What I'm doing wrong?

I never payed for the upgrade on the Mingle 2.

Hi

Hello

Not to pick on you but anyone who asks what they are doing wrong is demonstrating some level of insecurity and people pick up on that quickly. The reality is that a lot of times someone is doing nothing wrong - if it were that easy to meet the right one then why the hell do dating sites have thousands of users? Unless you would be happy with the first person who comes along and smiles at you you've got to be realistic, and reality is that you should probably expect to run across 10, 20, 50, or 100 wrong people before stumbling onto the right person.

A facebook page, doesn't prove
anything. Tons of fakes there.

However, posting offsite contact
information MIGHT be a violation
of mingle2 rules.

posting a facebook link does not make you real
unless you are Santa
cause we all know any pic posted with Santa is him <nods>
and if ya search Facebook you will find a page for him as well


ya might wanna read the rules here cause if i remember right ya arn't suppose to be posten private things like that in forums
<shrug>
any who
Happy Hunten : )

deff you guarantee that in writing and i'll gladly suffer thru 10 then 20 the then 50 the and even the 100

Mitchell,

do you mind me asking how tall are you?

4"-09" on my height.

I post my Facebook page because some people might want to message me there instead of here.

you are 4 ft 9 inches tall.

okay.

well please dont think Im being rude or a jerk , but your height has something to do with it.

you can find a woman that will appreciate your height , but you have to search , search, search and search.

There are shorter women that will date a shorter man, but the average women mayl have an issue with it, even a woman at 5ft 1 might, as most women dont want to tower over their man.

mind you I did see a woman that was 6 ft 2 marry a 5ft 8 guy.

so who knows, you definitely have a challenge my friend

I wish you the best of luck

You might want to check into joining a special group for smaller people. It would probably give you a lot more options.

Rule #1- Don't send penis pics.

Rule#2- Send an email, with correct punctuation, and don't ask for sex.

After you abide by these two rules, then it just takes time.

Actually, i do know a woman here in Texas,
who's into "vertically challenged" men.

I'll give her a call, and see if she has a profile
here.

You're a good man RockGnome, helping out a fellow Texan.

Thank you, brother.

Its either were too picky or we dont know what we want that makes it hard to find someone ... good luck sir

I don't think most of the ladies read my profile. They send me message about my profile. Seem silly not to look.

These days people are more picky, have busier schedules, at an older age dating comes with the additional struggle that the other person has children that might live with them and they need to consider if you are a good addition to the family / good influence for the kids/teenagers,... People also have more goals and bigger ambitions than back in the day, so less time for dating in general.
Some people only date to relieve their urge for sex/physical intimacy but not longterm dating.

So in general I would say : show people everything you have to offer. The competition is strong, so you want to be better than the competition.

Good luck with dating and I hope you find someone that is a good addition to your life. Have patience.

Kind regards.
Elissa

what he said