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Topic: dressing relationship appropriate
Twintidbits24's photo
Sat 04/01/17 11:35 AM
I dress up in clothes I am comfortable with and not having the notion to attract somebody. It is difficult to start and finish your day when you feel uncomfortable with what you wear and it also depends on the occasion or place you are into including the weather forecast for the day smile2

TMommy's photo
Sat 04/01/17 12:40 PM


because it is the assumption
that women who dress 'provactively' are hunting for a man
welcome his advances, want to flirt


Wait. I dress "provocatively" to hunt for a woman and welcome her advanced and want to flirt.

Are you saying I've got it wrong and should wear jeans around my thighs and a daggy T-shirt, dress like a man, to attract a girl?


the same qualities that as man you might have found
alluring and seductive
you now expect her to cover up and hide
once she is with you



That is because men need to control a woman to feel empowered and project their own attitude that if they see another pretty woman they will hit on her, so by making their woman daggy, they are protecting their false fear of their own behaviour projected onto other men, who are just the same.

I like my wife or girlfriend to be dressed up sexy and powerful. I like to show her off and let her feel in control and empowered.
hahaa..not at all
I am suggesting dress how ever the hell you want to drinker

no photo
Sat 04/01/17 01:15 PM
I always dress professionally for work, even on the " dress down Fridays" always business casual except if there is a reason to put a suit on.

At home it is jeans and a decent shirt. On the bike, jeans, sweatshirt or T shirt and work boots.

But never ANY wrinkles.. I have a " thing" about wrinkled clothes.. I don't like em..Lol

yellowrose10's photo
Sat 04/01/17 01:22 PM
Edited by yellowrose10 on Sat 04/01/17 01:24 PM
Maybe these women were dressed for work or something. I rarely wear make up, hair in ponytail and dress in jeans and tshirt. Not out to impress. I would rather someone like me for me. Otherwise, they will be disappointed the morning after laugh

yellowrose10's photo
Sat 04/01/17 01:23 PM


because it is the assumption
that women who dress 'provactively' are hunting for a man
welcome his advances, want to flirt


Wait. I dress "provocatively" to hunt for a woman and welcome her advanced and want to flirt.

Are you saying I've got it wrong and should wear jeans around my thighs and a daggy T-shirt, dress like a man, to attract a girl?


the same qualities that as man you might have found
alluring and seductive
you now expect her to cover up and hide
once she is with you


That is because men need to control a woman to feel empowered and project their own attitude that if they see another pretty woman they will hit on her, so by making their woman daggy, they are protecting their false fear of their own behaviour projected onto other men, who are just the same.

I like my wife or girlfriend to be dressed up sexy and powerful. I like to show her off and let her feel in control and empowered.


I think that is your business. Not all women do that. I dress like me every day

no photo
Sat 04/01/17 01:34 PM

Maybe these women were dressed for work or something. I rarely wear make up, hair in ponytail and dress in jeans and tshirt. Not out to impress. I would rather someone like me for me. Otherwise, they will be disappointed the morning after laugh


One guy told me, that beautiful and confident women don't need make-up to look good.

So, we are beautiful and confident then. biggrin

yellowrose10's photo
Sat 04/01/17 01:39 PM


Maybe these women were dressed for work or something. I rarely wear make up, hair in ponytail and dress in jeans and tshirt. Not out to impress. I would rather someone like me for me. Otherwise, they will be disappointed the morning after laugh


One guy told me, that beautiful and confident women don't need make-up to look good.

So, we are beautiful and confident then. biggrin


I agree. Let's face it...men (women) will see us without make up and hair fixed at some point.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Sat 04/01/17 02:31 PM





Yes most women but not all...lol.
At least the ones I know do... when I first meet them they dress very stylish but..in a way that says there available..
Then after you date for awhile they turn down the I'm available volume..
On. Their wardrobe.. they keep the hot sexy out fits for dinner though..lol.. Style and comfort can go hand-in-hand..by the way....

