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I'm not sticking up for what the guys saying, but I WILL say this: Not responding is just rude. If you're not interested, tell them. If you get too many responses to reply to all, make a copy-paste general purpose message. Nice guys tend to lose their niceness after being ignored over and over. From experience, I'll tell you that if I were to send a message to 30 women (just guessing here), I might get 1 reply back. Those odds are just inexcusable. The reply doesn't have to be "oh you're so cute!!!" it could be "sorry, you're a dork" and still better than no reply at all.  I agree. I respond to all unless it's really nasty, & then I am sure they know why. "Nice rack" or "wanna cyber?" will be ignored if I am in a good mood, if I am in a bad mood, you will wish I had just ignored it. Have you really recieved an E-mail that says, nice rack? What are they, clothes shopping? I got that all the time when I had a picture posted. I'm surprised that you don't get any now, that say, nice wings... or nice thighs... Lol. |
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I think really, the guy that wrote the really long, partially sarcastic response was right. can you be more specific? Yes, I was going to have to go back a few pages, but henny saved me... Jistme. oh yes, is it any wonder lilith loves this man? He always has something good to say...except for last night. How is it that you manage to pop between the forums so quick... I'm sure you're not refering to me on this one. no honey, I am referring to Jistme - lilith's honey - keep up, now. |
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Would you like the window seat? or should we stand and hold the loops? that depends....are you a touchy-feely kinda person? lmao |
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I'm not sticking up for what the guys saying, but I WILL say this: Not responding is just rude. If you're not interested, tell them. If you get too many responses to reply to all, make a copy-paste general purpose message. Nice guys tend to lose their niceness after being ignored over and over. From experience, I'll tell you that if I were to send a message to 30 women (just guessing here), I might get 1 reply back. Those odds are just inexcusable. The reply doesn't have to be "oh you're so cute!!!" it could be "sorry, you're a dork" and still better than no reply at all. It's interesting to me that none of you "nice guys" are sending messages to women like me. Nice guys apparently only like hot women. And I would think that if a guy is sending out messages to 30 women, it's going to be hard to be personal in each one. Many people don't respond to that kind of scattershot approach. If you are sending out 30 messages that say "hi. Nice pix.let's chat" you can't be offended if people don't take time to respond. If someone sends you an interesting, insightful note that shows he read your profile and appreciates something about you other than your picture, you may be more inclined to take the time to write back. I'm not trying to whine lol...and yes, I do send messages to women like you. I'm not sending "scattershot" messages, I personalize each one (as well as I can, considering most profiles don't have much information on them). I send messages to women with no picture in their profile, if the profile itself has something to say. And I'm no longer a "nice guy", that side of me has long been destroyed...now I just try to be a "good guy". 
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I'm not sticking up for what the guys saying, but I WILL say this: Not responding is just rude. If you're not interested, tell them. If you get too many responses to reply to all, make a copy-paste general purpose message. Nice guys tend to lose their niceness after being ignored over and over. From experience, I'll tell you that if I were to send a message to 30 women (just guessing here), I might get 1 reply back. Those odds are just inexcusable. The reply doesn't have to be "oh you're so cute!!!" it could be "sorry, you're a dork" and still better than no reply at all. I agree. I respond to all unless it's really nasty, & then I am sure they know why. "Nice rack" or "wanna cyber?" will be ignored if I am in a good mood, if I am in a bad mood, you will wish I had just ignored it.  Rescue Mission over You have gone way deeper than I can even fathom Isn't that a good thing when a guy does that?  Lmao... this lady is killer... How could she be single? Lol. |
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Would you like the window seat? or should we stand and hold the loops? that depends....are you a touchy-feely kinda person? lmao Lol... Well, I would touch and feel a kind person, just as quick as I would touch and feel a mean one... |
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Would you like the window seat? or should we stand and hold the loops? that depends....are you a touchy-feely kinda person? lmao Lol... Well, I would touch and feel a kind person, just as quick as I would touch and feel a mean one... gotta allow for that...so we should stand and hold the 'loops'
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I think really, the guy that wrote the really long, partially sarcastic response was right. can you be more specific? Yes, I was going to have to go back a few pages, but henny saved me... Jistme. oh yes, is it any wonder lilith loves this man? He always has something good to say...except for last night. How is it that you manage to pop between the forums so quick... I'm sure you're not refering to me on this one. no honey, I am referring to Jistme - lilith's honey - keep up, now. Well, I knew from the moment that I met lilith, that she was to good to have no been swooped up already! (Trying to keep up, in this crazy format) |
