I already have thanks. goes against my values.

Goofball73's photo
Sun 10/09/16 12:31 PM
Hmmmmmm. Well, back when I was married, I would have swapped out my ex wife for a new one. laugh

Annierooroo's photo
Sun 10/09/16 01:05 PM
Wow that's new information

Swingers I thought loved swings, the things in the park your sit on.

A whole new meaning.

Sorry I have no idea.


Dodo_David's photo
Sun 10/09/16 01:09 PM

though they are two different words but I think somewhere at some point they have similarities too .
just brought this topic here to know about your views .
if anyone here supports these.


huh Support these?
Sure! I am just itching to acquire a sexually-transmitted disease. indifferent


no photo
Sun 10/09/16 01:46 PM
though they are two different words but I think somewhere at some point they have similarities too .

Can you name any type of personal/social relationship that at some point, somewhere, doesn't have similarities to every other type of personal/social relationship?

just brought this topic here to know about your views .

Anymore, people approach relationships little differently than they approach food, IMO, (that's what happens when you separate sex from procreation and make sex a means to pleasure or self actualization rather than simply a cog in a natural process).

Lots of people try to come up with their own recipe for what tastes best, with the least amount of effort or cost, providing the most nutrition or at least provides the greatest "full" feeling.

Just as you can come up with vegan, paleo, south beach, atkins, ketogenic, mediterranean, fast food, junk food, vegetarian, fruitarian, you can come up with all sorts of relationship "diet" words.


if anyone here supports these.

I have a feeling that with the huge jump towards over reliance on technology these are going to be the standard.

I mean parents are having fewer children. Middle class to upper class, 1 to 2 kids.
Small families.
People would rather text small numbers of friends than focus on driving. Addicted to highly impersonal means of communication.

Human beings are social animals.
They absolutely need close, intimate groups and communities.

If nothing else is providing it (no big families, childhood friends are only on screens, mcmansion houses with private back yards, or huge plots of land distanced from neighbors), the only means of obtaining the minimum emotional and social support that human beings need at a basic fundamental level is going to be people building their own relationship clans, frankensteined small societies to get what they've been missing.

The only thing that offers sufficient motivation to build those from scratch is pursuit of sexual gratification (you don't read a lot of forum threads whining "why don't older/younger men/women want to be just friends, why do they always want sex? I met my best friend online and they moved to another country just to be close and be my platonic friend").

Or heroin.

Maybe that's the future.

Everyone is going to join a gang and all the gangs just sell each other drugs to make themselves happy.
That's the liberal/democrat/Obama economic plan "A german tourist goes into a hotel and puts down $100 to browse a room and get some heroin. The hotel clerk is a gang member and buys heroin from another gang, that gang uses the money to buy pot from the gang that needs heroin, the gang member with the pot is the hotel clerk, the hotel clerk gives the german tourist his $100 back when he returns from browsing the room. Everyone is happy."

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Sun 10/09/16 02:55 PM
There may be some overlap in what you do, as in sex with more than one person, but the feelings and intentions behind it are somewhat different ...
Support it ... to each their own. If it fulfills someone's needs and no one gets hurt or upset by it ... does it matter?
There's also ppl with foot fetishes. Now that I truly do not understand laugh

soufiehere's photo
Sun 10/09/16 05:15 PM

..Swingers I thought loved swings,
the things in the park your sit on..

hahahahahahahahahahahahaha
You kill me gf :-)

SitkaRains's photo
Sun 10/09/16 05:19 PM

Wow that's new information

Swingers I thought loved swings, the things in the park your sit on.

A whole new meaning.

Sorry I have no idea.




OHG Annie please don't ever change..
I so adore you GF
laugh rofl

Annierooroo's photo
Sun 10/09/16 07:19 PM
Thanks gfs
I was shelter for years.

I am not going there ewwwe. Lol

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Tue 10/11/16 04:23 AM


There's also ppl with foot fetishes. Now that I truly do not understand laugh


Allow me to explain. blushing


I sleep with just over 3 women per week, does that make me Pi sexual

Annierooroo's photo
Tue 10/11/16 09:08 AM



There's also ppl with foot fetishes. Now that I truly do not understand laugh


Allow me to explain. blushing


I sleep with just over 3 women per week, does that make me Pi sexual


Wouldn't that make you a tri
Tri short for triple?

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