I don't think anyone said it couldn't... flowerforyou
As for the rest... prolly Law of Attraction. You are very focused on looks, the outside, so you likely attract ppl who are that way too.
I'm more interested in being able to be me, so I attract ppl who feel the same way. That doesn't mean you look like a slob. It means you have freedom and that you don't have to be fake because your partner expects/demands you to look like a model 24/7.
I wouldn't be able to relax -nor be happy- if I had to get worried each time a lock of hair was out of place because my partner demands perfection of me. Would drive me up the wall. And make me wonder why he was so insecure that he needed perfection.
So I don't attract that kind of partner either.
..well.. glad you're such an expert on what I'm focused on...
Can you tell me what I'm thinking right now maybe....slaphead

Erm.. lemme look in my crystal ball...
The gorgeous blonde that just walked by... Oh no wait a sec... the brunette with legs a mile long that's standing in front of you. Right now you are ogling her perky ***.
Am I right? flowerforyou

Have a great weekend, No1! Hope you're not offended, just bouncing off stuff you say yourself :p
I'm going to enjoy my weekend. My baby is here smooched smitten
At the mo taking a power nap as he had to get up real early this morning. I don't mind him napping for a bit. Means he's more rested for the rest of the evening :laughing:

.. I think your crystal ball is cracked she's not a brunette she's a redhead..lol.. and you my friend can never say anything that I would find offensive..xo.. enjoy your weekend with your caveman..lol.wink..

brunette .. redhead, tomato.. tomato lol. That's what you get when your crystal ball is cracked... slight differences in colours due to broken reflections and stuff. Scrying is not my thing anyway...

And yes, had a good time, although very short. Not the whole weekend, unfortunately, he went home late this afternoon.

no1phD's photo
Sat 04/01/17 03:35 PM






Yes most women but not all...lol.
At least the ones I know do... when I first meet them they dress very stylish but..in a way that says there available..
Then after you date for awhile they turn down the I'm available volume..
On. Their wardrobe.. they keep the hot sexy out fits for dinner though..lol.. Style and comfort can go hand-in-hand..by the way....

I don't think anyone said it couldn't... flowerforyou
As for the rest... prolly Law of Attraction. You are very focused on looks, the outside, so you likely attract ppl who are that way too.
I'm more interested in being able to be me, so I attract ppl who feel the same way. That doesn't mean you look like a slob. It means you have freedom and that you don't have to be fake because your partner expects/demands you to look like a model 24/7.
I wouldn't be able to relax -nor be happy- if I had to get worried each time a lock of hair was out of place because my partner demands perfection of me. Would drive me up the wall. And make me wonder why he was so insecure that he needed perfection.
So I don't attract that kind of partner either.
..well.. glad you're such an expert on what I'm focused on...
Can you tell me what I'm thinking right now maybe....slaphead

Erm.. lemme look in my crystal ball...
The gorgeous blonde that just walked by... Oh no wait a sec... the brunette with legs a mile long that's standing in front of you. Right now you are ogling her perky ***.
Am I right? flowerforyou

Have a great weekend, No1! Hope you're not offended, just bouncing off stuff you say yourself :p
I'm going to enjoy my weekend. My baby is here smooched smitten
At the mo taking a power nap as he had to get up real early this morning. I don't mind him napping for a bit. Means he's more rested for the rest of the evening :laughing:

.. I think your crystal ball is cracked she's not a brunette she's a redhead..lol.. and you my friend can never say anything that I would find offensive..xo.. enjoy your weekend with your caveman..lol.wink..

brunette .. redhead, tomato.. tomato lol. That's what you get when your crystal ball is cracked... slight differences in colours due to broken reflections and stuff. Scrying is not my thing anyway...

