Topic: SEX BEFORE OR AFTER MARRIAGE
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Wed 02/28/18 09:52 AM

Well this question is easy! I think the more challenging is during. Lol.

Just kidding but I do remember the challenges that children bring to logistics, timing and spontaneity.

In summary I vote yes.


So true! I remember falling asleep waiting for a storm to pass in the night. We didn’t dare start something for fear our son would run in and jump into bed with us. Haha!

trackcoachred's photo
Wed 02/28/18 03:21 PM


Well this question is easy! I think the more challenging is during. Lol.

Just kidding but I do remember the challenges that children bring to logistics, timing and spontaneity.

In summary I vote yes.


So true! I remember falling asleep waiting for a storm to pass in the night. We didn’t dare start something for fear our son would run in and jump into bed with us. Haha!


Yes exactly. Built in birth control! Lol

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Wed 02/28/18 04:05 PM



Well this question is easy! I think the more challenging is during. Lol.

Just kidding but I do remember the challenges that children bring to logistics, timing and spontaneity.

In summary I vote yes.


So true! I remember falling asleep waiting for a storm to pass in the night. We didn’t dare start something for fear our son would run in and jump into bed with us. Haha!


Yes exactly. Built in birth control! Lol


sad laugh

maybwecan's photo
Wed 02/28/18 04:17 PM
Don't ask the sheep to vote laugh laugh laugh rofl

asep69's photo
Thu 03/01/18 05:38 AM
Depends on women because man always following women

Boudreaux10's photo
Fri 03/02/18 01:24 AM
all night

jazzinc's photo
Fri 03/02/18 09:12 AM
A very complex subject as sex itself.

It depends of several factors,,,social acceptance,cultures,religion,customs and traditions,beliefs,taboos....etc.

Sex before marriage is a big test to consolidate love or decrease it. Very often;even the marriage plan could be at risk.

Complex subject

no1phD's photo
Fri 03/02/18 09:30 AM
Sex before and after marriage..


yes please on both accounts
Lol

Tom4Uhere's photo
Fri 03/02/18 10:16 AM
The act of having sex is NOT complicated.
Its actually pretty straight forward.

What makes it complicated (in the adult world) is when one wants it and the other doesn't. And that desire is not restricted to a gender.

In high school, you were probably ruled by your parents wisdom and values.
Seeing someone of the opposite sex undressed is a big deal.
Sex is a big deal because you haven't really experienced it yet.
Being a big deal, many will abstain.

By the time you're in college, you're thinking about being an adult.
You try out adult things like roomate with the opposite sex, you see them naked repeatedly and you have sex like bunny rabbits.
Withholding sex becomes a tool to get the other to do what you want.

Then, as an adult, you get married.
You probably have a lot of sex, make some babies and raise a family.
Sometimes the marriage doesn't work out the way you envisioned and you find yourself alone again, but much older.

At this stage, you have already had sex. Its not new. The fantasy behind it has proven to be less than you expected and you realize that every potential mate has also experienced sex.
They've seen the opposite sex nude and so have you.

Being now 'experienced' with sex there is less trepidation to it.
If your experience was enjoyable, you look forward to sex.
If it wasn't, you might not really want to have sex.
Sex before marriage after you have already been married has a different meaning.
You are now two adults that very much enjoy sex.
As adults, with experience, sex becomes something new.
For some, it is a way to manipulate, for others it is a purely self-gratifying act.
For a few, it becomes the ultimate expression of love.
An expression of love that is founded on wisdom thru experience.

Since I am adult and do learn wisdom and really enjoy having sex, Marriage is not required for me to fully express my love for her.
I bring no pressure to bear to try to convince her to have sex with me. It is always our decision because we are experienced adults.

Toodygirl5's photo
Fri 03/02/18 03:09 PM

Sex before and after marriage..


yes please on both accounts
Lol


laugh

hasmukhsaurabh's photo
Sun 03/04/18 02:57 AM
good replied question

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Tue 03/06/18 06:17 PM
No
It's bad Habit.
After marriage is new life.
And life partner will be satisfied

Zahraa10__'s photo
Wed 03/14/18 08:39 AM
What do you think about asian girls?
With their closeminded? Sex after marriage is best option for them

MissionImpossibles's photo
Wed 03/14/18 12:36 PM
Yyp...i too agree

SAM23386's photo
Wed 03/14/18 01:06 PM
after marriage there will be more romantic feelings

Beachfarmer's photo
Wed 03/14/18 02:42 PM
are we talking about "with" your spouse?

Harddriving1234's photo
Thu 03/15/18 03:31 PM
Why you prefer after marriage. Why it can’t be before marriage.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Thu 03/15/18 06:16 PM
Both before and after marrying. Lord forbid it stops as soon as you tie the knot. I'd file for divorce right away. Shouldn't be to difficult if the marriage wasn't consummated.

Antwaine0519's photo
Thu 03/15/18 07:15 PM
everyone choose what's best for them but to me personally I want to know what I'm getting into before I put that ring on the finger.

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Thu 03/15/18 08:49 PM
for me its equal :relieved: