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Topic: Has your libido gone the way of the dodo?
Let'sDoThis's photo
Tue 12/10/19 10:31 AM
That term hasn't been used in a coons age.
Well, I'll be dipped. Coons age. How long since anyone used that on?
Anyhoo.
Personally, mine ain't what it used to be.
Good part of it is, it keeps me out of a lot of drama. And, allows me to be more particular.
Men. Older dudes, like me. Do you find this problematic attracting a mate?
Women. Is a man with low libido not worth wasting your time? Or, could you live with it and be content?

Tom4Uhere's photo
Tue 12/10/19 10:50 AM
My libido is not what it once was.
I've slowed down a lot.
This is not an issue with my GF.
Mainly because lovemaking is more than just trying to have an orgasm as fast as possible.
I find her libido a bit excessive sometimes but she loves my slow, steady, soothing approach to lovin (perhaps its why she constantly wants it).
Neither of us is driven to reproduce anymore.
That overwhelming need to procreate is not the driving force of our lovemaking.
Now its more personal and focused on mutual pleasure.
Climaxing is still intense but some of the ferocity has diminished.
Well, sometimes it gets ferocious. LOL

Dodo_David's photo
Tue 12/10/19 11:31 AM
Topic: Has your libido gone the way of the dodo?




Hey, my libido is just fine. rant

Tom4Uhere's photo
Tue 12/10/19 11:38 AM

Topic: Has your libido gone the way of the dodo?




Hey, my libido is just fine. rant

In your case (eating cats) you are referring to appetite.

Dodo_David's photo
Tue 12/10/19 11:40 AM

In your case (eating cats) you are referring to appetite.


Ahem, I am referring to the Human definition of libido thank you very much. :angry:

Tom4Uhere's photo
Tue 12/10/19 11:42 AM
Ahem

Hairball?

Rock's photo
Tue 12/10/19 01:01 PM
My libido is still there.
I've just gotten much pickier,
about who I stick my pecker in.

Riverspirit1111's photo
Tue 12/10/19 01:17 PM
It's still there, incognito at the time, but as strong as ever, haha.

As far as the OP's question about whether I'd be content with a man who's libido was low... perhaps after the first few years together, I'd want to make up for lost time, lol blushing

Seriously though... it matters, but it's not the most important part of the relationship. If difficulties arouse later on, for either of us, I would hope we had a strong enough relationship to handle it and work through it.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Tue 12/10/19 01:29 PM
For me it's always on a lower, simmering fire when I'm single.

Having a partner who's lacking in that area would be a dealbreaker for me. I know this can be a problem with men my age as for most it becomes a problem after 40. Not the libido so much at first maybe, but the equipment losing it's steel. I know there are exceptions and hoping to attract one, hihi.
I also got some catching up to do cos of partners who had problems that way or with libido, even though only in his 40s, and me being single for some time again now.

So yes, dealbreaker as my sex-life has been crap for ages due to partners with either libido issues or proper penis function (the steel inside). I'm not interested in more crap in that area.

Freebird Deluxe's photo
Tue 12/10/19 02:01 PM

My libido is still there.
I've just gotten much pickier,
about who I stick my pecker in.


Peter piper was not that fussy

Freebird Deluxe's photo
Tue 12/10/19 02:07 PM
Somewhere along the way I lost interest, I have not had anyone to test it on for years , it has gone way down my wish list

JustBeHonest's photo
Tue 12/10/19 04:31 PM


I put my libido into hibernation for the last %$% years of my marriage. It's now alive and well since I left my marriage. I haven't met anyone with low libido since.

darkowl1's photo
Tue 12/10/19 06:07 PM
I have an oral fetish with passion and desire for the female form beyond comprehension, with absolutely no outlet, and no future that I can see. It drives me nuts at times, and it's only getting stronger. explode It's always been over the top, but I thought it might plateau...(shakes head) Everything else works fine, and at well over 60, I'll never take it for granted, but sheesh! even the clouds are looking sexy.noway


Ladywind7's photo
Tue 12/10/19 07:11 PM
What people don't know can't hurt me bigsmile

Riverspirit1111's photo
Wed 12/11/19 01:12 AM

It's still there, incognito at the time, but as strong as ever, haha.

As far as the OP's question about whether I'd be content with a man who's libido was low... perhaps after the first few years together, I'd want to make up for lost time, lol blushing

Seriously though... it matters, but it's not the most important part of the relationship. If difficulties arouse later on, for either of us, I would hope we had a strong enough relationship to handle it and work through it.


Hibernation, not incognito slaphead slaphead slaphead laugh

notbeold's photo
Wed 12/11/19 05:17 AM
Nearly 60, as good as ever, just need an activated partner. Oh.

delightfulillusion's photo
Wed 12/11/19 05:20 AM
What does a libido look like? Just so that I know what I'm looking for what

no photo
Wed 12/11/19 06:22 AM
At 58 I no longer need to do a handstand to use the bathroom first thing in the morning but it's hanging in there and I think a girlfriend would work wonders for it. If not, at least there's Viagra these days.:wink:

Let'sDoThis's photo
Wed 12/11/19 07:16 AM
Diabetes is one reason for a low functioning member.
Quite a few women, it seems, want handsome, intellectual, romantic, travelers. They get all that. When they find he can't provide what they REALLY want, it's over.
Take heart dudes. There are women out there who know, there's more than a couple ways to happy endings.
I broke it off with an extra fine, 5 foot, petite, beautiful woman recently. Because of all the other qualities, she/we, worked around the deficiency.
I broke it off for other insurmountable reasons.
There are great women out there who will want the man and will accept the situation.
I praise women. The ones who have the integrity to include in their profiles wether a strong member is a priority or not.

SpaceCodet's photo
Wed 12/11/19 07:45 AM
I'm still functional.

Was reading some stuff about how lots of kids in their late 20s and 30s are losing their sex drive and ability. They're not sure what's causing it. My theory is mental and emotional scarring builds up making them not care anymore.

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