And yes, had a good time, although very short. Not the whole weekend, unfortunately, he went home late this afternoon.
.lol.. you sent him home sore and broken I hope... feeling satisfied with himself...lol.wink

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Sun 04/02/17 05:07 PM







Yes most women but not all...lol.
At least the ones I know do... when I first meet them they dress very stylish but..in a way that says there available..
Then after you date for awhile they turn down the I'm available volume..
On. Their wardrobe.. they keep the hot sexy out fits for dinner though..lol.. Style and comfort can go hand-in-hand..by the way....

I don't think anyone said it couldn't... flowerforyou
As for the rest... prolly Law of Attraction. You are very focused on looks, the outside, so you likely attract ppl who are that way too.
I'm more interested in being able to be me, so I attract ppl who feel the same way. That doesn't mean you look like a slob. It means you have freedom and that you don't have to be fake because your partner expects/demands you to look like a model 24/7.
I wouldn't be able to relax -nor be happy- if I had to get worried each time a lock of hair was out of place because my partner demands perfection of me. Would drive me up the wall. And make me wonder why he was so insecure that he needed perfection.
So I don't attract that kind of partner either.
..well.. glad you're such an expert on what I'm focused on...
Can you tell me what I'm thinking right now maybe....slaphead

Erm.. lemme look in my crystal ball...
The gorgeous blonde that just walked by... Oh no wait a sec... the brunette with legs a mile long that's standing in front of you. Right now you are ogling her perky ***.
Am I right? flowerforyou

Have a great weekend, No1! Hope you're not offended, just bouncing off stuff you say yourself :p
I'm going to enjoy my weekend. My baby is here smooched smitten
At the mo taking a power nap as he had to get up real early this morning. I don't mind him napping for a bit. Means he's more rested for the rest of the evening :laughing:

.. I think your crystal ball is cracked she's not a brunette she's a redhead..lol.. and you my friend can never say anything that I would find offensive..xo.. enjoy your weekend with your caveman..lol.wink..

brunette .. redhead, tomato.. tomato lol. That's what you get when your crystal ball is cracked... slight differences in colours due to broken reflections and stuff. Scrying is not my thing anyway...

And yes, had a good time, although very short. Not the whole weekend, unfortunately, he went home late this afternoon.
.lol.. you sent him home sore and broken I hope... feeling satisfied with himself...lol.wink

I think so :)

no photo
Sun 04/02/17 05:20 PM
This is such a bad topic. I don't even know where to go.

markc48's photo
Sun 04/02/17 05:30 PM
I dress most the time like I'm working. Because I am.

Gypsyatheart17's photo
Tue 04/04/17 11:26 PM

hahahahahaha oh my interesting query :-)

I have never dressed to look 'available.'
Nor have I ever dressed to look 'unavailable.'
I dress to stay warm.

hahaha you guys...thinking it is about YOU!

laugh

DazzlingAsian's photo
Thu 04/06/17 01:38 AM
wears business attire only for work

sybariticguy's photo
Fri 04/07/17 07:09 AM

Ok..just had coffee. .and noticed two women talking casual business... very attractive..women..now.. when they got up to leave one of them was a very tall very attractive.. she was dressed in skin tight leggings high heels a shortcut form-fitting coat..very.. sexy business attire.. it screamed I'm available ...now..

I'm confident in who I am..and I want my women to look her best...but..
When you're in a relationship do you tend to tone down the sexy the availability in the way you look...are.. do you continue to dress..in.the sexy business attire ..that slightly says you are still single.. I like my woman to have Style...but...hmmmm.... anyone feeling me on this...lol
It screamed I'm available is your wishful thinking as her motives are not known however yours seem quite obvious... lol

sybariticguy's photo
Fri 04/07/17 07:12 AM

This is such a bad topic. I don't even know where to go.
seek an exit and avoid the superfluous claptrap

babykris6c's photo
Fri 04/07/17 09:48 AM
I like wearing skintight dresses and skirts without anything under. My partner just tells me not to skip the undies sometimes.

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