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I love these tag lines.. maybe if these women would stop going out with the bad boy types..then jsut maybe..MAYBE they wouldnt get treated like crap and find the nice guy that they SAY they are lookg for. seems the nice guy these women are looking for have a list of requirments NOT listed on thier profile WOMEN..be honest on what your looking for..NO MORE.."I JUST WANT A NICE GUY" you are not being honest with peope on here. Well I don't want a nice guy.... Nice guys waiver when there is adversity. Nice guys will give me everything my heart desires, and I will tire of them quickly. Nice guys will over extend themselves and someone somewhere will have to pay the price for that. Nice guys will do whatever you want, even if they don't want to do it, and not always be happy about it, and ruin the good time I hd planned, when if they would have just stayed home in the first place everyone would have been happy. Nice guys will tell you anything and everything you want to hear, which to me is a LIE. Nice guys are afraid to hurt anyones feelings, so when that annoying person calls and wants to stop over for a visit, they let them. So do I want a nice guy...Hellz NO... I want a real MAN. I want the MAN who answers "Yes honey, your ass does look fat in that, put on that red dress, you look so sexy in that." I want the MAN who says to the annoying person "Oh we were going to stay in and spend quality time together tonight." I want the MAN who says "I would help you, but this is my first day off in a week, and I really need to get somethings done, however, I can help you tomorrow." I want the MAN who says "I don't like your attitude and until you can behave properly and show respect, I am going to have to ask you to refrain from speaking to me in that manner." I want the MAN who says "No baby, i really don't want to go to that new independant film you want to see, call your friends I'm sure they will go with you." I want the MAN who says "I do want to be with you and only you" and I trust that, becuase I know he doesn't lie....... |
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I'm not sticking up for what the guys saying, but I WILL say this: Not responding is just rude. If you're not interested, tell them. If you get too many responses to reply to all, make a copy-paste general purpose message. Nice guys tend to lose their niceness after being ignored over and over. From experience, I'll tell you that if I were to send a message to 30 women (just guessing here), I might get 1 reply back. Those odds are just inexcusable. The reply doesn't have to be "oh you're so cute!!!" it could be "sorry, you're a dork" and still better than no reply at all. It's interesting to me that none of you "nice guys" are sending messages to women like me. Nice guys apparently only like hot women. And I would think that if a guy is sending out messages to 30 women, it's going to be hard to be personal in each one. Many people don't respond to that kind of scattershot approach. If you are sending out 30 messages that say "hi. Nice pix.let's chat" you can't be offended if people don't take time to respond. If someone sends you an interesting, insightful note that shows he read your profile and appreciates something about you other than your picture, you may be more inclined to take the time to write back. I'm not trying to whine lol...and yes, I do send messages to women like you. I'm not sending "scattershot" messages, I personalize each one (as well as I can, considering most profiles don't have much information on them). I send messages to women with no picture in their profile, if the profile itself has something to say. And I'm no longer a "nice guy", that side of me has long been destroyed...now I just try to be a "good guy". and that is a good thing. In many ways, a good guy is more honest than a nice guy. We don't want people pleasers who are just trying to manipulate us into liking them and then get pissed at us when we don't. Perhaps the women you have sent your messages to are no longer active but have not deactivated their profiles. At least some of them, anyway. I'm not a nice girl anymore, either. 
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Enough with the quoting! Please delete what you do not need to be understood... I beg you.
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I'm not sticking up for what the guys saying, but I WILL say this: Not responding is just rude. If you're not interested, tell them. If you get too many responses to reply to all, make a copy-paste general purpose message. Nice guys tend to lose their niceness after being ignored over and over. From experience, I'll tell you that if I were to send a message to 30 women (just guessing here), I might get 1 reply back. Those odds are just inexcusable. The reply doesn't have to be "oh you're so cute!!!" it could be "sorry, you're a dork" and still better than no reply at all. I agree. I respond to all unless it's really nasty, & then I am sure they know why. "Nice rack" or "wanna cyber?" will be ignored if I am in a good mood, if I am in a bad mood, you will wish I had just ignored it. Rescue Mission over You have gone way deeper than I can even fathom Isn't that a good thing when a guy does that? Lmao... this lady is killer... How could she be single? Lol. umm.have you seen my "real" pics? |
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What a woman wants... hmmmmm. Do we know? I do not, not in a way I can accurately describe. I only know that I do not know what I need, only what I think I want. Those things are cetainly not the same. After sorting out all the bull and dealbreakers, it seems I am well suited to a person who does not "yes" me. A person who challenges me in a myriad of ways and a person who accepts me for my flaws and is also not afraid to point them out in a supportive and constructive way. There is passion, both physical and intellectual. That is what this woman wants. That's jist me.  edited for spelling correction* That sounds good to ne Lilith. |
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Would you like the window seat? or should we stand and hold the loops? that depends....are you a touchy-feely kinda person? lmao Lol... Well, I would touch and feel a kind person, just as quick as I would touch and feel a mean one... gotta allow for that...so we should stand and hold the 'loops' The most I might do is place my hand in the small of your back, to keep myself... I mean, you, steady... Blush blush blush... What happened to the motion of the ocean... Now where flying with the fuss of the bus... Lol. I love Econo-line... |
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Enough with the quoting! Please delete what you do not need to be understood... I beg you. what? |
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I'm mainly talking from experience from other dating sites, this one seems pretty good so far. Honestly, though, a lot of the "no response" thing can probably be attributed to fake profiles. Not all of them, but probably a lot of them. |
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Most women don't know what they want. Most guys don't either. True, which is why so many just list what they DON"T want. "been there, done that". so we are basically picking them by default Yeah I think so Hiker...hmmmmmm |
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Psst... not really a squirrel. |
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Enough with the quoting! Please delete what you do not need to be understood... I beg you. what? I mean to delete within the quotes all the extra stuff and only keep the most recent reference. All that is needed is one [ quote] and the [/ quote] (spaces inserted here so it'll show up. Please? It's so much easier to read...
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