People will meet when they are ready; they take their time to do that.

Guys just want SEX! Say the right things and he gets sex and suddenly.... he's GONE!

Exactly! People chat to be polite. We are Canadian!

This women is clearly just here to abuse us with a match age range of 99-100! You are going to have to visit the hospitable to find one of us on the death bed.

if you state in your profile that you prefer to meet sooner and have no interest in endless communication.. most women can comprehend that. Hopefully that wil help screen those who are just here to waste your time :-)

This is happened to me several times. When we first start texting I'm on my best behavior I tried to avoid talking about sex and I'm very gentleman like. Come to the day we decide to meet. My experience told me it's not going to work it out so I decide we'll meet at a dirty coffee shop. When we do meet I'm a bundle of nerves my self-confidence is little to zero. Somewhere during this time I decide this is no different than all the rest I'll be going home with $7.83 dollars less in my pocket. So i figure go for it..... so I managed to talk her into a little peck the cheek.. And decide i will press my manhood against her hip to show her I relly like her...then as she takes off running across the parking lot I realise she is just like all the rest... Then I decide to get a dozen for the road and wind up eatting half them before i get home..

i only put out really really serious relationships, after the woman has put her scent on me.

i have to reconsider my strategy.

any women want to help me work on my rap?

I think I've seen a little bit of everything. I've had some good dates. I've met some that there just was no "click" after I met them. And that's OK. That's to be expected. And I've had many "not so good" dates. I've been lied to more times than I can count. And the time wasters. They are everywhere.

I think I've heard just about every sob story in the book. I don't mind where a woman lives. Really, to an extent, I don't care where a woman lives. For me, the one thing that does bother me is the ones that for whatever reason, the X husband still lives with them.

I've met women whos pictures looked great. But, when I, met her in person she came looking like she had been working the back 40.

I've been hit on by younger women many times. I have to admit, it is flattering. But I'm not interested. Especially the ones that pop up on here. They are so blatantly obvious, it's laughable.

I come across a lot of women that, well, they send a message or two back and forth, and then they are ready to meet you. If you don't say anything about meeting them within 3 to 5 messages, they gone. I think that problem is mostly me though. I absolutely hate being pushed. I can't stand pushy people. It's a turnoff.

I think some of it is the romantic in me. I like being the pursuer. I like letting the heat build. If a woman pushes too much, especially right in the start, my interest goes away. Every once in a while I'll meet one that handles things "right".

The woman I've been seeing the past couple of months, it took me 6 weeks before I could talk her into meeting me. The way she looks at the whole meeting process is different than most others I've met.

Many people, including myself, have said that you can't know if there is any chemistry with a person until you meet them. So far she has proved, at least to me, that idea isn't always true. You can build chemistry with a person just by the talks you have. How each of you sees the world around you. By how your minds meet.

There is a lot more. But I think I've yacked enough.

Ok

You know, the OP has only been on here a few days, so how many women has he talked to? Unless he's on other sites too. Plus he's married, and calls women "pathetic".

There are times when it is better to get to know them.

And Times when it is not. Don't miss the boat.

Something tells me this might just work...

Men I met in person, I knew well by many long conversations on the phone.

I ask a lot of questions. The men travel. And our first meet is a long time date.

Unfortunately the men I met wasn't a good Match !

my view point about that, is womens alwase lookin for suitable one, so she will waste your time untill she found the best one and then will go over, she will not tell you anything becoz she still need you in side if nothing happen, that's the same for guys, if we didnt like someone wee keep calm becoz we don't have alternative one, in many cases the majority into selfishness, sorry for my ****in english, i'm here to improve it :), i would like to meet someone that can talk in voice msg,

interesting posts Benjamine, I suspect French is your mother tongue
Im not sure if you will understand this posts, but your post is kind of ironic .

You say women lead men on then the next breathe you've admitted you've done that another guys do that too.

I would call that karma if woman is returning the favour.

You will get what you put out there its that simple.

What does it mean when they say they can't date you . Why not say I'm not feeling it or something.

Please understand that when men read women's profiles it seems women use the same outline. While how they place the information may vary they all seem to say the same thing. Beginning with I'm not here for a FWB relationship and somewhere insert the phrases "friends first" and then "I love to laugh".

Once in a while I'll run across a woman's profile where she used some ingenuity and I enjoy reading what she has to say. After reading countless profiles and they, more or less, say the same thing some men assume they all will say the same thing. So they stop reading profiles and just look at pictures.

Fair for the individual women who are creative: no. But then it's just as unfair for women to assume that ALL men want to rush relationships and do it because of their testosterone.

now that i've saved it you betcha